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Smithey
Smithey


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Yes im red, choke on it !!!
posted May 04, 2012 12:17 AM
Edited by Smithey at 00:20, 04 May 2012.

 

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Tsar-Ivor
Tsar-Ivor


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posted May 04, 2012 12:24 AM
Edited by Tsar-Ivor at 00:24, 04 May 2012.

God I ****ing hate gifs, they always send me into a trance.
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Smithey
Smithey


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Yes im red, choke on it !!!
posted May 04, 2012 12:26 AM

Well, I've told you to stop with LSD, but you just had to give it a try.. and one more.. and one more... and one more... and one more... just like your brain, one huge looooooop

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meroe
meroe


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posted May 04, 2012 12:31 AM

I only hate them because I can snowing upload them!
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Darkshadow
Darkshadow


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Cerise Princess
posted May 04, 2012 06:25 AM

Remember kids, Confidence is just a codeword for money.
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OhforfSake
OhforfSake


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posted May 04, 2012 08:03 AM

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You get why your statement is such an epic fail right

Because bliz isn't such a bad date?

@OP
Emil, you've broken up with your girlfriend and I imagine you're looking for a new one, given this thread. Let me ask you this, when you find a potential girlfriend, when and how do you know she's a candidate?
What I'm wondering is, if you knew this girl you decided on was a lesbian, would you ever even want to get to know her personally? Her thoughts, ambitions and feelings? Being part of her life and her a part of yours and together you make eachother more complete? If not, then I think your problem is that you go to the wrong type of "bars", because you're meeting people with vastly different expectations of the nights outcome than yourself.

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william
william


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LummoxLewis
posted May 04, 2012 10:25 AM

I know you may not be like this but I find it weird when people have to find someone. Why is it so necessary to actually be with somebody? I mean, it's nice being with somebody but there's aspects to being single which are, in some ways, better. Maybe that's just me, though I doubt it.
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Salamandre
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posted May 04, 2012 10:38 AM

One capital reason could be the houses prices in Europe for example. Unless you are famous lawyer/surgeon or other huge profit jobs, you will never be able to buy one from a single income.

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OhforfSake
OhforfSake


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posted May 04, 2012 10:55 AM

That's grown up thinking there.

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fauch
fauch


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posted May 04, 2012 03:24 PM

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I know you may not be like this but I find it weird when people have to find someone. Why is it so necessary to actually be with somebody? I mean, it's nice being with somebody but there's aspects to being single which are, in some ways, better. Maybe that's just me, though I doubt it.


I was beginning to think the same thing. I began searching for someone not long ago, and more I do it, more I feel that it is totally stupid and useless.

actually, what is wrong with being just friends? you can have some fun without all the trouble. maybe it's even better if she has a boyfriend already : the situation is clear, and you know it's not you she is going to bother when she needs something

oh, and attachment is such a terrible thing. you may not talk to a friend for a few months and not care about it, but your girlfriend goes away for 2 days and you are already crying...

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OmegaDestroyer
OmegaDestroyer

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Fox or Chicken?
posted May 04, 2012 03:42 PM

Learn to cook.  
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emilsn
emilsn


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posted May 04, 2012 06:23 PM

Quote:

@OP
Emil, you've broken up with your girlfriend and I imagine you're looking for a new one, given this thread. Let me ask you this, when you find a potential girlfriend, when and how do you know she's a candidate?
What I'm wondering is, if you knew this girl you decided on was a lesbian, would you ever even want to get to know her personally? Her thoughts, ambitions and feelings? Being part of her life and her a part of yours and together you make eachother more complete? If not, then I think your problem is that you go to the wrong type of "bars", because you're meeting people with vastly different expectations of the nights outcome than yourself.


Yo!
There are lot more to this than that.. There is my two failed attempts, there is my confidence, there is this girl, I like, but I don't know how to figure out if she wants me!
Then there is the fact that I don't know what want - Sometimes a girlfriend other times HELL No..

I have a lot on my mind

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Learn to cook.  


I can cook, I am no masterchef, but I am no rookie either!
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OhforfSake
OhforfSake


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posted May 04, 2012 06:34 PM
Edited by OhforfSake at 18:47, 04 May 2012.

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There are lot more to this than that.. There is my two failed attempts, there is my confidence, there is this girl, I like, but I don't know how to figure out if she wants me!


So you're interested in the girl and not the gender? In that case, why? What makes you seek out her company rather than someone elses?

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Then there is the fact that I don't know what want - Sometimes a girlfriend other times HELL No..


Where do you find girls you end up finding interesting? Usually I don't think people allow for the idea of being intimate with someone who they'll have to see "every day" for a long period of time, because it'd make life emotionally unbearable if anything goes sour.

Unless you manage to somehow show that you care more about her feelings than your own, in which case she'd maybe believe she was safe, but considering that you were the one to end your previous relationship, I think it's a guarantee hardly anyone can give.

Then there's also the possibility the thought never crossed her mind, you know, because of upbringing and stuff.

But seroiusly, if you're looking for a relationship, I suggest at least make sure you only consider people, who actually have interest in a relationship in the first place. If you just need someone close to you, then I'd think friendship could be something even better.

If it's any comfort, unless you always feel like this all year around, in a couple of months the spring induced hormones of the general youth in the northern hemisphere will habe subsided.

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emilsn
emilsn


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posted May 05, 2012 11:45 AM

Sorry for the mess of qoutes

Quote:
So you're interested in the girl and not the gender? In that case, why? What makes you seek out her company rather than someone elses?


She has the most beautiful smile ever - I swear, when she smiles, I die a little
No seriously, I am talking to myself about it every day because I am not sure what I actully like about her. oh and she lives a little far away - met her a special type of school we have in Denmark , it is a kind of boarding school for young adults oh and I have no idea what to write to her.. I am a little insecure..


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Where do you find girls you end up finding interesting? Usually I don't think people allow for the idea of being intimate with someone who they'll have to see "every day" for a long period of time, because it'd make life emotionally unbearable if anything goes sour.

Unless you manage to somehow show that you care more about her feelings than your own, in which case she'd maybe believe she was safe, but considering that you were the one to end your previous relationship, I think it's a guarantee hardly anyone can give.

I agree - I don't think I can give myself 100% yet

Then there's also the possibility the thought never crossed her mind, you know, because of upbringing and stuff.

who knows - I don't

But seroiusly, if you're looking for a relationship, I suggest at least make sure you only consider people, who actually have interest in a relationship in the first place. If you just need someone close to you, then I'd think friendship could be something even better.

I cannot disagree with you

If it's any comfort, unless you always feel like this all year around, in a couple of months the spring induced hormones of the general youth in the northern hemisphere will habe subsided.
I love your last sentences


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Salamandre
Salamandre


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Wog refugee
posted May 05, 2012 12:31 PM

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I don't know how to figure out if she wants me!



Women are complex creatures, who says the opposite is clearly single or golden boy and super handsome in same

You should start by some body language guides as HERE, there are interesting facts to know as base. But women are not same, while females over 30 years old are more incline to express their interest, younger will still keep the distant attitude even if interested (or not interested).

In the end, you will still have to look idiot by going and express clearly your interest and (most)probably get negative outcome. Or wait they are 50 years old, the chances you get positive answer raise by 5000%

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Doomforge
Doomforge


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posted May 05, 2012 12:55 PM

Well you already had one girlfriend, so it should be quite simple to you now

Don't follow anyone's suggestions. Do what feels natural for you. Acting is the easiest way to screw up. Either the girl accepts you as you are or she does not, simple as that. If she does, you don't need to make strategies. If she doesn't, you'd have to act for the rest of your life to keep her pleased, and that's kinda tiresome

And don't look for women. Just have fun with your life, make friends with females, and you'll probably end up in a good relationship in no time. Searching for one is the easiest path to, well, your doom
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emilsn
emilsn


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posted May 05, 2012 01:28 PM

body language - forgot about that one

Doomforge- loved you little DOOM at the end

But you are right, I had a Girlfriend - but I don't I did much there, it was about 70 to 30 % score.. she did 70, I did 30 More or less me being at the right place at the right time -

But be myself that is something I totally forget all the time.. being myself is all I can .. I suck at being someone else..

Best advice so far.. I spend the last year learning that being myself is all that matters
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Zenofex
Zenofex


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Legendary Hero
Kreegan-atheist
posted May 05, 2012 01:38 PM

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Contrary to what most men think, us women actually see through this transparent male behaviour.
If you see it, you definitely don't mind falling for it every single time when it is successfully executed. Talking about "he has to be special" and stuff.

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Azagal
Azagal


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Undefeatable Hero
Smooth Snake
posted May 05, 2012 02:31 PM

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Learn to cook.  

This man wins. Haaha this thread is fun LOL.
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william
william


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LummoxLewis
posted May 05, 2012 02:57 PM

I think if you are asking complete strangers for dating advice on the internet, then I think you've got problems.
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