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mvassilev
mvassilev


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posted June 12, 2018 08:20 PM

Sorry for singling out one point among the many in this discussion, but - 5-6k euros a month to be financially independent? Unless Europe is extremely expensive, that strikes me as implausible. In my first job out of college, I was making less than half of that, and yet I still lived in my own (rather sizeable) apartment, paid for everything, saved money, etc - I was definitely financially independent, even though I had to be somewhat careful with money. The dollar equivalent of 5-6k euros isn't just independent, it's comfortably upper-middle-class.
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friendofgunnar
friendofgunnar


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posted June 21, 2018 11:00 AM
Edited by friendofgunnar at 11:00, 21 Jun 2018.

The convo in this thread reminds me of the whole thing with Chloe Dykstra, a woman who stayed in an abusive relationship. So why on earth would a smart, attractive woman get trapped in something like that?  She gives her own reasons but It's just been my general observation that women are genetically susceptible to snows.  Wait, let me try to expand on that.  It's been my observation are genetically susceptible to assertive, confident behaviour from men and this frequently overpowers their normal ability to discern self-centered, assholish behaviour.  This is the whole root of the 'why do nice guys come in last?' question that many males feel at some point in their lives.

Am I saying anything new? Probably not, so good night and sleep tight.

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Elvin
Elvin


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posted June 21, 2018 11:55 AM

So many red flags from the very beginning..  
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fred79
fred79


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posted June 21, 2018 02:53 PM

my mom stayed with my dad for some years, in an abusive relationship(long enough for him and my mom to produce my two sisters, anyway). she would still be with him today, most likely, if she hadn't found out that he was abusing me as well, when he got me alone.

but it works both ways, too. many men will stay in an abusive relationship(hell, they do it all the damn time when they're married), themselves. my old friend loved one girl in particular because she was so controlling and physically abusive to him(which made sense, since he actually hated himself). i never really understood it(or him), myself(or why guys stay married to abusive or controlling women, or even GET married period, without a prenup). i've been through abuse, and i don't want any more of it. which is one of the reasons why i'll never, ever marry. because once you are married, as a guy, you're smack-dab in the middle of a system that favors females, over males. even moreso that usual. snow THAT snow.

that said, it's not like i'm jeremiahemo 2, or something. i love females even though they are DAMN crazy(even MORE THAN ME)!

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mvassilev
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posted July 31, 2018 08:22 PM

There's a variety of reasons, but a common one is that they think that they're not being abused because that kind of treatment is normal. For example, there was a woman who thought that all men were alcoholics - at least some of them are honest about it, she reasoned. You can guess what kind of relationships she had. But someone in that state sees little to gain from leaving - what's the point, if they just fall for another abusive person?
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tSar-Ivor
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posted July 31, 2018 08:29 PM
Edited by tSar-Ivor at 20:31, 31 Jul 2018.

Exactly, my personal experiences support that, been in a few (heroes classification less than 5 more than 1) relationships where the woman in a remarkably short while just gets used to the abuse (mostly verbal and almost always very one-sided). They get edgy, they get a little fight in them on occassion, but mostly they just take it, never once sensed that they even had the nerve to consider leaving.
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tSar-Ivor
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posted February 16, 2019 02:51 AM

I'd do anything for love, but I won't do that. When to survive without love you need to cling and learn to enjoy the bite of cold, then have to give it up, it's so hard, ever so hard. Why should you give it up when it has brought so much success, sure you are still dead inside, but it works, you have everything, except the one thing that you actually have to make a real sacrifice for. Will you be the same person afetward?
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Salamandre
Salamandre


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posted October 05, 2019 11:32 PM

This

Lang Lang got married !

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artu
artu


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My BS sensor is tingling again
posted October 06, 2019 12:55 AM

Salamandre said:
Lang Lang got married!

A little jealous?
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Salamandre
Salamandre


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posted October 06, 2019 01:03 AM

That he got a hot chick is in 100th position on my "why I'm jealous about Lang Lang" list.

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artu
artu


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My BS sensor is tingling again
posted October 06, 2019 01:07 AM

I know, what you canít really stand is that he got to play with Metallica.
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Salamandre
Salamandre


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Wog refugee
posted October 06, 2019 01:22 AM

Well, from time to time, is kinda a duty for famous classical musicians to invest time and energy into demonstrating the difference between music and noise, makes sense
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Drakon-Deus
Drakon-Deus


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CONTINUITY IS POWER
posted February 04, 2020 11:04 AM

Love's like an hourglass... when your heart is filled, your head is emptied.
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Drakon-Deus
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CONTINUITY IS POWER
posted January 18, 2023 10:20 AM

A man who fears nothing is a man who loves nothing; and if you love nothing, what joy is there in your life? I may be wrong.
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yogi
yogi


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posted January 19, 2023 02:40 AM
Edited by yogi at 02:56, 19 Jan 2023.

there once was a little wave
bobbing along when it saw the shore
where other waves were crashing and dying
the little wave got scared
and began shouting look out!
look out we're all going to die!
up along side the little wave came a big wave
asking little wave whats wrong?
why are you shouting out so?
the little wave said look!
look up at the shore!
we're all going to die!
the big wave smiled and looked down
saying little wave dont worry
youre not a wave youre a part of the ocean


Drakon-Deus said:
A man who fears nothing is a man who loves nothing; I may be wrong.

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purerogue
purerogue


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posted January 19, 2023 04:40 AM

How times have changed just in the last few pages here.

I can see Sal and JJ have a history.

When I'm bored I'm going to read this from page 1.

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Ghost
Ghost


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Therefore I am
posted January 19, 2023 02:48 PM

purerogue said:
history


Our love history?.. Do you remember your love history? Yes I remember that I strongly loved one ex-GF.. I never thought sex, her pussy, etc Today my mind changed too much that I need a love, but sex and pussy are problem.. Do you understand? Another thing that marriage isn't existence.. Jews are invented marriage.. The Bible told that Adam and Eve are loved.. without sex.. But Eve ate "fruit", so they realized naked.. Then they are marriaged by the God's command.. So the God commanded Adam and Eve make a child.. My mind and interpretation Adam and Eve were so young.. Jews used false object, perspectivism, etc what we can't understand without drawing a picture.. Quite! Yes highest level.. also philosophy.. I know super well..

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purerogue
purerogue


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posted January 19, 2023 04:50 PM

Ghost^
Not sure I understand..
Love and sex are seperable things?

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Ghost
Ghost


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Therefore I am
posted January 19, 2023 05:15 PM

those are together.. Then thing is a very hard to you..

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purerogue
purerogue


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posted January 24, 2023 07:16 PM

So i read the very first post, and it comes off as imaginary.
But if it just the way the OP communicates, it's obvious she didn't like your living environment.

I might just add, I feel love is very shallow and therefor fleeting. What constitutes "love" in reality for most people is just friendship put nicely, needing the other person put clinically.

You cannot have what you want, because once you have it you will want something else. Don't overestimate yourself.

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