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ohforfsake
ohforfsake


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posted April 27, 2011 10:37 PM

I would personally guess that it doesn't have much to do with laws that people have sex with their family members. At least it's not the case for me, and I shamelessly extrapolate this belief on to most people.

I am not a social intelligent person myself, so I don't understand the big impact of groups of people isolating themselves, or why specific sex partners even mean more isolation.
In any regard, to those who don't think it's a good idea, what are your suggestion for me to do then?

PS: I'm quite convinced JJ is right, they're certainly not trying to make babies (at least I hope not!!!).

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meroe
meroe


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posted April 27, 2011 10:42 PM

I can only imagine there are some serious emotional issues as to why this brother and sister are having sex???  Normally it isn't something most of us think of.  I have a younger brother and never once thought of him in a sexual way.  In fact, I'm still not thinking about it now, and I still shudder ... ugh.

My father once dated a woman who confessed to having sex with her son.  Needless to say that ended the relationship with my dad, but he did tell her that she and her son needed psychological help and pressured her into seeking some, before running a mile.

Despite all the joking, and 'ooh incestuous hot twin sisters getting it on' scenario that seems so popular with guys , and the obvious birth defects that can come from incestuous offspring - I can only imagine the emotional turmoil that eventually surfaces.  The guilt and the disgust.
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Corribus
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posted April 27, 2011 10:46 PM

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In any regard, to those who don't think [incest is] a good idea, what are your suggestion for me to do then?

I'd suggest expanding your inventory of socks.

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ohforfsake
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posted April 27, 2011 11:05 PM

@Corribus
For the life of.. I just don't get that reference. Is it to a movie or something?

@meroe
I remember I had a period in my sexual maturation, where I was quite turned on other peoples mothers. That did however end quite quickly when I searched for pornographic material containing such role-play of older female with younger male. Still, there's something hot about older ladies. You know, just in case if it turns out bliz was right about you being 50

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meroe
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posted April 27, 2011 11:11 PM

LMAO Forfy.  However, I sometimes don't quite know how to take that ... is it a compliment or an insult???  Hell for all we know I could be a 65 year old male who lives with his sister
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ohforfsake
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posted April 27, 2011 11:14 PM

And you would still be as hot as 10^48 ton of ionized particles

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bLiZzArdbOY
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posted April 27, 2011 11:27 PM
Edited by bLiZzArdbOY at 23:29, 27 Apr 2011.

Quote:
LMAO Forfy.  However, I sometimes don't quite know how to take that ... is it a compliment or an insult???  Hell for all we know I could be a 65 year old male who lives with his sister


Your syntax and language does have hints of a male. Just sayin'.
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meroe
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posted April 27, 2011 11:34 PM

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Your syntax and language does have hints of a male. Just sayin'.


Trust you Blizz. As it also indicates that I am a 50 year old female too huh???  What next, a 10 year old boy??  No hold on, I've got it ..... I have the syntax and language of a 45 year old Thai bride ladyboy!!!!!
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OhforfSake
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posted April 27, 2011 11:35 PM
Edited by OhforfSake at 17:19, 28 Apr 2011.

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45 year old Thai bride ladyboy


That would so much work for me!

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Doomforge
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posted April 27, 2011 11:42 PM
Edited by Doomforge at 23:43, 27 Apr 2011.

Quote:
translation - if brother and sister dont have genetic defects, the baby wont have one either buuuuuuuut its still sick IMO


Why exactly sick? Do you have any arguments beside aesthetic? (There's of course kids, but let's assume the brother/sister pair doesn't want kids at all.)

it kind of reminds me of antigay arguments some people use - "they just make me sick"

Well, that's not good enough
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Fauch
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posted April 28, 2011 01:43 AM
Edited by Fauch at 01:45, 28 Apr 2011.

isn't it a legend, those birth defects? I can understand the problems if we have a limited pool of genes, but here we're just talking about 2 people, it's not going to have a big impact, if any.

or in that case, is that wrong then, if you have several children with the same partner, instead of varying the genes pool? that's funny, because most people see no problem with that, they even tend to think the other way is wrong.

and about sex between siblings, don't know what is supposed to be wrong about it, well, if you think rationnaly. I guess one day some fanatics zealous religious guys said it was wrong and you would go to hell for doing it.

in a way, it's kinda weird that to many people, it seems to be an even bigger issue than... wars for exemple.

what you should do?
keep it to yourself and tell them to be discreet. if the information spread, your friends may have some serious problems. actually I have a friend with a similar problem (not identical, but about sex too) it spread and you can imagine what her reputation is now...

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Carcity
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posted May 09, 2011 07:38 PM

11 - Family issues

A close friend came to me crying the other day, telling me how she has problems at home, hates her mother and have generally nowhere to go. And I was standing there, like a complete fool, not having any idea at all on what to do, I did my best to make her feel better, but in the end, nothing I could do would help. What would you guys have done?
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JoonasTo
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posted May 09, 2011 07:45 PM

You did good. She wanted someone to vent to.
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ohforfsake
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posted May 09, 2011 07:47 PM

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You did good. She wanted someone to vent to.


Seconded.
I don't think she really expected you to somehow being able to magically solve her problems.
That a girl wants you to listen to her probably means you're already much more of a man than I've ever been!

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smithey
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posted May 09, 2011 08:08 PM
Edited by smithey at 20:09, 09 May 2011.

Had a similar situation - gave her a hug, told her I'm here for her whenever she needs me and told her that whenever she feels like some time off she can crash at my place for as long as she wants to, no questions asked no permission needed... She did so btw, we're still close friends after almost 10 years, she's still not cool with her folks.
Basically you need to show support in whichever way you can, let her know she's not alone.

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ohforfsake
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posted May 09, 2011 08:14 PM

But you didn't solve her problem smithey!
Now what kind of friend is that?

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Doomforge
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posted May 09, 2011 08:18 PM

Quote:
11 - Family issues

A close friend came to me crying the other day, telling me how she has problems at home, hates her mother and have generally nowhere to go. And I was standing there, like a complete fool, not having any idea at all on what to do, I did my best to make her feel better, but in the end, nothing I could do would help. What would you guys have done?


is she your age?
She's probably rebelling against her mother. Best to try to convince her to start a dialog with her instead of flying into teen rage/emo/destructive moods.
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smithey
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posted May 09, 2011 08:25 PM
Edited by smithey at 20:28, 09 May 2011.

Quote:
But you didn't solve her problem smithey!
Now what kind of friend is that?


Sorry, have a clear rule of not killing children and women, her mom indeed was a woman hence problem unsolved
As friends it is up to us to help our friends solve their own problems by supporting them, solving their problems will teach them nothing but becoming dependant of others, world is sometimes a tough place, we all need to be able to face adversity - it makes us stronger

Edit : as doomf suggested if dialogue is indeed a posibility that's a great idea

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ohforfsake
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posted May 09, 2011 08:35 PM

Ah I understand what argument type you're using!

Give a man fire and he's warm for one night. Set a man on fire and he's warm for the rest of his life.

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smithey
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posted May 09, 2011 08:43 PM

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Ah I understand what argument type you're using!

Give a man fire and he's warm for one night. Set a man on fire and he's warm for the rest of his life.


Actually you've misunderstood again
The proper argument is "give a man a fish and he'll have food for a day, send him to sleep with the fishes and the fishes will have a royal feast for at least a month" stop sleeping during class time I can't always be here to correct you.... even though in spirit I'm always with you

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