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posted March 23, 2009 08:39 PM |
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Ah, I see. You're like my opposite when it comes to taste then, Joonas 
Goth girl seem very uninteresting to me, and "bad girls" seem "wannabe men" to me 
Wannabe men and bad girls are a different thing. You've got learn to tell them apart. 
One of the most annoyoing chick type has got to be the wannabe bad girls.
"OOH, I'm so evil! Look at me!"
Trying to be something they aren't is pathetic.
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posted March 23, 2009 08:46 PM |
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If you mean the devil inside, hell yeah, I just faced one like that you know and I must say, it works 
But it works best with a shell of innocence, you know. 
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posted March 23, 2009 09:01 PM |
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If you mean the devil inside, hell yeah, I just faced one like that you know and I must say, it works
But it works best with a shell of innocence, you know.
Devil inside is exactly what I mean. Grrr...
Another great character in a woman is temperament. No better way than a good fight (light physicals are the best) to raise the flame. 
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posted March 23, 2009 09:38 PM |
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Well, I do happen to "possess" a GF with a devil inside. i don't think it's that good. Yeah, you can indeed realize all those wicked fantasies and she will allow it & even like it, but look at the dark side.
You're constantly feeling insecure. You never know what will the ultra big libido force her to do ~~ Pretty tiresome, if you ask me. I'm not the jealous type, not at all, but heck, I constantly have a bad feeling about all of this.
So, you may actually want a girl of mediocre attractiveness and libido for a stable relationship. That's what I suddenly started to think. yeah, may be a bit boring.. but at least no goofy feelings and premonitions. 
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posted March 24, 2009 07:47 AM |
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Well, I do happen to "possess" a GF with a devil inside. i don't think it's that good. Yeah, you can indeed realize all those wicked fantasies and she will allow it & even like it, but look at the dark side.
You're constantly feeling insecure. You never know what will the ultra big libido force her to do ~~ Pretty tiresome, if you ask me. I'm not the jealous type, not at all, but heck, I constantly have a bad feeling about all of this.
So, you may actually want a girl of mediocre attractiveness and libido for a stable relationship. That's what I suddenly started to think. yeah, may be a bit boring.. but at least no goofy feelings and premonitions.
Well, a woman like that needs a matching guy. I was a bit on the wild side in my teens and I had a GF who was all fire and steel.
We weren't exactly what one would call a normal couple. We did a lot of things that at best would have gotten us to jail had we been caught. We never were. I still wonder how we got so lucky.
We also fought constantly, both verbally and even physically. But like I said before, no better way to make the flame rise than a good fight. We both enjoed the fighting as weird as it sounds. And I'm pretty sure that on some unconcious level we did it on purpose.
This might sound like a horrible relationship to you most but it was everything but that. We would have done almost anything for each other. (and we did quite a lot) Now I'we never trusted anyone fully but to her I would have trusted my life and that's pretty much. We were together for two years till she moved to Holland with her parents after we finished upper grade.
I'm not saying there wasn't a huge amount of pure lust in our relationship but I blame great deal of that two years on trust.
You should learn to trust your GF DF even though it might be hard.
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posted March 24, 2009 09:31 AM |
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Goth and 'dark' girls. Just as some women go for the 'dangerous' men, some men (and women ) go for the dangerous women. I find goth and bad girls rather sexy, but innocent is much much more fun. I don't know what it is about trying to turn the innocent little flower to the 'dark side' but even if it is 'roleplaying' (and no not d&d) it is very enticing. 'School girl', 'Librarian'...hmm ok I better stop before crossing the CoC line.
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posted March 24, 2009 11:05 AM |
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Joonas:
I'm not sure if I ever can learn to trust her  As I said in the love thread.. too much lust.
And as for the fighting.. nope, that's definitively not for me. I hate to fight (unless against men both with arguments and fists) and I feel really bad about it. I wouldn't stand an aggressive type. And physical aggression? oh my. Never. Any woman that would dare to hit me would instantly lose a "woman" status. That means she would really regret it >_>
Fortunately my GF is not aggressive at all.
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posted March 24, 2009 11:17 AM |
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Then you are missing out a little. Agressive girls initiate sex more. Ok straying offtopic again. Hmm what is attractive? Confidence that doesn't border on arrogence. Sense of humor. Open mindedness. Overlooking the small flaws... this is of course in addition to what I previously posted.
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posted March 24, 2009 11:21 AM |
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...and a smile that turns your bad day all around
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posted March 24, 2009 11:35 AM |
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Ok question. Do you more enjoy the sexy 'come hither' smile, the genuine smile, or the smirk?
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posted March 24, 2009 11:40 AM |
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Then you are missing out a little. Agressive girls initiate sex more.
Uhh, to be honest, it works the other way round in my relationship
And I agree with Mytical's list of character features - yeah, those are pretty universal feats that look good on anybody, both men and women.
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posted March 24, 2009 12:01 PM |
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Ok question. Do you more enjoy the sexy 'come hither' smile, the genuine smile, or the smirk?
If I had to choose I'd pick the genuine smile, then the sexy one and lastly the smirk
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posted March 24, 2009 12:07 PM |
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Hmm my partners always put my smiles into:
Smirk = Dangerous. It's gonna hurt, but it will be worth it.
Sexy = Caution. Won't hurt near as much, can be fun.
Genuine = Safe.
Some prefer the Smirk, some the sexy, but all feel safer with the genuine.
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posted March 24, 2009 12:13 PM |
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I prefer genuine smile too.
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posted March 24, 2009 12:14 PM |
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Edited by veco at 12:19, 24 Mar 2009.
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Sexy = Caution. Won't hurt near as much, can be fun.
I understand that the sexy one is some sort of mind control device in this case.
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besides I doubt a smirk or a sexy smile would have made my day
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posted March 24, 2009 12:27 PM |
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Hmm my partners always put my smiles into
Is that the present or was that from a while back? Just curious.
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posted March 24, 2009 01:09 PM |
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DF
Too much lust? So yuo're afraid she'll cheat on you? Well that's a healthy base for a relationship. If you're going to be paranoid for the rest of your relationship there's no way it'll last. You'll have to learn to trust her. I don't think you have any other choice. 
What I meant with devil inside wasn't lust to sex only, like you seemed to understand, I meant the behavior and her nature. Not sure how I'd best explain. Examples I guess. Ever seen someone put kittens in a bag and shoot them with a shotgun? Okay, that was a little extreme since you don't know the circumstances. I'll try something else. You know the kind of people that do anything they want and dont think how it effects others? We were that kind of couple, we only cared for each other.(that we did a huge amount btw. I've only seen her show gentle side to me, no others), No matter if others got hurt as long as we had good time. Breaking and entering? Check. Fighting? Check. Stealing? Check. You get the point.
As to the fighting with her, what can I say?  We just enjoyed it somehow, besides the sex afterwards is just...something you have to experience yourself.
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That is a really good guestion. I'm going to have to say the smile that she has when she has something planned for your demise but it also tells you're going to like it. What does that qualify as? The smirk?
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posted March 24, 2009 02:36 PM |
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Too much lust? So yuo're afraid she'll cheat on you? Well that's a healthy base for a relationship. If you're going to be paranoid for the rest of your relationship there's no way it'll last. You'll have to learn to trust her. I don't think you have any other choice.
Can't fight my own premonitions No matter how hard she tried to convince me she cares, I'd still be sure it's just a game for her.
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I've only seen her show gentle side to me, no others), No matter if others got hurt as long as we had good time. Breaking and entering? Check. Fighting? Check. Stealing? Check. You get the point.
Oh, I see. The "partner in a crime" type of girl Nah, they just... idk, I don't like it.
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As to the fighting with her, what can I say? We just enjoyed it somehow, besides the sex afterwards is just...something you have to experience yourself.
My friend is exactly like you: he likes to fight and to enjoy great sex afterwards. For me, sex after an argument would be sad, pitiful... I don't know whether I would even manage it, if you get my drift But again, that's me. I hate arguments, I hate fighting with people I like. I have enemies or other random suckers for that.
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posted March 24, 2009 03:12 PM |
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Is that the present or was that from a while back? Just curious.
Both. Remember that my relationships are not what most people call normal. I'm dating one woman, in what most people term a normal relagtionship (movies, dinner, cuddling, etc). However, she also knows and is friends with a 'part time' lover. Who I am in a Dom/sub relationship with. Oh and the woman I am dating is also dating another guy. So it is not exactly a 'normal' relationship, as I don't do jealousy. Think it is an archaic emotion that would be best buried and forgotten.
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posted March 24, 2009 03:29 PM |
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Well, maybe in time you'll learn to trust her.
...or she'll prove your premonitions true.
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Oh, I see. The "partner in a crime" type of girl Nah, they just... idk, I don't like it.
That's because such a girl isn't going to fit into your Luna fantasies...
...or maybe you just haven't met the right 15-year old.
What can I say for the fighting? Some people just are weird that way. Or maybe it's the adrenaline. That would actually make sense since I'm pretty sensitive to that stuff.
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