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Lexxan
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posted June 10, 2009 04:09 PM

Finding nothing to say is probably the most tedious experience ever.

and in that case, it doesn't matter if your conversation partner is your mate or your friend.
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Doomforge
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posted June 10, 2009 04:24 PM

Well there are two kinds of silent moments:

Magical moments, where speaking isn't needed at all, you just want to sit/stand/whatever like that for eternity.

Fail moments when you feel really uncomfortable because the other person refuses to talk and you feel as some sort of a stupid entertainer that MUST clown around to make things work... >____>

First one is good. Second one SUCKS.

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emilsn
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posted June 10, 2009 04:40 PM

I don't even like the first one, scares me too .. I never know what to do.. kiss her, or just keep cuddling her.. or say something.. I AM SO AFFRAID of ruining it!
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posted June 10, 2009 04:50 PM

Oh, dammit, don't THINK about it. Do what you WANT and do what you CAN. Be yourself, for heaven's sake. You'll ruin it for sure if you try to be something you aren't.
If something feels awkward and you feel like standing in a dead end - say it. You are not supposed to be Superman.
Just. Express. Your. Feelings.
Preferrably non-verbally. Verbally, if otherwise impossible. It's no chess game where you think about moves.

You want to be yourself - not play some role.

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emilsn
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posted June 10, 2009 05:13 PM

You know what Jolly? that was I wanted to hear and have wished to have heard for a long time.. Thanks man
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TheDeath
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posted June 11, 2009 01:50 AM

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Finding nothing to say is probably the most tedious experience ever.

and in that case, it doesn't matter if your conversation partner is your mate or your friend.
If you're silent it means you're thinking. Which is good. Why be artificial? I like to think instead of speaking.
(same goes for the girl btw, if she is that way; at least she is going to probably be intellectual rather than unable to shut up, like you know, most women jokes are and stereotypical but you get the idea)
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mvassilev
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posted June 11, 2009 03:31 AM

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If you're silent it means you're thinking.
Thinking, "Oh, ****, what do I say now? Awkward silence!"
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posted June 11, 2009 04:43 PM
Edited by william at 17:00, 11 Jun 2009.

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I like to think instead of speaking.


If only you thought a bit more on HC before you post such crap. Thinking's good but you don't want to just sit there and bore the other person because you're being silent and "thinking". Awakward silences happen that way (like Mvass said) and who the hell wants a bloody awkward silence?

And seriously, think a bit more when you post in a thread like this. I've been following your posts and there are so many things that are just wrong. This is a thread about love something which I seriously doubt you'd know much about considering you spend most of your time on computers and debating with people on forums. Makes me ****ing sick sometimes to read the **** that comes from you.

BTW:

Don't bother replying to this post here, I will not respond to it at all. Rather send me a HCM if you really want to argue about it with me. But yeah, I'm not gonna reply if you post a reply in this thread and may not even read your response.
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Azagal
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posted June 11, 2009 04:54 PM

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Just. Express. Your. Feelings.

. Haahaha I can totally see you shouting that xD.

Needless to say JJ is perfectly right emil.
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JollyJoker
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posted June 11, 2009 11:10 PM

Thanks, emil.

Don't listen to Death.

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TheDeath
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posted June 11, 2009 11:21 PM

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If only you thought a bit more on HC before you post such crap.
If only you thought at all before posting this crap...

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Don't bother replying to this post here, I will not respond to it at all.
...You wouldn't need this childish remark.

What makes me sick is how you can even compare to something "in this thread" (something serious!) for just asking to "hear what I wanted to hear". Surely you don't actually expect that to be serious? I mean what's the point?

What makes me sick is the constant snow that comes from you, or teen dramas which EXPECT to be taken seriously or tell the ones out of em to shut up. You know what makes me even more sick? The same people like you, who will probably grow up in 10 years, will get replaced by others. Even after they say "boy, imagine how I've taken trivial things seriously 10 years ago..." it's just that it's endless supply and, for some like you here, the arrogance and stubborness is taken to a childish level.

So what is your problem with me posting my opinion? Is this pro-teen-drama-only forum or what?

And next time you are in need of posting something pointless that needs "no reply", use a freaking HCM or don't post your crap at all. The mere fact that it needs that childish remark should make you think about posting it at all.
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Lexxan
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posted June 11, 2009 11:24 PM

TheDeath, you know little of relationships, so it's better to shut up.

Talking about things you know nothing about makes you look like an idiot.
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TheDeath
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posted June 11, 2009 11:35 PM

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TheDeath, you know little of relationships, so it's better to shut up.

Talking about things you know nothing about makes you look like an idiot.
Another teen boy. (note I do NOT pick on age, I don't even remember yours, but on mentality, you could be 15yo for all I care; why would age matter? some remain teenagers even in their 25s, while others are mature at 14... whatever).

What do you mean by relationships? The "girlfriend with friends that I don't like?". Or the "I don't know what to say, so I'll HAVE to say something, cause you know, she will think I'm boring or something OMG... oh man, I'm so nervous!". How is that even a problem? Or do you think we're in some teen anime or something? seriously people get real. Also, I don't think the girl is retarded to think that either. They aren't expecting perfection and most don't even want artificiality (bizarre term, I know). Do you really think she worries as much as you do? (unless she is more teenage in mentality than you of course)

Yes I may not know much about teenage relationships (in mentality, again). But I do say they're stupid and such obstacles are meaningless. Just my opinion. But apparently it seems people even have problems with opinions, since this is what this thread is all about.

If these are such serious problems, you would find them serious in 10 years too. I rarely hear people (in fact not at all) thinking about such "grave" matters anymore, why?
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JollyJoker
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posted June 11, 2009 11:43 PM

Please, Death.
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If you're silent it means you're thinking. Which is good. Why be artificial? I like to think instead of speaking.


A relationship isn't based on telepathy. Silence does NOT mean, you are thinking. And thinking does NOT mean, it's good.


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TheDeath
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posted June 11, 2009 11:45 PM

If you're not thinking, then what are you doing? (assuming you don't obviously do something else in that time, I'm talking about just staying silent).


Ok here's a simple question: if that matter was so serious, why don't you tell her "I am afraid because I may be too silent and not know what to tell you."

see her reaction. Maybe he'll find you cute, or ridiculous. Doesn't matter.
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Lexxan
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posted June 11, 2009 11:54 PM

Death, what I meant by my post is that you know about as much as I do, and my own experiences with Girls are not presicely noteworthy.

Yet, I shut up about about (sexual) relationships and the like. I only talk about things I know, like Friendships. (or in your case, robots, apparently)

And about the mentality; Yes, I KNOW I'm quite childish inside. Everybody knows. No need to point that out, thank you!

PS: the Smiley pokes his tongue out to you. Please excuse me while I retort in my own, natural childish way.
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TheDeath
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posted June 11, 2009 11:59 PM

Lex: I have no problem whatsoever with your posts, most times I like them though. I never said you need to shut up. Please post your opinions since I assume you have them (regarding relationships of course).

By the way I never said people are childish with it, I said the relationship is childish if that's what's you're focusing on. As I have said, if you think otherwise, just tell her about it. If you are afraid to do so (and I think anyone here does), it means you're mature enough to acknowledge that it is a childish thing to think about, if you can't speak it out, it's only because you're afraid she's going to consider you ridiculous -- unless she finds it cute.

That means, if you can acknowledge it, why the hell still be BOUND to it?
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Lexxan
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posted June 12, 2009 12:02 AM

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Lex: I have no problem whatsoever with your posts, most times I like them though. I never said you need to shut up. Please post your opinions since I assume you have them (regarding relationships of course).

No. It was I who said about shutting up. I suggest we both do, before this becomes a SPAMfest again.

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By the way I never said people are childish with it, I said the relationship is childish if that's what's you're focusing on. As I have said, if you think otherwise, just tell her about it. If you are afraid to do so (and I think anyone here does), it means you're mature enough to acknowledge that it is a childish thing to think about, if you can't speak it out, it's only because you're afraid she's going to consider you ridiculous -- unless she finds it cute.


eh, Yeah Whatever. It's Midnight over here, after, so excuse me for not reading that part.

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That means, if you can acknowledge it, why the hell still be BOUND to it?


I'm tired. Don't give me ye riddly-riddles a 12.02 pm.

And let's just quit the off-topic, shall we (all of us, including me, of course)
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mvassilev
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posted June 12, 2009 03:24 AM

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do you think we're in some teen anime or something?
BELIEVE IT!

This is ridiculous. First of all, while I agree with the points William made, and admit that some of what he said is rather humorous, the overall sentiment is too negative. Of course Death doesn't know what he's talking about. Why do you think I have pages and pages of debates with him? But to say "lol shut up ur wrong" - that's just not playing the game. Second, regardless of whatever experience Death may or may not have, what he says on the subject makes a great deal of sense - most of the time. (This recent comment of his is an exception.)

But come on. The answer is simple: just don't have teenage-style relationships. (By teenage-style relationships I mean the kind that you or the other partner gets bored of in half a year, or one of you cheats, or you're not trusting each other, or you just don't have anything in common, etc.)

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If you're not thinking, then what are you doing?
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Thinking, "Oh, ****, what do I say now? Awkward silence!"

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TheDeath
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posted June 12, 2009 03:50 AM

If you guys know what you're talking about, do the following: tell her that, what you're thinking, that you're afraid of being silent. That you are afraid you MUST talk to her constantly etc...

Why don't you do it? Because you're afraid? Of what? That she finds it ridiculous?

Well newsflash: she finds it that way BECAUSE it is ridiculous.

[/discussion about that]
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