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Heroes Community > Other Side of the Monitor > Thread: +++Confessions++++
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Leo_Lion
Leo_Lion


Honorable
Supreme Hero
The 5th Element & 6th Sense!
posted February 04, 2005 11:02 PM

Thanks for the feedback, T-A!

I understand your point of view on the whole "lingering on negative emotions" aspect. The only thing that I can say to explain this sort of behaviour and maybe to touch on Consis' & RealDeal's situations is:

"We're only human!"

As much as we like to feel good...I know it's weird but, we sometimes want to feel bad! I'm no expert on psychology, but it seems that when we know that we have done something "wrong", we punish ourselves in hope of making things “right”...I guess.

For me, I figure that as long as I feel “bad” whenever I do something that I consider "bad", I will still be human. If ever there comes a day when I can do evil things or maliciously hurt other people and not feel "bad" for doing them...or even worse, if doing these sorts of things actually makes me happy...then I will know that I have become inhuman.

I don't foresee myself becoming such a monster in my lifetime, but I can understand how there is a fine line between doing things that are JUST, and doing things that are JUSTIFIED! And once you begin justifying "questionable" decisions, you can become a real monster without even knowing it.
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Svarog
Svarog


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Supreme Hero
statue-loving necrophiliac
posted February 05, 2005 03:40 AM
Edited By: Svarog on 4 Feb 2005

This is for Consis: I probably shouldnt be mentioning this and spoil the pious atmosphere, but I really dont get why you're so sorry about that man. If he was fat and dishonorable at one point in his life, and hadnt been the tragedy that struck him, you'd still be convinced he's like that, that doesnt make him any less fat and dishonrable, right? Nothing in his actions made you change the way you think about him. He lost his son true, but how's that related to the worth of a man he is? And I dont see whats so particularly revealing about him hugging the Iraqi woman. Call me cynical, but to me it was only a vulgar stage performance to get Bush some pettiful support from those who understand politics as they do soap operas. The way I see it, if you arent sorry because you had a wrong impression about him, or because he changed himself to better, but only because his son (not him) died in Iraq, then apologizing is only a hypocrisy of an emotional soul.
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Consis
Consis


Honorable
Legendary Hero
Of Ruby
posted February 05, 2005 07:36 AM

Svarog,

You have a very valid point. I can't argue with your point.

I guess I sort of thought of him as less human the way he treated me. But when I hear his son is dead and I see the look in his eyes then I think he is human the same as me. I don't like his attitude but maybe I shouldn't think of him as lower than me.

Does that make sense?
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KittenAngel
KittenAngel


Supreme Hero
Lee's wifey
posted February 05, 2005 01:41 PM

Confessions can be really hard though, this I know very well. I am a person who never realized what I had done until it was too late. Like this latest confession I am about to make................

Back in september I hurt someone very dear to me, and that person would be Aculias. I did alot of horrible things and hurt him in so many way it is not even fathomable. It has taken alot for me to wake up and realize what all I have done to the man, and looking back at what I have done, it is hard for me to belive. I know words can never change what you do to someone or change ho they feel, but Manuel I am truely sorry for all the pain hurt and anguish I have caused you in your life. I know it does not make up for wha I have done, but I hope one day you an see that I am truely sorry for basically destroying your life.




Now time for veryone to flame come on!! I am awaiting i with arms wide open.
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RedSoxFan3
RedSoxFan3


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Fan of Red Sox
posted February 06, 2005 04:55 AM

I think you knew what you were doing, you just didn't care until now. I'd say you're trying to be more mature about things, but yet you still can't admit the entire truth, even in your confession, you aren't completely honest.

Don't get me wrong, it's definitely good that you apologized, but I think that considering what happened, you would know what you were doing.
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KittenAngel
KittenAngel


Supreme Hero
Lee's wifey
posted February 06, 2005 12:06 PM

no i know what i did, but there are some things that need to be left unsaid the parties involved know what happend and Manuel knows what I did I know what I did everyone somewhat knows what I did....I was wrong totally wrong.
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gorman
gorman


Promising
Legendary Hero
Been around since before 2003
posted February 06, 2005 01:03 PM

Quote:
no i know what i did....I was wrong totally wrong.


That there was probably all that really needed to be said. I wonder what would have happened if Acu never invited you over there? If you'd still be "together" or broken up and all that. Anyways, ur both broken up, happy where you are...in a sense of the word, so congrats to both of ya!

I've got a confession too. I hate HoMM3 cuz I really stink at the game. RSF proved that too me....and I hate him too. Well, not really, but boy did he kick my azz!
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Aculias
Aculias


Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
posted February 06, 2005 05:43 PM

Just play him in random, he cant handle those
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KittenAngel
KittenAngel


Supreme Hero
Lee's wifey
posted February 07, 2005 12:16 PM

Yeah things are good on my end, but still someone got hurt in the mist of it all.
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Aculias
Aculias


Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
posted February 07, 2005 10:37 PM

You are one of the most cold hearted person I ever met in my life.

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KittenAngel
KittenAngel


Supreme Hero
Lee's wifey
posted February 08, 2005 09:05 AM

you have every right to say that, but you don't know me now so.
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RedSoxFan3
RedSoxFan3


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Fan of Red Sox
posted February 08, 2005 10:38 AM

Quote:

you have every right to say that, but you don't know me now so.


NOW????

Yeah like anyone believes that. lol

Man what's wrong with me? I shouldn't be saying stuff like this about you, because you've changed and none of us know you anymore. lol
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Dingo
Dingo


Responsible
Legendary Hero
God of Dark SPAM
posted February 08, 2005 03:21 PM

Oh, the sitcom starts again...
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KittenAngel
KittenAngel


Supreme Hero
Lee's wifey
posted February 08, 2005 04:39 PM

RSF I understand everyones doubt all I am asking is for y'all to watch and see and then judge me for now not the past, is that so hard to ask? I am telling you all I am not and will NEVER be that cold hearted biatch ever again.
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Aculias
Aculias


Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
posted February 08, 2005 04:47 PM

Quote:
but still someone got hurt in the mist of it all.

I had to reply to this cold hearted woman.

Alright cat you want to play innocent, lets catch the lies since you been here & how I know,about your RL now, I have more one source lol.

Lets see, your great miraculous Job, Mcdonalds.
Your Daughter, Nope not anymore, nor can you have kids because they be taken from ya but heh at least one of you in the mist of it all can see the kids LOL.

Great car, that I dont know but i can bet my next paycheck you have a little beater.

I heard you been going to church,God forgives those but god cant forgive those who dont learn from thier own mistakes & you dont forget that before you keep using his wisdom of forgiveness.
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Leo_Lion
Leo_Lion


Honorable
Supreme Hero
The 5th Element & 6th Sense!
posted February 08, 2005 10:12 PM

Kitten,

I respect the fact that you were able to confess AND APOLOGIZE for things that you did, when you were a different person. I respect you even more for taking all of the negative feedback from others, while still trying to say that you are sorry.

It takes sensitivity to realise that you have done something immoral or cruel, and it takes lots of courage to take responsibility for your actions. But, it takes determination to follow through on your courage and apologize to those that were negatively impacted by your actions.

We have all made many mistakes over the course of our lives and we have not all realised that we even made them. Few of us have taken responsibility for our mistakes, and unfortunately, even fewer have tried to "right their wrongs".

N.B.This Thread has the purpose of giving people an opportunity to "clean the slate" and express regret for their actions, thoughts, or feelings. I don't mind people giving the members (that confess here) feedback about what they did or about their confession; but I would appreciate it if these same people kept an open mind and did not seek to hurt the confessing member.

As it says a famous "book":

"Let thee who has never sinned cast the 1st stone!"
or
"Do onto others as you would like to have done to you!"

We have all done things that we regret and we have all been victims of hurtful people. So, as morally sensitive human beings, we should seek to rise above these things and forgive one another and more importantly, forgive OURSELVES.
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*Take care, Leo

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Aculias
Aculias


Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
posted February 09, 2005 03:13 AM

Well if your supposed to have this great job, then why dont you try paying me back which we all know you wont, So I wont have to read IYY"s attacks on me about spending 1000 bucks on an online friend.
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Conan
Conan


Responsible
Supreme Hero
posted February 09, 2005 03:25 AM

Please read Léo's post before you post.
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Consis
Consis


Honorable
Legendary Hero
Of Ruby
posted February 09, 2005 03:53 AM

Aculias,

I had so much respect for you but now.... I can't believe you would say such things. I can't believe you said what you did. That's low. First you insult her because she doesn't have a job that pays a lot of money. Then you coldly remind her that her kids have been taken from her. And then you mock her religious beliefs. I thought you were more of a man than that. Where is your honor?

Even if you are right, how does that solve anything? How will you change her? I believe that a person can only change if they choose it within his/her self. Insulting a person only makes him/her feel worse. Maybe you don't know her as well as you thought. Everyone has their own problems in life. We all do. YOU KNOW THAT. You are a man that knows how hard life can be. You should know that people will only change when the time is right; and some people never change. Isn't it true that some people once thought the same about you? Haven't you got your own struggles? If you want to help her then try accepting who she is; not the person you want her to be.
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darksparkle
darksparkle


Hired Hero
Quote the raven,
posted February 09, 2005 04:40 AM

I totally agree with you consis.

Acu, that was really REALLY low. She apologized, didn't she? Accept it and get on with your life! Life is too short to make someone feel guilty when theyve already apologized for what theyve done.

Carpe diem.

~Raivyn~
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