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DagothGares
DagothGares


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No gods or kings
posted December 18, 2008 01:16 AM

Well, I'm glad I could make you smile.

I disagree, by the way. Love is a horrible, horrible game! I want to send angry hate mail to the one who invented it! If you play it carefully, you're not pathetic... that's just being afraid of having one of your prime internal organs being smashed to pieces.

Of course, I'm still very young and don't know a lot about the matter at hand...
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winterfate
winterfate


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posted December 18, 2008 01:25 AM

LOL!

Love is the most beautiful thing while you're smitten by it. Any other time, it's just painful.
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If you supposedly care about someone, then don't push them out of your life. Acting like you're not doing it doesn't exempt you from what I just said. - Winterfate

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MightyMage
MightyMage


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of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
posted December 18, 2008 06:48 AM

Very true Winterfate...I would know

Hmmmmmm, lunch date.  You guys talk.  Alright, I was actually looking for a bit more detail.  Obviously if you're "in love" with this girl you notice things about her.  When you guys are at lunch, does she smile a lot?  Does she play with her hair?  Seem to stare at you?

All these things are usual signs that she is attracted to you.

My suggestion (although naked banjo playing isn't a bad idea) is to have a dinner date with her.  Here's the catch.  YOU make the dinner.  If you have your own place, even better.  If she says something like "no, that's too much" or something similar, tell her if it makes her feel any better she can make dessert this way it's a good effort on your part and you're involving her.  If you know her favorite food, MAKE THAT!
Trust me, this move will please nearly any lady.
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winterfate
winterfate


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posted December 18, 2008 06:55 AM

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My suggestion (although naked banjo playing isn't a bad idea) is to have a dinner date with her.  Here's the catch.  YOU make the dinner.  If you have your own place, even better.  If she says something like "no, that's too much" or something similar, tell her if it makes her feel any better she can make dessert this way it's a good effort on your part and you're involving her.  If you know her favorite food, MAKE THAT!
Trust me, this move will please nearly any lady.


Cooking...what is it?
(Seriously all I cook are sandwiches. )

I know some of her favorite foods though.

Quote:
Hmmmmmm, lunch date.  You guys talk.  Alright, I was actually looking for a bit more detail.  Obviously if you're "in love" with this girl you notice things about her.
   


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When you guys are at lunch, does she smile a lot?

a)Yes.
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Does she play with her hair?

b)Haven't really paid attention.
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Seem to stare at you?

c)Yes.

Then there was the time I gave her a backrub...
(True story. She says I give good massages... )
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emilsn
emilsn


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posted December 18, 2008 07:08 AM

You dirty little boy Winterfate! Rauw!
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winterfate
winterfate


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posted December 18, 2008 07:10 AM

And she enjoyed it too...

Only problem is that I'm too shy...
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MightyMage
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posted December 18, 2008 07:20 AM

Too...WHAT!  If you can give this girl a back rub you can make a date with her.  Best idea at this point is ask her if she would like to *insert activity here* with you sometime.  Try to break the lunch date routine.  I mean unless you're looking for a new buddy then by all means, keep "doing lunch".
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winterfate
winterfate


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posted December 18, 2008 11:07 PM

@MM: Yes! Shy!

I know it sounds retarded after all that I've just said, but it's entirely possible you know.

Nice idea though.
I will try it out Master.
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MightyMage
MightyMage


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of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
posted December 19, 2008 05:56 AM

OH
MY
FREAKING
GOD

She doesn't quit.    At first it was kind of cute like she was a little puppy dog scratching at the door after running away.
Now it's starting to get kind of annoying.  I recieved another email from her.  This one was enclosed with a picture.  A very nice picture I might add.  I'll spare the details and let you figure it out for yourself.

Anyway, in her email she's telling me that everything lately is reminding her of me and she doesn't know why but it is and she misses me soooooo much.

I should probably talk to her but I still haven't decided what I want out of all this.  Do I want to give it another try with her?  Perhaps.  I don't know yet.  I'll sleep on it and figure out what I wnat to do tomorrow.
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in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage.  For he is all I could ever
want to be!
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winterfate
winterfate


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posted December 19, 2008 06:00 AM



Don't submit MM!

I bet it's easier said than done though...
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OmegaDestroyer
OmegaDestroyer

Hero of Order
Fox or Chicken?
posted December 19, 2008 06:27 PM
Edited by OmegaDestroyer at 18:35, 19 Dec 2008.

Now here's a fun quagmire for you:  My bestfriend has a date with a girl whom I used to be really good friends with.  Now, she can drop dead for all I care.  The reason: she'd stood me up several times without explanation and when my Opa died (whom I was very, very close to), she ignored my calls.  I really needed a friend to talk to during those times and that's when I realized she was anything but.  Now my friend doesn't want me to be mad at him or her.  Even more insulting, he actually had the audacity to call my mother, for crying out loud, to tell her how worried he was about the situation.

The ironic thing about all of this is that I was going to ask a girl out who shot him down but thought it might put a strain on the friendship.  

All may be fair in love and war but is it worth the price?
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Azagal
Azagal


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Smooth Snake
posted December 19, 2008 06:44 PM
Edited by Azagal at 18:50, 19 Dec 2008.

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Even more insulting, he actually had the audacity to call my mother, for crying out loud, to tell her how worried he was about the situation.

Woaw... that's unheared of before. Seriously? Either he is reaaaally concerned about you or he your possible range of reactions scare the **** out of him (being a 5/8 warrior I actually sympathize with him).
I'd actually like to say that this is pretty low of him but then again I don't know him, maybe he actually is just really really concerned.


Oh and about asking a girl out that shot your friend down (when I read that first I thought she shot him down for real... like with a gun) it's not a big deal really. I mean if you're good friends he'll a) get over it b)give you all the help you need to get her.
If he's that good of a friend he shouldn't be a pussy about such a thing (except he thought that she was like "the" one but considering he's already dateing a (former?) close friend of yours he should be able to get over it quick).

Just don't fight over women. It's not worth it (just as it's not worth for women to fight over men!)
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OmegaDestroyer
OmegaDestroyer

Hero of Order
Fox or Chicken?
posted December 19, 2008 06:59 PM
Edited by OmegaDestroyer at 19:07, 19 Dec 2008.

I didn't have a problem with asking the woman who shot him down out on a date but I knew how he would react and out of respect for the friendship, I didn't go for it.  Not worth it.  Apparently I'm the only one who felt the way.  

With this situation, I'm the bad guy anyway you slice it.  That ticks me off.  This girl hurt me bad.  She was one of my closest friends in college.  We were going to grab lunch once, she bailed without explanation.  She was going to see my last day of college, never showed up without an explanation.  I tried to tell her about my Opa passing away, the phone conversation got cut short, and that was the last I heard from her.  IM, phone, mail; she had plenty of options to get back in touch but didn't bother.  That was over a year ago and I don't feel like forgiving her.  Maybe if she actually tried to apologize for being such a poor friend, things would be different.  Friends are supposed to be there for one another. She wasn't, therefore, she isn't my friend.  Now my friend wants to go out with her.  If I say "no," he'll call me petty, tell me to get over it, go out with her anyways, and we won't talk to eachother for months.  Since he is so desperate to get laid, I highly doubt he had the guts to tell the girl to try and make amends with me.  If I say "go for it," I'll write them both off and there goes 14 years of friendship.

I really don't need this petty, highschool drama right now.  
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Azagal
Azagal


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Smooth Snake
posted December 19, 2008 07:01 PM

But I thought you're not the bad guy. They just think you are, no?

I mean if he's your friend then why can't you just go have a drink and talk about things?
But yeah sorry it's not really my business.
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OmegaDestroyer
OmegaDestroyer

Hero of Order
Fox or Chicken?
posted December 19, 2008 07:09 PM
Edited by OmegaDestroyer at 19:11, 19 Dec 2008.

Trust me, I'm the bad guy here.  I don't mind your input either.  If I did, I wouldn't have posted anything about the situation here.  

Everything would have been fine if he had just been a man about it, instead of having to call my mother first.  That's the worst insult.  For him to say he wants me to get along with her after her reprehensible actions is just as bad.
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TheDeath
TheDeath


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posted December 19, 2008 07:10 PM

You're in a freaky situation IMO. I think you need to be honest with your friend about it. Otherwise, why would he be your friend in the first place?
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OmegaDestroyer
OmegaDestroyer

Hero of Order
Fox or Chicken?
posted December 19, 2008 07:11 PM
Edited by OmegaDestroyer at 19:12, 19 Dec 2008.

Good question.
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Wrath and raving I will not stop
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Elvin
Elvin


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Endless Revival
posted December 19, 2008 07:27 PM

I'd be annoyed with a friend dating someone close to me that had acted that way with no explanations whatsoever and even more if he did not have the guts to speak to me directly and involve others. This is really a high school drama But that said I would still respect his choice if we talked and he really cared about her. I believe you did the right thing in turning down that other girl but this is a slightly different situation. Anyway you know your friend and his flaws, either you can accept them or not and move on.
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Aculias
Aculias


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Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
posted December 19, 2008 08:22 PM

Suddenly. Life has new meaning to me. There was beauty up above BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAAAAAH.

You wake up & Suddenly your in looove!!!
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winterfate
winterfate


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posted December 19, 2008 09:01 PM

@Omega: That sucks...

Not much advice I can give here. IMO you did the right thing by ending the friendship with that girl. Not worth it. Like you said, a true friend is there for when you need them, not when it's best for them, or for whenever they feel like it.

As for your current situation, that one's a toughie. Why would you write off his friendship if he goes out with that girl?
Love works in mysterious ways...

But then again, if he's THAT desperate, then he's the petty one.
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