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Tsar-Ivor
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posted August 01, 2012 11:07 PM |
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I don't see anything wrong with it, and don't know how he was supposed to tell you. Might I ask how you found out?
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emilsn
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posted August 01, 2012 11:39 PM |
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I don't see anything wrong with it, and don't know how he was supposed to tell you. Might I ask how you found out?
Facebook - pretty obvious
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radar
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posted August 01, 2012 11:53 PM |
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I don't see anything wrong with it
Neither do I, but then again, I can certainly say emilsn has the right to feel like sheit.
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mvassilev
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posted August 01, 2012 11:54 PM |
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Corribus
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posted August 02, 2012 01:01 AM |
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If you're no longer with this person, what difference does it make? What, you feel betrayed or something? Why? You feel she still belongs to you? If so, the problem is you, not your ex, and certainly not your friend.
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I'm sick of following my dreams. I'm just going to ask them where they're goin', and hook up with them later. -Mitch Hedberg
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Seraphim
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posted August 02, 2012 08:24 AM |
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emilsn
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posted August 02, 2012 08:24 AM |
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If you're no longer with this person, what difference does it make? No difference, except one of my friends is with her. What, you feel betrayed or something? I am dissapointed that I didn't get a heads up Why? In my book friends don't date friends exes. You feel she still belongs to you? hell no. but it is diffently a lack of control If so, the problem is you, not your ex, and certainly not your friend.
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OhforfSake
Promising
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Initiate
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posted August 02, 2012 05:02 PM |
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People, who meet often in daily life, risks hardship if they start dating among others who're close to both of them. Mainly because of a negative outcome of any two peoples relationship will affect the entire group negatively. Which is the exact reason why you wouldn't start a romantic relationship with your best friends enemy.
This applies to colleagues such as co-workers, classmates, close friends, etc. But it does not apply to everyone within these groups of people. It won't apply to a colleague you don't have any interaction with, or a school mate you never work together with, or talk to.
In this case, it's about a friend. You had to read it on facebook to find out. You admit yourself it's not a close friendship. A friend is someone you generally and wilfully spend a significant amount of the puny time you've to yourself on this tiny planet with. Of course I'm only guessing on the vaguest material here, but I really don't think you, or any important relation of yours, is close enough to this person for your concern to apply here.
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emilsn
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posted August 02, 2012 06:29 PM |
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People, who meet often in daily life, risks hardship if they start dating among others who're close to both of them. Mainly because of a negative outcome of any two peoples relationship will affect the entire group negatively. Which is the exact reason why you wouldn't start a romantic relationship with your best friends enemy.
This applies to colleagues such as co-workers, classmates, close friends, etc. But it does not apply to everyone within these groups of people. It won't apply to a colleague you don't have any interaction with, or a school mate you never work together with, or talk to.
In this case, it's about a friend. You had to read it on facebook to find out. You admit yourself it's not a close friendship. A friend is someone you generally and wilfully spend a significant amount of the puny time you've to yourself on this tiny planet with. Of course I'm only guessing on the vaguest material here, but I really don't think you, or any important relation of yours, is close enough to this person for your concern to apply here.
I would say he is amoungst the top 10 ..
But well, Just wanted to hear some thoughts - and you guys have the total OPPOSITE attitude as all my danish friends, really weird actully.
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Fauch
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posted August 02, 2012 10:49 PM |
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but we are totally stranger to the situation and can think rationnally about it without any emotions involved.
your friends probably empathize with you.
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OhforfSake
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posted August 03, 2012 09:11 AM |
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I would say he is amoungst the top 10 ..
He could be nr. 1 and it wouldn't make any difference. The fact that remains is that you definitely weren't close enough to this persons life to even get the slightest hint anything was going on before this person revealed it to the world himself.
I wonder, how much do you know about what was going on in this persons life in the period they went from friends to a more romantic related relationship? Beside, isn't this your last year in high school? Odds are that you won't even have any kind of relation with these people in the near future and long ahead.
In any case, did you let your x-girlfriend know that she's obliged to never have anything romantic going on with any of the people you consider friends at any given moment in time? I kind of doubt you did.
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emilsn
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posted August 03, 2012 09:23 AM |
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I would say he is amoungst the top 10 ..
He could be nr. 1 and it wouldn't make any difference. The fact that remains is that you definitely weren't close enough to this persons life to even get the slightest hint anything was going on before this person revealed it to the world himself.
I wonder, how much do you know about what was going on in this persons life in the period they went from friends to a more romantic related relationship? Beside, isn't this your last year in high school? Odds are that you won't even have any kind of relation with these people in the near future and long ahead.
In any case, did you let your x-girlfriend know that she's obliged to never have anything romantic going on with any of the people you consider friends at any given moment in time? I kind of doubt you did.
You just hurt me  I am 21 years old and going to study at the university this september
But good points - they were together for three weeks at some school thing at a common school we all went too - (It is a bordingschool for adults more or less)
And no I didn't tell her.
But I will now draw the worst card ever: You don't have sex with your bros ex.
and yes Fauch they do, and that is what I would expect them too! What would friends be if they didn't ?
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OhforfSake
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posted August 03, 2012 09:39 AM |
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Did I really hurt you? If so, sorry, I didn't intend to sound rude.
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What would friends be if they didn't ?
Honest. If you just want a bunch of yes-sayers who doesn't really care about you, then you should just write a script.
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But I will now draw the worst card ever: You don't have sex with your bros ex.
Isn't it equivalent to say he'll have to choose between you and her? It's usually the one who forces such a choice who's the unreasonable one. Which kinda already tells you what the answer will be. If it doesn't, then think about it this way:
She's something to offer him you don't have and he's something to offer her, which you told her you won't provide.
Sorry if this sounds rude, it's well intended when I say please open your eyes and realise the world does not revolve around you. She's your x-girlfriend, you used to love her or at least adore her. He's someone you consider a friend. Them finding happiness together should call for celebration, not ego-maniacs.
Edit: Sorry about confusing your age. It happened because it says in your profile that you're 18, and 18 is the last year of high school in your country, typically. Nice to hear you're going to uni. May I ask what you'll be studying?
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emilsn
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posted August 03, 2012 06:52 PM |
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Did I really hurt you? If so, sorry, I didn't intend to sound rude.
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What would friends be if they didn't ?
Honest. If you just want a bunch of yes-sayers who doesn't really care about you, then you should just write a script.
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But I will now draw the worst card ever: You don't have sex with your bros ex.
Isn't it equivalent to say he'll have to choose between you and her? It's usually the one who forces such a choice who's the unreasonable one. Which kinda already tells you what the answer will be. If it doesn't, then think about it this way:
She's something to offer him you don't have and he's something to offer her, which you told her you won't provide.
Sorry if this sounds rude, it's well intended when I say please open your eyes and realise the world does not revolve around you. She's your x-girlfriend, you used to love her or at least adore her. He's someone you consider a friend. Them finding happiness together should call for celebration, not ego-maniacs.
Edit: Sorry about confusing your age. It happened because it says in your profile that you're 18, and 18 is the last year of high school in your country, typically. Nice to hear you're going to uni. May I ask what you'll be studying?
Actully I was just ironic at the whole being offended 
And well - I see what you say actully, and I respect it.
Honest - yes hell yeah - honest - That is all I really want honesty, and I didn't get that from him.
but lets not talk about friends since I am going through a weird time with my friends. I'll talk about that some other day
And actully what you wrote about those two together, is something I thought about today - They are a really good couple, very much alike and I think that is a hurtful thing to realize.
(Going to study English - just plain English)
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emilsn
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posted August 05, 2012 08:42 PM |
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BRAND NEW INFORMATION!
Yesterday I made out with a really sweet girl and it was so spontatious
He have known each other for what a year or soo - It just came out of no where!
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mvassilev
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posted August 09, 2012 07:08 AM |
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Aculias
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posted August 09, 2012 07:39 AM |
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Love are feelings in certain catagories.
May it be for family, friends, Precious things or a person ya want to spend time with.
Love has different feelings & ya also feel differently as well.
Emotions gives ya different blushes for each love ya have 
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Seraphim
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Knowledge Reaper
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posted August 11, 2012 06:58 PM |
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What is love?
Very fitting to this thread. Hell, its the anthem of this thread...
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Pefect anti EX song!
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mvassilev
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posted September 27, 2012 10:31 PM |
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I suppose I should provide an update. Having spent two months a thousand miles apart, though talking almost every day, we're now together again. Things are going well.
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NoobX
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Now, this is a paradox...
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posted September 27, 2012 10:40 PM |
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As well as they should...
Ah, at least you've got someone who loves you like a boyfriend, someone who you love too...
Seems that I'm in that period when you need someone's love while that someone isn't from you family, if you know what I mean.
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