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wog_edn
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posted December 22, 2010 11:50 PM |
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Sex is what you make of it.
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mvassilev
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posted December 22, 2010 11:53 PM |
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Corribus:
"Quality of people" is subjective to the people involved, of course. If each person thinks the other person is of high quality, then they are. It's also dependent on how well they can interact, of course. I never said quality of a relationship was only dependent on quality of people, but that's a huge factor.
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selcy
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posted December 22, 2010 11:54 PM |
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Sex is what you make of it.
EXACTLY and the more you love someone the more comfortable you are with them the better the sex and if the sex sucks you are more likely to tell them and then try again. 
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posted December 23, 2010 12:25 AM |
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True, Selcy. But it doesn't mean that random sex ain't great too if you at least know what you're doin. But yeah, way better with someone you feel comfortable with. But that's also because you've probably done it alot, meaning it could also be just as great without love if the amount is the same.
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Fauch
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posted December 23, 2010 03:30 AM |
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the thing to know is people act illogically. everything can be perfect, and then there is a tiny thing wrong, and people start a drama. if there is something I know, it is to expect everything. everything might lead to the exact same logical conclusion, you should still expect the contrary to happen.
unfortunately, people are often driven by their fears and those are irrationnal. just thinking about it is often enough to realise it, but people might think they have good rationnal reasons to fear something.
of course, not talking about the fear you feel in front of a real threat. rather, all you can imagine about a person, and the scenarii that your mind creates from there.
it is really awkward how most girls seems to show absolutely no interest in me. I mean, I show interest in them, ask questions to know them to which they answer, but they do not even ask me a single question.
but well, now you should also expect people to think they know everything about you with a single glance. it's like an interview for a job, they say, as soon as you enter the room, even before you start talking, the guy is almost sure whether he will hire you or not. isn't it insulting that some people consider they can judge and categorize you so fast?
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Elvin
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posted December 23, 2010 10:28 AM |
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Or they know you well enough 
Yeah I know what you are saying. Can't be helped though, I consider not judging a book by the cover as wrong as judging by it. Obviously there is a lot more than meets the eye but most people give a lot of hints about what they are about with their mere presence, even if they do nothing at all. How you carry yourself greatly affects perceptions, maybe they see something you don't. Maybe they are just bad at reading you, who knows really. People do not act as logical as you'd expect.
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Doomforge
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posted December 23, 2010 11:40 AM |
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it is really awkward how most girls seems to show absolutely no interest in me. I mean, I show interest in them, ask questions to know them to which they answer, but they do not even ask me a single question.
Tip: don't ask that much. Learn to converse without asking questions. Women will usually gradually become curious about you if you're doing it that way.
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but well, now you should also expect people to think they know everything about you with a single glance. it's like an interview for a job, they say, as soon as you enter the room, even before you start talking, the guy is almost sure whether he will hire you or not. isn't it insulting that some people consider they can judge and categorize you so fast?
Depends. If it's for looks, usually a few glances are enough to be sure whether you are attractive to someone or not. It's like, what do you expect? Appearance plays a major role, whether people like it or not. And usually they don't like it because they are not attractive themselves
Fortunately appearance may be tweaked up. Gym, good clothes, good style. And it's mainly for first impression anyways, as your behavior will be much more prominent from that point.
However if the first impression fails, you will most likely fail anyways, so...
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Aculias
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posted December 23, 2010 06:04 PM |
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practice makes perfect.
There are many sex types including pity sex & makeup sex.
It all depends on the relationship.
If 2 people really love each other, then it usually never matters because you can learn.
Usually not that hard to tell if a woman was into it.
from the irregular heart beats to the reaction after the sex.
Pay attention of how happy they are.
Alot of times women can fake it to show pity so you dont lose your ego!
You hearing me MVASS? 
Just remember practice makes perfect.
With the same woman, you start to figure out what they like & what they dont like & you can go from there.
Try alot of dif things & see what gets them off.
Same thing goes to women as well, but since it takes more talent to get a woman off, we should have the topic with that lol.
Sometimes you can feel racing heartbeat when your actually in there if you pay close attention, plus finding the G spots really help haha.
So yea show the talents & yes make her proud to call you a friend with great benefits! Dont make him call you that
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Fauch
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posted December 23, 2010 08:04 PM |
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also, not sure if being honest works. (unless the girl is 40 and divorced because she was abused by her husband lol)
despite every single girl claims she wants an honest boyfriend and absolutely despise liars.
I mean, all the boys that claims you will be forever happy with them, you will have all you want, they are gods in bed, they will never abandon you (and all that kind of stuffs you hear in songs and movies for teenagers) that sounds so hypocritical.
that's amazing how every young couple is convinced their relationship will be a fairytale, when you see that most relationships fail and people end up hating each other.
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posted December 23, 2010 08:31 PM |
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A relationship can end for many reasons not just cos of a relationship break down or sex but death of a husband/wife/partner but that doesnt stop you falling in love with someone else and being happy. Sometimes the second time around can be better in many ways  .
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posted December 23, 2010 09:00 PM |
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that's amazing how every young couple is convinced their relationship will be a fairytale, when you see that most relationships fail and people end up hating each other.
Both of the statements in this sentence are false. Very few people go into a relationship expecting it to be perfect. In fact, most people make the opposite mistake, and act accordingly, which results in their relationship being worse than it would have been otherwise. And while most relationships aren't successful, it's certainly a stretch to say they end in people hating each other. Most of them don't. In the majority of relationships, the two people either never see each other again and don't think about each other at all, or they remain friendly. The hateful breakup attracts attention, but not as common as one would think.
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Fauch
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posted December 24, 2010 02:25 AM |
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yeah, maybe.
but try to ask a couple if that's really love binding them together. they will likely find the question very insulting, but it's probably one they should ask themselves anyway.
not that they should break immediately if they find it is not love, but at least they will be honest to themselves.
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posted December 24, 2010 02:35 AM |
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I think I have only felt the mysterious love emotion once. It was REALLY late and I was SUPER tired and for some reason, I watched a 2 hour video of Lady Gaga getting interviewed and drinking tee and at that moment, I thought she was the most fantastic and most talented person in the world and I had a very calm, warm feeling in my body.
But well, if the average age in my country is 79 years for men then I guess I still have 64 years left. And I am sure, that in 2089 we will already be able to be immortals or live for hundreds of years.
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posted December 24, 2010 03:04 AM |
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Sorry, but that's not the kind of love that this thread is even about. So no, you have not felt it.
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baklava
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posted December 24, 2010 03:19 AM |
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You're only saying that cause you never had such an experience, Will.
Congratulations, Xerox, you have found true love.
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blizzardboy
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posted December 24, 2010 03:56 AM |
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I love Xerox's train of thought.
"It was super late one time and I was looking at Lady Gaga and got this really warm feeling that I think was love"
Next paragraph
"The average lifespan of a male in Sweden is 79 years old, and by then we'll all be immortals".
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Doomforge
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posted December 24, 2010 10:46 AM |
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Well, I had a crush on Jessie from Jonny Quest animated series as a kid, so...
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posted December 24, 2010 04:22 PM |
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I wanna say thanks to the people hwo told me to just be casual and be me ;p That worked very well, and even though i didn't make anything special about it, she said yes 
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Doomforge
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posted December 24, 2010 04:23 PM |
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glad to know that worked for you mate
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1910
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posted January 06, 2011 02:11 AM |
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Well, my girlfriend has been here for 6 days now and I can tell you it's the greatest feeling in the world. For all of those who didn't think I knew what true love was, you're sadly mistaken. After having been with her (not physically) for 9 months, to finally see her in real life was beyond words. I really am truly happy...at last, because of her.
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