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Heroes Community > Other Side of the Monitor > Thread: Why is life that hard sometimes?
Thread: Why is life that hard sometimes? [ This thread is 6 pages long: (1) 2 3 4 5 6 ]
angelito
angelito

Hero of Order
proud father of a princess
posted December 06, 2007 07:09 AM

Why is life that hard sometimes?

Many of you saw the pictures of my baby which was born on november 29th. She is doing very well....but the mother doesn't...

My wife suffered an apoplectic stroke in the evening of tuesday (2 days ago). A bloodvessel bursted in her brain all of a sudden. The doctors in the hospital (a very good hospital refering to neurolgy) have put her in a coma in the night to make sure all her inner values keep stable.

I was on her side on tuesday evening when that happened. She complained about vicious headache all of a sudden, which made her start crying and screaming. And when the nurses came, she didn't talk anymore....uncontrolled movement of her arms, set eyes...and only a wailing came out of her mouth the whole time.

Due to the fact this hopsital is mainly for women giving birth to children, they immediately called the emergency ambulance to bring her in a special hospital.

She is in the "intensive care unit" of the neurolgy now, and I am allowed to visit her for 1.5 hours a day (from 2.30 pm to 4 pm). They will bring her back from the coma today they told me yesterday and see how things proceed.

My wife is 25 years old.....
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LKru33
LKru33


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posted December 06, 2007 07:22 AM

Buddy, I am very very sorry to hear that you are going through something like this.  I can't even imagine how hard that must be.  I experienced the birth of my son last summer and was a nervous wreck just hoping that everything went ok without too many problems.  I really don't know what to say except to hang in there and that I will pray for her and your family.  
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roy-algriffin
roy-algriffin


Supreme Hero
Chocolate ice cream zealot
posted December 06, 2007 08:15 AM
Edited by roy-algriffin at 08:16, 06 Dec 2007.

I can do little but say i wish you and her the best of luck. These things sometime happen i guess. Hopefully shes being given painkillers, because in the end pain is probably the worst thing in these situations.
Hopefully she will be better soon. I can only hope you dont take it too hard as your child needs you . Though its hard to remember that soemtimes. Remember thta if you act calmly its more likely that your baby will also feel better.
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SirDunco
SirDunco


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posted December 06, 2007 09:36 AM

I am so sorry to hear this. Sometimes things in life just suddenly shift absolutely cynically and just knock the wind out of you. I know that there is not much that I can do, but I wish your wife to be very strong, who needs to battle through this. Hang in there man, be strong, you too need to claw through this, do not let yourself drop down.
I hope that she will soon recover and soon you will all be together again.
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pandora
pandora


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posted December 06, 2007 10:19 AM

I am so sorry to hear this, there's just no words to say. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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TheDeath
TheDeath


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with serious business
posted December 06, 2007 11:17 AM
Edited by TheDeath at 11:18, 06 Dec 2007.

I don't think I can say anything for it will only add unnecessary pessimism right now, but I'm really sorry to hear that

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Spectrum
Spectrum


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Plan B
posted December 06, 2007 11:34 AM

I'm so sorry, Angelito... It might cheer you up to hear that my grandfather went through the exact same thing a few years back, and he's fully recovered now. And he was 70 years old. I hope your wife's young age helps her in recovering. Apart from that, all I can say is, hang in there and I'll be thinking about you and praying!
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bixie
bixie


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my common sense is tingling!
posted December 06, 2007 12:41 PM

i am sorry, from the bottom of my heart, to hear this, Angelito.
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executor
executor


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posted December 06, 2007 01:36 PM
Edited by executor at 13:39, 06 Dec 2007.

I will limit myself that I am sorry and I will pray for all of you, especially your wife.
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Binabik
Binabik


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posted December 06, 2007 03:22 PM

I'm sorry to hear this. I went through this 3 years ago with my father. My thoughts are with you. Take care of your own health too.

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bloucester
bloucester


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MSN can go to hell
posted December 06, 2007 03:57 PM

I've no words, I really don't know what to say. Let us pray for the best... So many horrible things this December...

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GenieLord
GenieLord


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Geny is Kapara
posted December 06, 2007 04:49 PM

That's terrible to hear that. I'm so sorry. I hope she'll recover quickly.
It must be very hard for you as well...

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Antipaladin
Antipaladin


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of Ooohs and Aaahs
posted December 06, 2007 05:04 PM

Angelito,we are all here,none of us could posible understand the pain and agony your going though,but we can atleast support you,and hear you out,we are for you,each and every one of us.
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Baklava
Baklava


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Mostly harmless
posted December 06, 2007 05:23 PM

This is the one thing everyone on HC is united about...
We're all with you and will pray to whatever is up there for everything to turn out alright.
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is. When you ain't got no
money,
you got the blues."
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guitarguy
guitarguy


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Rockoon.
posted December 06, 2007 05:25 PM

I'm very sorry to hear that, Angelito. I hope everything will turn out alright. Stay strong and know that you're not alone in this troubling time.

-Guitarguy
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TitaniumAlloy
TitaniumAlloy


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Professional
posted December 06, 2007 07:00 PM

Life is cruel in that you can be so happy one moment and in such pain the next...
I am very sorry Angelito.
We all hope that she is alright
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Shadowcaster
Shadowcaster


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Supreme Hero
Shaded Scribe
posted December 06, 2007 07:07 PM

Wow, man. I wish there were something I could say to make things better for you, but know that I'll be praying. Try to stay strong, okay?
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Daystar
Daystar


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Back from the Dead
posted December 06, 2007 08:16 PM

My prayers are with you and your family.  Be strong.
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william
william


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LummoxLewis
posted December 06, 2007 09:27 PM

Hey Angelito, I am very sorry to hear that this has happened to you and your wife.

It must be very hard, but all you can do is pray that she comes out all good. I hope she does, and I hope that everything turns out fine for you.


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dimis
dimis


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Digitally signed by FoG
posted December 06, 2007 10:15 PM

There are cases in life when you can say nothing because you are amazed of what you are going through. This is one of the times. I wish you all my best and the quickest possible recovery for your wife. Let us know of her recovery in this very same thread asap!
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