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Thread: What is Love? [ This thread is 215 pages long: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 (43) 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 ]
Mytical
Mytical

Hero of Order
Chaos seeking Harmony
posted March 25, 2009 09:45 AM
Edited by Mytical at 09:47, 25 Mar 2009.

Doom, people learn differently.  My brother slid his way through school with 0 effort.  I mean no studying or anything and getting great grades.  The ONLY subject I could do that with was math, the rest I studied like crazy and still struggled to get B's.  You should be supportive of her, and maybe help her study?  That way you get the time together AND she gets good grades.  Sorry guy, but you made it all about you when it should be all about the two of you.

My advice?  Either wise up and realize the world does not revolve around you and help her out...or excuse yourself from the relationship and find some airhead who will make it all about you.  She is being mature and responsable, so the question is..will you be?

I know we have our differences Doom, but you are an ok person.  My relationships are not normal, so by all means feel free to ignore my advice altogether.  I just think you are too wrapped up in yourself to see the bigger picture right now.

Edit : Sex is great, I am a big fan, but you really should build a relationship on more then just that.
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Doomforge
Doomforge

Hero of Order
Mayhem Elemental
posted March 25, 2009 09:53 AM
Edited by Doomforge at 10:00, 25 Mar 2009.

Maybe.. I'm just thinking about all those married folks acting like "oh my career is so important, can't spare a minute sorry!" and I get a fishy feeling that she's like that too. People with career priority frighten me. Seriously.

But thanks for the advice Mytical. Any bit of advice is welcome.

Maybe I've been alone for too long and just want too much now. >_>
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emilsn
emilsn


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posted March 25, 2009 03:41 PM

I totally agree with mytical - he gave the best advice..
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JoonasTo
JoonasTo


Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
What if Elvin was female?
posted March 25, 2009 04:02 PM

Quote:
Anyway guys. I wanted to share a cool experience with you.

I had a dream. A dream about loving a girl.

It wasn't an ordinary dream. It felt insane. Powerful. The feelings I had in that dream were overwhelming. Extreme sense of accomplishment and happiness.

There was also some sex in the dream, but it didn't feel physical (well, not totally. The physical part was there, but it felt different than normal one.) More like, spiritual. Hard for me to describe.

Can't recall the face of the dream girl, tho

It was awesome. If love and sex was like that, we would do nothing but love and screw each other.

You don't need drugs to get high. Just a dream like that

I wished I had more dreams like that. Or rather, I wish I could experience it in real life


Now THAT would be one hell of love to experience Maybe it's possible? who knows.


Wrong thread man, but hey, I'll forgive you this once.
Those dreams are awesome btw. I've had quite a few of those with a woman where were exhiliratingly in love. Truly something worth experiencing.
But we just happen to usually have a tendency of slaughtering people instead of having sex. But it feels better than having sex so I'm not complaining.
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PhoenixReborn
PhoenixReborn


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Legendary Hero
Unicorn
posted March 25, 2009 04:36 PM

So you dump her yet Doomforge?
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JollyJoker
JollyJoker


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Undefeatable Hero
posted March 25, 2009 04:45 PM

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But we just happen to usually have a tendency of slaughtering people instead of having sex. But it feels better than having sex so I'm not complaining.
What do you mean, "instead"? Since when is one excluding the other...

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Doomforge
Doomforge

Hero of Order
Mayhem Elemental
posted March 25, 2009 05:01 PM

Not yet. Decided to give it more time, see what tomorrow brings.
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JoonasTo
JoonasTo


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Undefeatable Hero
What if Elvin was female?
posted March 25, 2009 05:07 PM

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Quote:

But we just happen to usually have a tendency of slaughtering people instead of having sex. But it feels better than having sex so I'm not complaining.
What do you mean, "instead"? Since when is one excluding the other...

It isn't but we tend to focus less on the sex and more on the slaughtering of innocent people. But the slaughter is usually a good foreplay, no better turn on than a blood covered woman.
Who says I'm not all right in the head?
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Minion Online
Minion


Legendary Hero
posted March 25, 2009 06:19 PM

You are a textbook example of a person in the military Joonas
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JoonasTo
JoonasTo


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What if Elvin was female?
posted March 25, 2009 06:53 PM

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You are a textbook example of a person in the military Joonas

Depends on what countries army. Finnish army? Not so much. Just one truly snowed up person.

Maybe a dark medieval one made of kinky vampires though.
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Minion Online
Minion


Legendary Hero
posted March 25, 2009 07:05 PM

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Maybe a dark medieval one made of kinky vampires though.


Medieval? No, that is the future
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del_diablo
del_diablo


Legendary Hero
Manifest
posted March 25, 2009 07:12 PM

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Who says I'm not all right in the head?


Welcome to the club of insane, your the 81364th member. I was the 4th.
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Aculias
Aculias


Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
posted March 26, 2009 02:29 AM

Love is you know that thing
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Mytical
Mytical

Hero of Order
Chaos seeking Harmony
posted March 26, 2009 04:56 AM

I founded the club for insanity, but grew so crazy it could no longer contain me.  Show of hands here.  Who would give up something they really really liked to spend time with the one they cared about?

We're talking like front row live concert tickets, or whatever you are most into?  What is the biggest thing you would give up to spend just some quiet time (no sex) just TALKING?
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winterfate
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posted March 26, 2009 05:30 AM

I'd probably give up anything...but that would imply I have a gf...which I don't...

And yeah, I'm in a terrible mood at the moment. Having one of those "Why don't I just end my life" crises...

How come I can't be happy?

/emoness

Anyways, I better go finish that report I have for 7:30AM.
Later.
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JoonasTo
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What if Elvin was female?
posted March 26, 2009 06:09 AM

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What is the biggest thing you would give up to spend just some quiet time (no sex) just TALKING?

I don't currently have a GF but lets play that I did and cared a lot for her. If she asked? Depends on the reason. If she's in trouble? A whole lot. Just to spend time? Concert tickets yes but not any family celebrations.
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Doomforge
Doomforge

Hero of Order
Mayhem Elemental
posted March 26, 2009 09:28 AM
Edited by Doomforge at 09:31, 26 Mar 2009.

winterfate, the longer you dream about it, the more unrealistic the dream becomes, trust me I developed a ton of stupid fetishes while not having a GF, like the big-round-butt factor, effectively diminishing my chances, since less and less women would appeal to me.. ~~

Oh and, you may expect an utter strong feeling after all that time, but it won't be like that unless it's the 100% correct person, you know, I experienced it myself and was annoyed that the fascination after all that monk-style wasn't THAT good as I thought

Well anyway guys. I think I had enough fun now with her. Even though she's good.. naaw, that's not it, it's just not, I'm too old for random nonsense, I'm not a teenager anymore, it's either serious relationship or nothing. I don't have the heart to dump her yet, but I'm pretty sure it will eventually happen. Our priorities indeed differ much, not just the "career vs. partner" stuff. Sad discovery, but better now then never. I'm content, though. It's been a great ride, and after all that lonely time, it caused most of the lonely void to go to hell. I'm free now to be who I want & do what I want, without the "I'm so emo alone" feelings. And I have to owe it to her
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gabislayer
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Hired Hero
suffering
posted March 26, 2009 10:40 AM

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I'd probably give up anything...but that would imply I have a gf...which I don't...

And yeah, I'm in a terrible mood at the moment. Having one of those "Why don't I just end my life" crises...

How come I can't be happy?

Later.


What can I tell you ... life is a snow ...

First of all you should define the term happiness !
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Minion Online
Minion


Legendary Hero
posted March 26, 2009 12:33 PM

30 minutes a week is indeed terrible to be honest. That is hardly a relationship. Granted I haven't seen my date now lately for more than once a week, but it is still half a day that we spend time together then.

If I were you I'd play a little distant and see if she really wants to see you etc. But then again these things almost always backfire at you, lol. Why the heck do I always do those...
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Doomforge
Doomforge

Hero of Order
Mayhem Elemental
posted March 26, 2009 01:26 PM

Very true, Minion.

She's not ready for a serious relationship, that's all.

Guess you were right guys. But I don't give a flying **** about the course of the relationship now. I'm quite happy that I had a bit of fun, and I feel satiated now. Like I was young again Some might say my ego boosting process is complete, but I don't give a **** either. ;p

Now it's either a serious relationship with lots of care for each other, friendship-based (doesn't mean no sex, of course!) or none at all. I will no longer feel lonely for a bit of time, I think, and my judgment will no longer be clouded by stupid desires.

Sex-based relationships tend to burn out fast, or feel utterly incomplete. And without comfort and care, even best sex isn't good. It's missing something.

Oh well, I guess you have to learn it the hard way in life.
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