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posted March 07, 2009 05:49 PM |
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I'm not sure if you are yet into the disappointment/depression stage that follows most teen love, but my bets are it will eventually come (and not when you are 80 years old either).
Yeah yeah hit me cause I'm a realist.
Some say such short love (and attraction mostly) is good and others who went through it shouldn't spoil others' moments when they are through such moments. But how come that they usually (I'm not saying always) blame themselves, and others tell them not to give advice to others but let them experience it themselves? I don't understand it's like saying: "Hey man, leave him alone, don't tell him fire burns his hand, he has to experience it himself".
I'm not saying always, just on average.
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posted March 07, 2009 06:00 PM |
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and then threw her remains into a river.
Surely freezing for later use would be a better option.
@TheDeath: That doesn't make sense. People need to learn how to be in relationships and the only way to learn it is to do it.
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posted March 07, 2009 06:09 PM |
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Maybe you don't have experience with people blaming themselves over that. You know, constant depression, saying even stuff like "it would have been better if I didn't meet her" (but not as direct/straight-to-the-point as that) or just thinking about it.
And in fact the reason they break is because they are NOT relationships, not serious ones anyway. You don't learn this by fooling around and being "I can't live without her", if you expect a relationship. Of course if you don't expect one, then you won't be disappointed. It's because of expectations anyway 
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posted March 07, 2009 06:23 PM |
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All I'm reading here is that you aren't interested in hooking up. I don't perceive it as super-damaging/soul-destroying to someone. In my opinion EmilSn is better served by having his experiences than not.
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posted March 07, 2009 06:53 PM |
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And in fact the reason they break is because they are NOT relationships, not serious ones anyway.
That is utter nonsense. You can have a perfectly serious relationship with all the pure marriage related stuff or whatever it takes for you to qualify a relation ship as "real" and still break up . I take it you don't speak from any experience would you? Of course you wouldn't.
Dude "real" relationships can fail at somepoint.
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You don't learn this by fooling around and being "I can't live without her", if you expect a relationship.
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You're not fooling arround if you say "I can't live without her". Shows all the more how serious it is for you (not you of course). Besides I find it pretty offensive to call anyones relationship "fooling arround" while emilsn is being perfectly sincere (he's just one horny mother****er that's all xD). Heehe he's in love alright oh boy he is^^.
EDIT: And of course it's better to experience a relationship firsthand than over some advice. It just is (sorry for not providing my post with statefunded figures and diagramms to scientificly prove that it is so )
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posted March 07, 2009 07:16 PM |
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I don't know if I even wanna tell you what happened..
Something didn't go as planned...
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posted March 07, 2009 07:18 PM |
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That is utter nonsense. You can have a perfectly serious relationship with all the pure marriage related stuff or whatever it takes for you to qualify a relation ship as "real" and still break up. I take it you don't speak from any experience would you? Of course you wouldn't.
Dude "real" relationships can fail at somepoint.
Those aren't "real". When you get into "OMFG I wasn't expecting this" then it wasn't serious. Period
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You're not fooling arround if you say "I can't live without her". Shows all the more how serious it is for you (not you of course). Besides I find it pretty offensive to call anyones relationship "fooling arround" while emilsn is being perfectly sincere (he's just one horny mother****er that's all xD). Heehe he's in love alright oh boy he is^^.
EDIT: And of course it's better to experience a relationship firsthand than over some advice. It just is (sorry for not providing my post with statefunded figures and diagramms to scientificly prove that it is so)
Yeah and it's also good for your experience to burn your hand and see how it feels. It isn't really off as Love Hurts, only ignorants don't admit it.
And did I say anything about the fact that he is not in love? Love is not the same as a serious relationship. And Love can will hurt. Well at least, just remember this "advice" the next time you get a disappointment because of it, k?
But it's not like it matters, it's always the same. The ones who get "through" such experiences will be ignored and a new wave (generation) will pop in. It never stops. Explaining is futile as you can see
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posted March 07, 2009 07:18 PM |
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Emil: either don't tell a thing, or tell everything, mate. There is nothing worse than "something happened, but I don't want to tell you". Why to tell such a thing, then? If you want to keep it to yourself, do so - without planting a seed of curiosity in us
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posted March 07, 2009 07:18 PM |
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@emil
You know that your just making everybodies curiosity worse right?
But heaven forbid please don't tell us!
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posted March 07, 2009 07:22 PM |
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I bet emilsn is doing that on purpose to get our full attention first
Don't worry, we're here!
Now we're expecting to hear when you'll feel more comfortable about it so either do it or cancel the meeting
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posted March 08, 2009 03:23 PM |
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Nevermind my friend told me what I needed to hear..
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posted March 08, 2009 06:03 PM |
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Alright, just as well.
How is your girl now?
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posted March 08, 2009 06:17 PM |
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I hope it's nothing serious. when you're 16-18, fascination (or love, whatever - I prefer to call it fascination) feels the strongest. It would be sad to see it end so fast for you, emil.
All people deserve to feel that overwhelming happiness of adolescent love. I missed a big part of it and I'm really frustrated because of it, but well, can't change the past At least the present is pleasant.
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posted March 08, 2009 07:25 PM |
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I still got a girl and I don't think the feelings have been any stronger then what they are now!
It is more about the sex part I got some problems..
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posted March 08, 2009 07:25 PM |
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Nevermind my friend told me what I needed to hear..
You need more confidence in yourself then. If someone must TELL you something that you already know what you want to hear, it means you lack self-confidence 
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All people deserve to feel that overwhelming happiness of adolescent love. I missed a big part of it and I'm really frustrated because of it, but well, can't change the past At least the present is pleasant.
I think it's unnecessary, like most of school. Yes, another thing people don't want to admit. How much school time percent did you actually care about and want to return to?
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posted March 08, 2009 07:28 PM |
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Oh, I would give anything to return to the age of 15, just with my current knowledge
As for the feeling, it may not be necessary, but it's very powerful. Fascination later on just does not taste that good.. 
Someone (an older guy) told me once that we should make the most of our young age, because after the age of +/- 25, living slowly turns into existing. I don't have that much life experience, but I have to admit that many feelings don't feel as good as in the old days of being a youngster, where EVERYTHING was new and exciting.
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posted March 08, 2009 07:33 PM |
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All people deserve to feel that overwhelming happiness of adolescent love. I missed a big part of it and I'm really frustrated because of it,
I think it's unnecessary, like most of school
Did you ever feel adolescent love? With that and the school part you are taking things that may be true for you as an individual and suggesting that should be the general rule for everyone.
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posted March 08, 2009 07:38 PM |
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emil: the sex part, you say? Well, I won't try to guess, but I'm sure we could give you a couple of advices, whatever the problem concerns
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posted March 08, 2009 08:09 PM |
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Well I've just managed to come before even finding the hole..
Which means yes, got the condom on and both naked and then in my search I manage... end it all.. - Do you know how much that hurts your pride?
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posted March 08, 2009 08:14 PM |
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oh, that. Well my mate, don't worry. It's PERFECTLY normal for younger guys, especially in their first attempts - exactly what I thought about when saying that everything feels more powerful when you're younger 
my tip is: next time, if that happens, ignore it! keep playing, and in a couple mins, 10-15 usually, you will be ready again, it will take longer this time AND 10-15 mins of extra caressing will be rather pleasant for your GF.
You can also try to let off some steam before your next attempt. once or twice right before your next attempt, and you should do perfectly well
Have no fear, young Jedi. Everything is under control hey, have fun!
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