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Fauch
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posted June 25, 2010 05:09 PM |
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The sex drive temporarily decreases whenever a person falls in love, and the person is also prone to fast. It's almost like suffering a physical injury and the body takes time to recover. I think it's pretty obvious that it's related to, but still apart, from mating. A product of the higher order of human intellect compared to other life.
actually, according to studies on the brain, falling in love (love being defined as passion here) can trigger sexual lust as well.
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Also, Fauch have you ever been in a bar? Observe bar-dating/flirting, perhaps you'll understand why I can be cynical at times. Many times.
rarely actually. But I suppose there are usually little to no love involved in those datings/flirtings. from what I know, it is more about manipulating the other person to get what you want.
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Carcity
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posted November 29, 2010 07:03 PM |
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Unanwsered love is the worst thing in the world.
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selcy
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posted November 29, 2010 08:53 PM |
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LOVE is amazing when you find the right person and it doesn't matter when your far apart LOVE can conquer anything. I have found the most amazing, caring, sensitive, handsome guy who is also my soulmate we click on so many different levels (and no not sexual yet) it is unbelievable. We both ahve huge smiles on our faces now after coming through some very tough and trying times 
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bLiZzArdbOY
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posted November 29, 2010 09:02 PM |
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Unanwsered love is the worst thing in the world.
'Unrequited love' dammit, get it right. 
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phoenixreborn
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posted November 30, 2010 02:25 AM |
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and it doesn't matter when your far apart LOVE can conquer anything.
Why are you far apart? Distance over a long time can be a big problem.
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Aculias
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posted November 30, 2010 02:59 AM |
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Hehe I am sure there are reasons for everything 
I sense the problems will be minimal
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1910
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posted November 30, 2010 07:30 AM |
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Phoenix, I've been with my gf since March and it's been distance. It can be tough at times but the love does conquer anything really. It'll all be worth it in the end.
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selcy
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posted November 30, 2010 09:12 AM |
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Its hard at times when you speak to them and all you want to do is cuddle them and you cant. It will be worth it in the end when we are together forever as a family
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posted November 30, 2010 09:16 AM |
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I know that feeling only too well. Only a month away for me though and I get to cuddle her as much as I want.  Time will fly past and you'll get to do the same to your bf.
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selcy
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posted November 30, 2010 09:20 AM |
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You bet there are reasons for everything Aculias. We cant choose who we fall in love with it just happens and love doesnt take notice of distance just of the feelings. I can certainly say I am madly in love with him and wouldnt change it for anything or anyone. We know our love is true and that we will be together no matter how far apart we live. Even kids think he will make the best stepdad ever and they love him too
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Disturbed-Gnu
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posted November 30, 2010 10:20 AM |
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PhoenixReborn is right! My ex-girlfriend moved to New Zealand for 2 years. And two years apart is a loong time.. We thought it through, and agreed to break up.
Think of it! No flirting, No bar pick ups, No sex, No girls for 2 years.. Impossible..
And now, i'm at the start of the dating fase with a new girl i met two weeks ago. ;p That would have been impossible if we agreed to have a long distance relationship..
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mvassilev
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posted November 30, 2010 10:35 AM |
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No flirting, No bar pick ups, No sex, No girls for 2 years.. Impossible..
I've done it for 19 years. (Not counting one month.) It's not that hard.
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wog_edn
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posted November 30, 2010 10:43 AM |
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 Disturbed-Gnu!
My girl is away for a month visiting her bigger sister, and I think a month is a long time! Hell, it's been soon two weeks and I think it's a damn long time! I would never have managed two years, so I totally understand why you agreed to break up.
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posted November 30, 2010 11:07 AM |
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You've ever been in that position? I bet not, if you think that so easy.
1. It's not selfish, as being without sex for two years must be absolutely horrible.
2. What makes you think she could've managed?
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selcy
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posted November 30, 2010 11:09 AM |
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Well said ohforfsake if you love someone then you give youreself 100% who cares that you have to wait for sex etc just think of the great sex you will have when you are together. Anyway love isnt just about the physical stuff its about the inner stuff as well, its like being in the old days when a man and woman courted before jumping into bed with each other I think its romantic it also shows that you care for that person deeper. I know I do
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mvassilev
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posted November 30, 2010 11:13 AM |
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being without sex for two years must be absolutely horrible
It's about as torturous as breathing.
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Doomforge
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posted November 30, 2010 11:17 AM |
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Isn't that selfish?
Wouldn't the most important thing be, if she can manage?
And speaking of love, wouldn't you then expect yourself to be able to make this sacrifice?
Yeah, go and ask for sacrifice from the one left behind, but absolutely and perfectly agree that the one leaving him is ok, not selfish and all, and completely impossible to change her life.
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Good decision, Disturbed-Gnu. I'm with you.
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selcy
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posted November 30, 2010 11:27 AM |
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Well theres that important word called TRUST if you havent got trust in any relationship whats the point. Whether they are near or far doesnt stop the other person cheating but then to me thats not love cos if you truely love someone you would wait for them, without question
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Doomforge
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posted November 30, 2010 11:33 AM |
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Why to do that to yourself? Why to force situaton like that (leaving for 2 years) and require your partner to forgive you (or else he's "selfish"?)?
I assume Disturbed-Gnu's girlfriend was an adult and could just not go if she liked.
If you're too attached to your plan, wanting a new life and willing to sacrifice a whole load of lifetime with your partner to get it, do you actually need that relationship and your partner?
I think in such case, a person just doesn't want to be "left alone". But he doesn't need his / hers partner. otherwise he/she would do everything to be with him/her without leaving for 2 years.
If my parents wanted to leave, I'm an adult - I'd refuse. I wouldn't want to leave my girlfriend. i'd rather get a part time job and rent a flat with her. If I wanted to leave her for 2 years, that would mean I don't care much for her.
That's not worth calling it love.
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wog_edn
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posted November 30, 2010 11:33 AM |
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I don't know the situation doomforge.
The point is, however not, if you love someone, what they should do for you. Rather what you can for them, and what you can achieve together, in my opinion.
Therefore all about if it's hard, if she can manage, etc. is completely irrelevant, I think.
If she can't, if you love her, can't you forgive her, at least eventually? Like you'd like her to be able to forgive you?
Seriously? You deleted your post .. that's immature 
Have you ever been in a relationship before?
So he was to accept her sleeping around, and forgive her, but because he loved her he should not do so himself and wait faithfully 'til she returned?
Wow, just wow... you're truly an innocent little angel, aren't you? That's just not how it works in relationships, though you'd obviously like to think so.
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