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posted January 01, 2009 09:07 PM |
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@emilsn: Way to go! 
Told you so! 
@Dagoth: 
At my end, haven't heard from her in weeks... 
Aye, the life of a geek is so oxymoronic... 
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emilsn
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posted January 01, 2009 10:47 PM |
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She is coming by tomorrow I am excited.. 
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winterfate
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posted January 01, 2009 10:56 PM |
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@emilsn: Sweet!
This time, kiss her while you're not drunk.
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DagothGares
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posted January 01, 2009 10:59 PM |
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If she forgot everything...
Just hold her and... Okay, okay, I'm out. Too much for me too take it. People are already suspecting I have a heart! *runs* *fkees*
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posted January 01, 2009 11:17 PM |
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Aye, the life of a geek is so oxymoronic...
Geeks are awesome. But I know, I'm one of them
I thought you're into biology, not computers 
that makes you a nerd
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posted January 02, 2009 12:35 AM |
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@TheDeath: Geek. Nerd. Might as well be the same when it involves me...
(I never did know there was a difference anyways. Everyone I know uses the terms interchangeably.  )
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TheDeath
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posted January 02, 2009 01:58 AM |
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Geek = computer nerd.. From my experience (in real life, not in "movie stereotypes") they are a lot less likely to be 'dorks'
but don't take 'dork' so heavily lol, forget all the stupid stereotypes.
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posted January 03, 2009 09:02 AM |
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Spent whole day with.. From 13.00 to 1.30 
We had a good time but why don't I feel like I am in love? Annoys me because she is sweet and I like her...
And one little problem - that I am so close to making a huge problem - She has an ex and that means she kinda is no virgin - so now I am the only who would suck - Should I worry about that?
And Winterfate I did kiss her as sober..
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posted January 03, 2009 09:05 AM |
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We had a good time but why don't I feel like I am in love? Annoys me because she is sweet and I like her...
Awww...
Anyway, I wouldn't care about the virgin thing (open-minded, silly me). I would mind the above part more, since I know from personal experience that can suck. But as long as you're not in love with anyone else, this isn't really bad or has real consequences to it...
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posted January 03, 2009 09:15 AM |
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@emilsn:
As for your question, Dagoth is right.
Also, nothing wrong with being a virgin. 
*waits for the inevitable counterarguments to the second statement*
So just relax and enjoy what you're living. I can only imagine the fun you're having now.
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posted January 03, 2009 05:44 PM |
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This post contains my opinion, don't make a fuss out of it:
First who said that if she had an ex, she is no virgin?
Second, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. In fact I would say, it's better.
Don't get me wrong, I am not the 'usual' guy who says that being a virgin is necessarily a virtue (although sometimes it is). However, the problem is not whether you are or not, but HOW you "lose" it. If you lose it without actual love (like most spoiled and irresponsible teens do, consequently they aren't even in a serious relationship --> break up soon), then it's shameful. Period. Love indeed makes blind if you love today and tomorrow you don't. In fact it IS NOT even love unless you are in a serious relationship (and don't, for example, 'switch' boyfriends/girlfriends like you would switch hair style). 'relationship' means even if you two aren't talking to each other (suppose, you have a job far away), but at least you do love him/her regardless -- it's still love.
Otherwise it simply isn't. It's only your blindness that calls it 'love', but it is NOT. And losing virginity for that is extremely shameful. That is why usually 'virginity is considered a virtue', even though by itself it is not. The opposite of virtue is when you lose it not for actual love. I would say even degenerated but I'd be extreme
(i.e the question is not "are you a virgin or not?" but "why/how did you lose it?", the answer to the latter makes it virtuous or not; if it's not "for TRUE love" (like 90% of the teens do, but isn't surprising given their irresponsibility, which increases more and more every day) then... you get the idea)
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posted January 03, 2009 07:38 PM |
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She has an ex and that means she kinda is no virgin - so now I am the only who would suck
What? You mean being a virgin would make you suck?
lol? Selfconfidence? Anything? Dude that thinking is just wrong lol. Who cares wether you're a virgin or not? Nobody. It's not like it's a charactertrait people notice lol (well sometimes it is if you behave like a know it all about sex people who know what they're talking about will know you're a virgin^^).
But seriously what's the boarder? Doesn't matter one bit. Just don't lose it because only because you want to have sex... atleast it ended pretty ****ing messed up for me. Just relax and go with the flow .
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posted January 03, 2009 08:36 PM |
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If virginity is a problem, get rid of it. You can do it for cash, you know. Better than to torment yourself and ruin a chance for relationship "because I'm pure and she isn't". Bah. it's no Final Fantasy. it's just life
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posted January 03, 2009 08:45 PM |
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Bah. it's no Final Fantasy. it's just life
And that's why "life" ain't going to change, because of that thinking
That's like saying "Hey, this program is open-source, so I guess someone should have looked at it seeing it's a virus" -- if everyone thinks like that, they could just as well put the virus in plain sight and everyone to get infected.
The first step is to stop thinking "everyone else does it, I won't make a difference" (e.g: like pollution) because if everyone thinks like that because of that, yes you do make a difference
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posted January 03, 2009 08:49 PM |
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and what difference can I make in that matter? "Keep clean" ? nah. Sorry. Pointless :/
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TheDeath
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posted January 03, 2009 09:01 PM |
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I was talking in general -- that the kind of thinking is wrong (i.e "what difference will I make?")
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posted January 03, 2009 09:04 PM |
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Not in this case. It's not a global effect. It's different for every person you meet. Thus, it really IS useless to think my morals, or the lack of it, can change the world
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posted January 03, 2009 09:08 PM |
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Once gain, I wonder why do you find it 'clean'. As if the ones who have sex was 'unlean' in some way. There's no evil in this act and people who have lost virginity are not inferior. It's just natural, the way this world turns round.
As an egoist I did it just for myself, on the second plafe for her, not for or against any ideals. But maybe it's just me, as a materialist I find eveyr virtue virtual
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She has an ex and that means she kinda is no virgin - so now I am the only who would suck - Should I worry about that?
That may be a problem, but it just happens and you have to deal with it like a man Just make sure she feels like doing it before taking serious steps.
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First who said that if she had an ex, she is no virgin?
The more I read you, the more I sense you prefer 14-year old girls? 
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The first step is to stop thinking "everyone else does it, I won't make a difference"
I did. I do. This way achieved great results on many areas, but on the other hand no one understands my point. But that's the subject of another discussion.
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TheDeath
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posted January 03, 2009 09:14 PM |
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Once gain, I wonder why do you find it 'clean'. As if the ones who have sex was 'unlean' in some way. There's no evil in this act and people who have lost virginity are not inferior. It's just natural, the way this world turns round.
"evil"? Why do you try to emphasize it? It's just immoral by some standards. Clean standards, like you wouldn't show your kid how someone eats his own ****, I dunno, I just find that immoral. You can be different.
I'm tired of the natural argument. It's not natural. Nature put it for reproduction. Nature is smart, it has specific purposes. It is rational in its own way. What we do is called "abuse". Like abusing a computer program which was designed for security to use it for entertainment. Sure thing you may say it's fine, but it's not original (or 'natural', in the case of nature). If you want that design a different program.
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The more I read you, the more I sense you prefer 14-year old girls?
The more I read you, the more you sound like a macho guy
yes indeed I know, it's hard for you to imagine such people exist in this degenerated day and age, but try to imagine... few are
what's funny is that I read in an article, guys have a lot higher percent and are mostly spoiled brats and think (by the age of 16 or so) much more inclined to think like you. Thankfully, they say girls are more mature, and thankfully, I'm a straight guy so I should not be too troubled that guys are immature and want sex mostly for the pleasure of it, since guys don't affect me that much. (I'm not gay)
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posted January 03, 2009 09:16 PM |
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You should really come to Poland, Death. People are like rabbits here You would understand Warmonger's remark about 14yo virgins better. 
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