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Aculias
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posted April 15, 2006 01:38 PM |
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Over Sensetive Women
Why does every women seem so sensetive that they have to B about everythang & whos the first person they yell at?
The closest person to them mainly BF,Hubby etc.
First you love me Yaaaa, then you hate me yaaayaaaa.
Thats ok.
Then when you bring it up on here, they totally deny it & make it like you did somethang wrong & thier never right.
I mean comeon what makes a woman actually happy.
I mean it cant just be loyalty & love,etc because they seem to never be happy orless they been married 55 yrs.
Thier all the same if from Australia or California  .
How do you deal with it?
You just do the best you can while getting yelled at.
If we cant handle it then we might as well be single .
Who can figure women out.
Any man knows then lets hear it because one minute they are happy then 5 minutes later thier mad at you to heck lol.
Or vice versa.
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Korejora
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posted April 15, 2006 01:46 PM |
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C'mon, you know you love us when we're difficult.
See ?? 
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Aculias
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posted April 15, 2006 01:46 PM |
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loool true.Unfortunately lol.
Is there any other way?
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Korejora
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posted April 15, 2006 02:02 PM |
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Any other way?? Don't look at me, I don't know... have you ever tried giving them presents when they get mad or something ?
But if you think ... they'd have to be mad about something ... maybe unintentional neglect over looong periods of time just turns into this kind of thing and it gets sooo blown out of proportion.
Solve the problem when it's small and you're set eh ? Or maybe that's just 6 a.m. and no sleep talking ...
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tigris
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posted April 15, 2006 02:08 PM |
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or maybe it's ur "little" errection problem, Acu
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Aculias
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posted April 15, 2006 02:08 PM |
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No complaints your Tigerless
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Valeriy
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posted April 15, 2006 03:26 PM |
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Sometimes it is that we are attracted to the wrong kind of women, and see the good ones as boring - no drama, no heartache... yawn...
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RedSoxFan3
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posted April 15, 2006 04:02 PM |
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OH! Val says we have bad taste! What a douche.
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Aculias
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posted April 15, 2006 09:45 PM |
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THen I guess we all piuck wrong & you cant say that yours is perfect Val lol.
Gifts well sure but then it has to be the exact gift she wants & you dont know what it is.
Then you have to figure out the little stuff thats wrong then when you do figure it out, it's too late
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kookastar
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posted April 15, 2006 10:35 PM |
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LOL Acu!
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Then you have to figure out the little stuff thats wrong then when you do figure it out, it's too late
You know I laughed when I read this because that was prob me at times when I was like 14! I have since learnt it's all about communication. Seem that's your prob.
IMHO:
I now know that our brains work a little differently, and that we can replay a scenario constantly until it reaches a point where we will explode. I now don't expect a man to guess what's going on. I don't wait for him to come to me. I can't - I just tell him straight, it can then get sorted and it is over before it turns into a nightmare.
When I was 14, it was all about trying to make the other person feel as bad as I did, once that was achieved I was happy. Now I just try to make us both happy in the first place 
While you are getting along well, tell your chick you're only a mere male and that you never intentionally set out to make her unhappy, and ask her to tell you the second you do/say something that upsets her.
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Valeriy
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posted April 16, 2006 12:16 PM |
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Hey, I said we, meaning from personal experience 
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Nidhgrin
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posted April 16, 2006 02:35 PM |
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Well, imo without a bit of tension things tend to get boring. When things get boring partners lose interest to the point where you're behaving more like friends than actual lovers. Have seen this happen more than actually experiencing it but it's equally bad I guess 
When there are too many conflicts, or when the conflicts there are start to demand more energy than you can get out of the relationship, usually at some point one partner has had enough and breaks up. In my opinion there are two important things to prevent this from happening.
- If there are things which you really can't accept from your partner but of which you think this will improve over time, either learn to accept it or leave the relationship before it gets too serious. You can't force anyone to change, and probably if there really are things you can't cope with, they're not the right person for you anyway
- Like Kookastar already said, talk. Talk, talk, talk and talk things out before they bottle up inside and blow up like a bomb. Communication is the foundation of any successful relationship imho, and once you stop talking, pretty much all is lost
On a sidenote, these new smileys are totally zen!
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zebellah
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posted April 16, 2006 04:31 PM |
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the most thing that makes a girl crazy is being ignored I guess. when my girlfriend come to my home I used to go out to play computer games with my friends after a certain time and this made her crazy , but now I learned 
the thing I wanna tell it is not about girls it^s all about you
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Aculias
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posted April 16, 2006 11:42 PM |
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You can totally love a person & no one else & still argue like that Nidhgrin
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TNT_Addict
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posted April 16, 2006 11:48 PM |
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Russ
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posted April 17, 2006 05:59 PM |
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Nidhgrin
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posted April 17, 2006 06:16 PM |
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You can totally love a person & no one else & still argue like that Nidhgrin
I know Acu, story of my life
Going a long way trying to make things work and still she treats you like ****? Imho there is where you have to draw boundaries for yourself no one is allowed to cross, not even the woman you love. On how to make sure she respects those boundaries when you're in love I suggest you turn to others for advice
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Valeriy
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posted April 18, 2006 02:49 AM |
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I feel you man. Sometimes if you try to make it work with someone you have to not love yourself and that's not the way to go  Sadomasochism 
But I think those are the undersensitive women 
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pandora
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posted August 11, 2006 05:51 AM |
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Damned women!!! 
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"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
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kookastar
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posted August 18, 2006 10:26 AM |
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But I think those are the undersensitive women
Undersensitive women - do they exist?
Undersensitive women - Are they needed?
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