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Aculias
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Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
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posted June 27, 2011 06:50 AM |
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Boyfriend & Girlfriend!
I always hear about different ways & you can almost do a survey of how men think Girlfriends should be treated & how Girlfriends want to be treated.
Of course no one is perfect. We all make mistakes & like with kids, we learn as we go when we first date someone.
I guess the survey goes to both men & women about how to treat the woman you love.
How do us men think women should be treating them while they are going out with them.
How do the women feel men should be treated by the men.
It dont mean Women finds their true calling of how they should be treated, as long as they are happy with the person they love.
Sometimes for men, we have an idea how they want to treat women, but sometimes depending on the woman, it may not go as planned.
For example with me.
I am an equal for the most part.
I love woman to be independant & confidence.
I love to romance them if I can, treat them as right as i think is right.
I love them to love me the same as i love them.
Never put me down when friends are around!
Sometimes it can be hard, because they may be different & they may not like what you bring.
Sometimes words can not explain how ya feel.
I love to bring gifts as much as accepting them.
I want them to know they can do what they want to do. Their dreams.
I will always support it.
Love themselves & to remember I got her back.
So much more too lol.
Like i said all men & Women are different.
Maybe many can learn on each individual on how they treat women or how women like to be treated when they are together.
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selcy
Famous Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 11:44 AM |
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Girlfriend/boyfriend, fiancee/fiance or man/wife.
All relationships need give and take.
Never try and change the person cos at the end of the day if you do that you couldn't have loved them in the first place.
Everything should be 50/50.
I have only had one serious relationship and have just started on another relationship with Acu.
I married and started a family young.
He was controlling, very possessive and very jealous.
He never supported me or backed me up when I needed him yet I always did this for him.
I have always worked so I could have mmoney to spend how I wanted and not to have to ask for money and then show receipts.
All I want is
For someone to love me as much as I love them and for it to be unconditional.
To love me for me and not try and change me.
To support me in things I want to do as I will support them.
To share everything 50/50 including housework.
To be a good stepdad to my children and love them like their own as we come as a package.
I know with Acu I will have all these things and many more and I will be there for him too.
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Smithey
Promising
Supreme Hero
Yes im red, choke on it !!!
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posted June 27, 2011 12:19 PM |
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There is no perfect formula for that stuff, there are two simple steps :
1. How you as a person treat others, regardless of their gender, color, religion, whatever, thats basically who you are as a person
2. Adoptivness, every girl out there, every guy out there has mental scars of some sort, each and every one of us expects certain things in a relationship, it's your job to discover what those things are and to provide them, it all depends on how good of a listener and a judge of charcter you are, it's not that hard actually...
There's no formula, every case is a different one, we are all individuals, you find what it is she/he wants and needs and you give it to her/him, because what we all want is for our "special needs" to be satisfied, whatever they might be.
As long as you do your job in satisfying those needs, you're good....
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meroe
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Basically Smurfette
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posted June 27, 2011 03:33 PM |
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All you can be is yourself, and not change anything. If a person asks you to change, they're not the one for you.
Be open, honest and true. And most of all, don't expect to find a soul mate or the perfect partner. Its a ridiculous belief and one set up for failure 100% of the time.
And take time to get to know someone too. Appearances are often unreal and fade very quickly. But falling for someone's personality is definitely a winner.
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Meroe is definetely out, sweet
as she sounds sometimes, she'd
definetely castrate you with a
rusted razror and forcefeed
your genitals to you in a
blink of an eye - Kipshasz
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Kipshasz
Undefeatable Hero
Elvin's Darkside
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posted June 27, 2011 03:48 PM |
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Folk wisdom states that if you marry young, you won't regret it. I guess this doesn't apply to all couples or I'm an idiot and misunderstood Selcy's post.
My girlfriend is very jealous of me and once went as far as punching another girl in the face. But also she's a very caring person and I love her for that
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"Kip is the Gavin McInnes of HC" - Salamandre
"Ashan to the Trashcan", "I got PTSD from H7. " - LizardWarrior
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selcy
Famous Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 04:15 PM |
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And take time to get to know someone too. Appearances are often unreal and fade very quickly. But falling for someone's personality is definitely a winner.
That is so true if you love the person on the inside thats the most important cos the outside is just the packaging  .
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Smithey
Promising
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Yes im red, choke on it !!!
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posted June 27, 2011 04:23 PM |
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That is so true if you love the person on the inside thats the most important cos the outside is just the packaging .
Love the inside... is that like organ trafficking ? Because that's a bit harsh Selcy, Acu is not just his organs, He's an actual person, with feelings and stuff
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meroe
Supreme Hero
Basically Smurfette
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posted June 27, 2011 04:25 PM |
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OMGoodness yes. Run Acu RUN!!!
Do not accept that drink!!!!
Don't go to sleep!!!
Oops too late 
Selcy the evil organ trafficker, hard to believe huh.
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Meroe is definetely out, sweet
as she sounds sometimes, she'd
definetely castrate you with a
rusted razror and forcefeed
your genitals to you in a
blink of an eye - Kipshasz
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Aculias
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
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posted June 27, 2011 04:32 PM |
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I dont have time to read anything, because I got to go to work in a few minutes for about 10-12 hours HAHA.
Dont worry, i will not drink anything whoever sent me that drink
Being yourself is the virtue I look at most.
Not being yourself is a turnoff!
With love of course haha.
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selcy
Famous Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 04:35 PM |
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Edited by selcy at 16:36, 27 Jun 2011.
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That is so true if you love the person on the inside thats the most important cos the outside is just the packaging .
Love the inside... is that like organ trafficking ? Because that's a bit harsh Selcy, Acu is not just his organs, He's an actual person, with feelings and stuff
*slap* Smithey I didn't mean it that way blimey.
It could have been worse I could have just said I want him for his body  .
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Selcy the evil organ trafficker, hard to believe huh.
I need to fund my trip to Vegas some how .
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Smithey
Promising
Supreme Hero
Yes im red, choke on it !!!
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posted June 27, 2011 04:42 PM |
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Dont sweat it Sel, we're keeping it on a down low, nobody wont know a thing... just throw one kidney my way, thanks
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selcy
Famous Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 04:45 PM |
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Dont sweat it Sel, we're keeping it on a down low, nobody wont know a thing... just throw one kidney my way, thanks
Phewww thank goodness for that. I thought I was going to have to change identity and move lol.
Don't worry Acu I love you too much to remove your organs.
Now you have to think was Ohforf silenced or ...............  and was Elvin in on my evil plan.
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Smithey
Promising
Supreme Hero
Yes im red, choke on it !!!
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posted June 27, 2011 04:54 PM |
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Edited by Smithey at 16:54, 27 Jun 2011.
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Phewww thank goodness for that. I thought I was going to have to change identity and move lol.
Don't worry Acu I love you too much to remove your organs.
Now you have to think was Ohforf silenced or ............... and was Elvin in on my evil plan.
In that case, I love you Selcy, and I'm totally Organless 
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selcy
Famous Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 04:59 PM |
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Phewww thank goodness for that. I thought I was going to have to change identity and move lol.
Don't worry Acu I love you too much to remove your organs.
Now you have to think was Ohforf silenced or ............... and was Elvin in on my evil plan.
In that case, I love you Selcy, and I'm totally Organless
Correct reply .
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meroe
Supreme Hero
Basically Smurfette
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posted June 27, 2011 05:48 PM |
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Poor Forfy, he always said he was a walking organ .. now he's no more.
Selcy how could you *sobs*
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Meroe is definetely out, sweet
as she sounds sometimes, she'd
definetely castrate you with a
rusted razror and forcefeed
your genitals to you in a
blink of an eye - Kipshasz
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selcy
Famous Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 06:04 PM |
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Edited by selcy at 18:05, 27 Jun 2011.
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Poor Forfy, he always said he was a walking organ .. now he's no more.
Selcy how could you *sobs*
Its ok Meroe I made lots of money from selling his organs, we can have a HC party  .
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gnomes2169
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Duke of the Glade
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posted June 27, 2011 06:34 PM |
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forf is... dead?
I'll break out the party supplies.
Also, on subject, both men and women are looking for someone like them, but not too much like them, for someone who feels their hurts but stands strong for them and for someone who laughs when they laugh and stands where they stand. People are always looking for someone like them, someone who lived through situations like them, and someone who will be close. Also, they look for someone who they could get old with and stand for years, even in old age, but that's just an afterthought.
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Yeah in the 18th century, two inventions suggested a method of measurement. One won and the other stayed in America.
-Ghost destroying Fred
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Duke_Falcon
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Supreme Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 06:38 PM |
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Poor Forfy, he always said he was a walking organ .. now he's no more.
Selcy how could you *sobs*
Its ok Meroe I made lots of money from selling his organs, we can have a HC party .
Errrrrrrrrr...
Dat iz not so funny! Dat organz have feelingz to U kno'! And U sell 'em as mere slaves!
BTW
There will be some party then?
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Selcy, Gnomes, Meroe or anyone! Pick someone to the Members Contest!
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gnomes2169
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Duke of the Glade
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posted June 27, 2011 06:40 PM |
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BTW
There will be some party then?
Indeed. What were you thinking Selcy?
I have picked our next victim tragic fool that we get to practice our horrible excuse for art on, sir!
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Yeah in the 18th century, two inventions suggested a method of measurement. One won and the other stayed in America.
-Ghost destroying Fred
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selcy
Famous Hero
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posted June 27, 2011 06:44 PM |
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BTW
There will be some party then?
Indeed. What were you thinking Selcy?
I only sold them to well deserving people, I promise.
Now go get the supplies Gnomes we have a party to organise.
You are right Gnomes about people sharing experience makes them closer. Someone that cries with you or hugs you when you are hurting is much better than someone that tells you to grow up or shut up. Someone that can make you laugh or you can make them laugh when you or they are at their lowest is an amazing feat .
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