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ohforfsake
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Initiate
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posted June 16, 2010 11:04 PM |
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Routines themselves are not bad, it's only if you think they're, that they become so. Some people, like me, find great comfort in some routines and that things stay the same in general. Sure it might loose its meaning to you, so the two of us would probably be a poor match, because it certainly does not to me, for me it's as meaningful as the previous 2540 times I was told and re-told it. 
Edit: Dagoth, press the smiley, if you please.
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted June 16, 2010 11:06 PM |
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I'm exactly the same as you, Ohforf, in that regard. My Fiancé is exactly the same as well so it works out perfectly. lol!
Dagoth, it was done on the very first post. lollll so you were still late then. 
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waste the hours in an off-hand
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Doomforge
Admirable
Undefeatable Hero
Retired Hero
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posted June 16, 2010 11:29 PM |
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Yeah I understand you, it can be nice at first but it ends up tedious, systematic, forced. Love should be spontaneous and not necessarily tied to cellphone bills 
And I agree with emil... saying I love you every day... idk, I think it would water down the meaning of the word  I don't mind some nice words for goodnight&goodmorning though, my gf really likes those. But they aren't like that, more like "sweet dreams" or something.
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JoonasTo
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Undefeatable Hero
What if Elvin was female?
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posted June 17, 2010 07:57 AM |
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It isn't a thing to worry about emilsn.
I for one aren't one for words. I find it much better to have a comfortable silence and peace.
Then again. Maybe that's just the reason to worry.
Oh and this thread indeed needs more
BABY DON'T HURT, DON'T HURT ME! NO MORE!
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mvassilev
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posted June 17, 2010 09:04 AM |
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Emilsn, instead of (or in addition to) telling us that, why don't you tell her? In a more diplomatic way, of course.
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emilsn
Legendary Hero
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posted June 17, 2010 11:47 AM |
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Yeah
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
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Elvin
Admirable
Omnipresent Hero
Endless Revival
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posted June 17, 2010 11:50 AM |
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DagothGares
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
No gods or kings
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posted June 17, 2010 11:52 AM |
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Carcity
Supreme Hero
Blind Sage
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posted June 17, 2010 02:28 PM |
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Hi guys, I feel the need to write something here, just, you know, to get it out.
OK so there is this girl, I've been taking a liking to her for several months now, multiple times I've tried making approaches, both bigger and smaller, sometimes she responds to them, and sometimes she refuses them, this makes me kind of confused, since she seems to be sending approaches to me just as often as I do to her. I'm not sure how she feels, but I feel I want to know.
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Why can't you save anybody?
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wog_edn
Promising
The Nothingness
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posted June 17, 2010 02:44 PM |
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Ask her out.
Simple as that, if you get a yes then go for it ... if you get a no, well, that's a good hint too!
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War-overlord
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Presidente of Isla del Tropico
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posted June 17, 2010 02:47 PM |
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Oh, I'm feeling you carcity.
I have something similar with a girl at work for about 4 years now, mostly small indications though.
Nothing has come from it so far, but that is partially to blame on the fact that I'm not sure wether to take it seriously. I'm very fond of her, but I know her to be a practical joker. So this whole interaction might just be a game/joke for her.
I also noticed that she seems more inclined when we happen to meet eachother outside of work.
The problem for me is mostly that I have to work with her several days a week and if I try to make a pass at her and it fails, it would make our working relation rather awkward.
So I would suggest, for what it is worth, to do the same thing I do: Roll with it and see where it ends. But keep you're eyes open, someone else might be slipping through your fingers if you stare yourself blind on her.
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Carcity
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Blind Sage
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posted June 17, 2010 03:19 PM |
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@Wog, I probably will, just to get it over with.
@Overlord, now that school's ended, I will see her a lot less, so I'll probably try wog's way, but atleast I'll try to keep in contact with her.
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wog_edn
Promising
The Nothingness
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posted June 17, 2010 03:26 PM |
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Walking around sending signals usually doesn't work, as most are afraid to be wrong about those signals so then nothing happens ... better to just go for it! Good luck!
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Carcity
Supreme Hero
Blind Sage
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posted June 17, 2010 03:41 PM |
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Yeah, will do, thanks.
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Why can't you save anybody?
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emilsn
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posted June 17, 2010 07:20 PM |
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Btw sex is good
Oh and Carcity - do what your heart tells you do !!
Or as in Yugioh - follow the heart in the cards!
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
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mvassilev
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posted June 17, 2010 07:45 PM |
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so there is this girl
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15 year old
Don't bother. That's my advice.
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OmegaDestroyer
Hero of Order
Fox or Chicken?
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posted June 17, 2010 07:50 PM |
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What is love? A dark-haired beauty making me sushi for dinner tonight. 
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The giant has awakened
You drink my blood and drown
Wrath and raving I will not stop
You'll never take me down
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Doomforge
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Undefeatable Hero
Retired Hero
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posted June 17, 2010 08:07 PM |
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Btw wog, how's the situation?
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wog_edn
Promising
The Nothingness
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posted June 17, 2010 08:11 PM |
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Still a couple, for now. But we'll see how it is later on, if stuff changes. If not, then I'm ending it. Kinda depends on next week
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phoenixreborn
Promising
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Unicorn
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posted June 17, 2010 08:17 PM |
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I have something similar with a girl at work for about 4 years now,
4 years? If nothing happened yet then nothing will. That is my feeling.
Also, work relationships are a very sensitive subject worthy of its own discussion. My experience says it is a bad idea and if you are serious about the girl, together with her, then one of you should find a different job. This is general, not aimed at War-Overlord.
@Carcity, get a pep-talk from Dagoth and then go for it.
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