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DagothGares
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posted June 15, 2014 02:50 AM |
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mvassilev said:
Or you could refrain from trying to pick up girls altogether.
If you guys fit, and you're not acting as if your nose bleeds when it matters, you'll get together with someone. It is inevitable. Unless you have some sort of flesh-eating disorder. If so, I'm really sorry. 
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Fauch
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posted June 15, 2014 02:52 AM |
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well I don't care, and while women seem to appreciate me (or at the very least they fake it to be polite) that doesn't seem to interest them any more than that. well girls usually don't go out with the goal of finding a mate in mind.
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what's bad around you? girls not wanting you?
Actually, yes. Nothing I do or say ever pleases anyone. I try to be helpful, witty and state my opinion even if the majority is against it. Screw the others, it's my opinion that matters to me and no one can force me to think the wrong way.
No one gives a damn about that though *shrugs*
so you are the problem? you could choose to not care about them. do you need someone to validate your self worth?
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Baklava
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posted June 15, 2014 02:58 AM |
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Noob, my man, all this shyte aside, have you started going out yet? I don't mean anything over the top. A bit of nightlife, some gigs, a beer in the park with a crew and a guitar? It's some great weather out there.
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Howlin Wolf
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artu
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My BS sensor is tingling again
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posted June 15, 2014 03:36 AM |
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95 pages and Noobx still asking for advice?  Seriously though Noobx, just try things, nothing too dramatic will happen in your age, at worst you'll be regarded as inexperienced which is normal. Gazing back at so many pages, if you put the standard Maxim Magazine discourses aside (which are like horoscopes in daily papers, they are fabricated from standard templates), there are many types of girls, some like the cool types, some like to dig out the shy types, some like athletes, some even like bullies, some like nerds... Don't be needy, sure, but don't act as something you're not, completely either, because even if that works, you wont have what you want, which is by your own words, someone to cuddle with a peace of mind. That's harder to get because there are no tactics to really clicking with a girl, but it's also worth more.
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fred79
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posted June 15, 2014 06:30 AM |
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artu said:
95 pages and Noobx still asking for advice? Seriously though Noobx, just try things, nothing too dramatic will happen in your age, at worst you'll be regarded as inexperienced which is normal. Gazing back at so many pages, if you put the standard Maxim Magazine discourses aside (which are like horoscopes in daily papers, they are fabricated from standard templates), there are many types of girls, some like the cool types, some like to dig out the shy types, some like athletes, some even like bullies, some like nerds... Don't be needy, sure, but don't act as something you're not, completely either, because even if that works, you wont have what you want, which is by your own words, someone to cuddle with a peace of mind. That's harder to get because there are no tactics to really clicking with a girl, but it's also worth more.
i guess the stuff in parenthesis was discussing my advice? all i can say is, don't knock it until you've tried it. my method is tried and true, and has worked for every female that i've gotten intimate with. you say "fabricated from standard templates". i say "there's a reason why those templates work". not that i work off of templates(or take advice from magazine or internet articles, lol), i've just found something that works, in real life, on my own. if you find something that works, why in the **** would you talk **** about it? apparently, artu isn't good at it. you get 'em liquored up, don't you, artu? or maybe you just go to those bars i mentioned, and pick up the needy girls? 
yeah, i've already covered the bulk scenario's, and the behavior needed to get a woman.
now, that said, if it is true that you're only trying to find something more like a soulmate, noobx, i say give up on that, man. the more you try to find the perfect girl, the more you'll be by yourself, because you'll never want to be in the game, you'll be judging from too high of an ideal. besides, you won't really know what is perfect for you, until you experience a lot more than what you've experienced so far(which i would say is practically nil, judging by what you say. no offense). what i mean is, you might think you know what your ideal is, but you can find a good amount of quality women out there, who may have traits you never even considered, that'll throw your world for a loop, man.
one thing artu said that is good advice: "just try things". stop sitting on the sidelines, noobx. get out there, and get yourself in the game. you're never going to get what you want, when you're NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT. you have to be actively involved. cool, but actively involved. remember what i posted before. key advice, man. KEY advice. 
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artu
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My BS sensor is tingling again
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posted June 15, 2014 07:10 AM |
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The parenthesis refers to all the "play it cool" generalizations in the thread and in such magazines, they are pretty much all the same anyway, it's not like you revealed a secret trick or brought in Barney's Playbook. There are times it works and times it doesn't, usually, stuff like that works on shallow and boring people more though and in these times, probably even a 15 yo girl can see through that, so, it all depends on if she WANTS TO buy it. You can bet your life, you're not the only "genius" women ever met, trying to act cool and believes he's Don Juan for it. (That claim seems blatantly exaggerated, repeatedly overacted and given the fact that you mentioned having no real life friends and social life except family, very improbable to even consider as wishful thinking, to tell you the truth.)
Btw, don't troll your way into imaginary "apperantlies" again, I was doing quite fine back in my day, I wasn't everyone's Romeo but I had many relations. I just don't like to brag about it like some wanna-be. I didn't end up with the love of my life and I'm not "in the game" anymore, which is something else entirely.
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NoobX
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Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 15, 2014 09:48 AM |
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Baklava said:
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I try to be helpful, witty and state my opinion even if the majority is against it. Screw the others, it's my opinion that matters to me and no one can force me to think the wrong way.
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The worst that can happen is "What?! HAHAHAHAHAA, be with a loser like you?! Wait a moment I must post this on FB!"
I don't like to take risks in life unless I'm definetly sure that nothing bad can happen.
Which is it, Obama?
Right, that's a little problem I have... I think I have two personalities, each very different from the other. One momemnt I'm all mainstream, conservative and judgmental, and the other I'm this liberal, hipster-like guy trying not to give a snow and trying to be all natural.
Well, ain't I an interesting nutjob...
Baklava said:
Noob, my man, all this shyte aside, have you started going out yet? I don't mean anything over the top. A bit of nightlife, some gigs, a beer in the park with a crew and a guitar? It's some great weather out there.
No. My family is against that sort of thing, and would never let me go out in the night. And then, there are also rules in the dorm like no going out after 21:30 
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Ebonheart
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Rush the rush
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posted June 15, 2014 09:58 AM |
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Like I said Noobx, just try and ask. If you're 16 then you got nothing to worry about. I am 23 and I am still a virgin, I don't mind it at all.
Besides, you say you are worried about that the girl might post your reply on Facebook? Rest easy my good man! Everything you write on the internet, say on the telephone and say near a public building is recorded so you can be 100% sure that someone from the secret agencies knows all about you, your habits and your partner finding issues.
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Stevie
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posted June 15, 2014 10:00 AM |
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NoobX said:
Well, ain't I an interesting nutjob...
Wow. It's as if we were brothers.
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NoobX
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Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 15, 2014 10:36 AM |
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Ebonheart said:
Besides, you say you are worried about that the girl might post your reply on Facebook? Rest easy my good man! Everything you write on the internet, say on the telephone and say near a public building is recorded so you can be 100% sure that someone from the secret agencies knows all about you, your habits and your partner finding issues.
It's all a conspiracy! DOWN WITH THE SYSTEM!
Seriously, though, last thing I need is people teasing me because I'm a failure. And that happens a lot in Serbia... As if I don't have enough problems with getting friends; this thing will ruin me for sure.
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Ebonheart
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posted June 15, 2014 12:12 PM |
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I reckon you got some friends here on the forums? Not to mention that you're young and you never know what the future might hold.
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Storm-Giant
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posted June 15, 2014 01:11 PM |
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NoobX said:
Seriously, though, last thing I need is people teasing me because I'm a failure. And that happens a lot in Serbia... As if I don't have enough problems with getting friends; this thing will ruin me for sure.
One day you'll learn to won't give a snow of what people say about you. One day.
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Fauch
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posted June 15, 2014 04:15 PM |
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I don't get "the game". are you playing with people's feelings?
I doubt it's a game for most people, they just don't want to get hurt.
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fred79
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posted June 15, 2014 05:36 PM |
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@ artu: oh, take it easy. you're so tense. just smoke some weed and relax or something. i get the feeling that if you smoked more, you'd be a lot less uppity. and, don't you worry your big orange head over me. i'm doing fine. you drop me in your city, i'll round up some girls, then come over to your house and we can all toke and have a little fun. but you'll have to keep your hands off of me, i don't swing that way.
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fred79
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posted June 15, 2014 05:41 PM |
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Fauch said:
I don't get "the game". are you playing with people's feelings?
I doubt it's a game for most people, they just don't want to get hurt.
when people refer to "the game", they're just talking about the rigamarole that people go through to connect with one another. it's not soulless or degrading, it's kind of a pet name for it.
of course, you can win or lose at this, so it IS a little fitting, name-wise...
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Stevie
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posted June 15, 2014 05:46 PM |
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You just have to ignore artu, fred. That's all you gotta do. It's not like he's gonna change or anything even if you say something to him.
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fred79
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posted June 15, 2014 06:53 PM |
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i don't ignore people. i let them know i acknowledge their presence by communicating with them. otherwise, i'd be a rude ass who calls people trolls simply because i don't understand their POV. i'm much more pleasant and accommodating. 
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artu
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My BS sensor is tingling again
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posted June 15, 2014 07:18 PM |
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See now, that's what we call a straw man: Difference of POV had nothing to do with what I referred to as trolling. The exact difference of POV had been discussed in this very thread in the beginning, check how it actually goes without the trolling and maybe you won't blame others for the eventual results of your actions.
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fred79
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posted June 15, 2014 07:54 PM |
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*"see now, that's what we call a straw man", artu says, with his chest puffed out.*
seriously, though, why do you feel the need to turn everything into an argument, artu? this thread is about males talking about females. this thread isn't to critique other people's advice, but to give your own.
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artu
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posted June 15, 2014 08:05 PM |
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I just gave my own advice to Noobx, fred, it wasn't meant for a debate. I agree on not prolonging it.
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