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Blizzardboy
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posted May 25, 2020 03:56 PM
Edited by Blizzardboy at 16:09, 25 May 2020.

It's called chasing the dragon. And yeah, that behavior manifests in porn consumption all the time.

If you want to quit but find yourself unable to do so, it is okay to seek out help from caring friends and/or professionals. Like any other poison, it is something that often or always requires outside assistance and support. <3
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bloodsucker
bloodsucker


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posted May 25, 2020 04:51 PM

Baronus said:
Sex is only for marriage. Another way is in fact perversion. Small or big.
Really man not only from name should ruled his body not body ruled him! Mind is upper than body! Sprituality is upper than mind! Not reverse.

I always saw marriage as a perversion of sex and I don't believe in a mind that isn't one with the body. I guess my tantric gurus would agree. Some of them are/were famous.
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Ghost
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posted May 25, 2020 05:40 PM
Edited by Ghost at 17:41, 25 May 2020.

Interesting thing, Bloodsucker and Baronus. Therefore, perversion is an obsolete word. Today, it means paraphilia. What's paraphilia? Sexual perversion/deviation. He/she interests zoophilia, necrophilia necrophilism, paraphilic infantilism, paedophilia or at least over 500 different disease class. The Bible is an old translation. So watching porn isn't paraphilia, if s/he's not sick of it. And marriage can have paraphilia, if family has an incest, sodomy, etc How? Pedofilic family teaches the matter, but you call a incest. I know one old guy. Now I haven’t met him in over 20 years. Ok I've seen he snowed his sister, and he asked me do I want snow his sister. I said noes. His room was full porn magazine, etc also living room, at least hundreds of porn magazine. But I didn't know what incest meant. It gave me knowledge. Ok back to porn film.

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FirePaladin
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posted May 25, 2020 05:48 PM

I've never seen sex as being obligatory in marriage (or marriage as a perversion), only love being, tbh (even tho that is sadly rarer with the newer generations). Even religiously and spiritually, marriage itself doesn't really have anything to do with sex, only that you're allowed to have it with your wife/husband.

I do believe in souls and such. Especially after that one time I managed to "leave" my body, but this is getting off-topic.
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Oddball13579
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posted May 26, 2020 01:10 AM

FirePaladin said:
I've never seen sex as being obligatory in marriage (or marriage as a perversion)
I mean, you aren't obligated to have sex with anyone for that matter, regardless of marital status.

FirePaladin said:
only love being, tbh (even tho that is sadly rarer with the newer generations).
I wouldn't say it is rare. In fact I see it more than I ever have. It's more like the newer generations are scrambling for some form of comfort in these uncertain times. Except they don't realize how hard it can be to love someone or that relationships takes a lot of effort. So they fall in love really easily and then get broken hearted. Rinse and repeat.

Another reason it seems rare could be because young adults are trying to focus more on their own lives and how the hell they are going to make a living in this world. At this point love seems more like a luxury that nobody can afford at this point. Not when jobs, housing, food, money, can be so hard to come by. It just slides from people's minds.

FirePaladin said:
Even religiously and spiritually, marriage itself doesn't really have anything to do with sex, only that you're allowed to have it with your wife/husband.
I mean you're allowed to have sex with anyone so long as you have their consent. Marriage has nothing to do with it.

If anything, marriage has been perverted by religion and personal beliefs, and even more so by the media. People think that when they get married they are entitled to things and the other person. One of those things being sex.
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FirePaladin
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posted May 26, 2020 01:14 AM
Edited by FirePaladin at 01:17, 26 May 2020.

Well, the wife/husband does need to consent to sex, that's very true. Religiously speaking, you aren't allowed to have sex before marriage, and then only with your partner. I won't go into a pages long lecture on ancient and actual religions evolution of marriage and sex, and the reasons (spirit bonds, etc.).

True, with the love thing. But I was more like talking about simply pure love, when you would do anything for the other, no matter what. Well, not gonna go in details, it's late here at me.
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Oddball13579
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posted May 26, 2020 01:19 AM

FirePaladin said:
Well, the wife/husband does need to consent to sex, that's very true. Religiously speaking, you aren't allowed to have sex before marriage, and then only with your partner. I won't go into a pages long lecture on ancient and actual religions evolution of marriage and sex, and the reasons (spirit bonds, etc.).
True. Sex was never a part of marriage (meaning the restrictions) until modern religion came around and it was deemed "sinful".

FirePaladin said:
True, with the love thing. But I was more like talking about simply pure love, when you would do anything for the other, no matter what. Well, not gonna go in details, it's late here at me.
Oh yeah that. I completely see what you are saying. I mean I've only felt that twice in my life so far. And both times it didn't work out, sadly.
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FirePaladin
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posted May 26, 2020 01:22 AM
Edited by FirePaladin at 01:28, 26 May 2020.

Not really. There are some ancient and spiritual cultures which forbid it before marriage and such. And in medieval times, it was at least recommended (usually, I think) to have sex in the wedding night. But again, not gonna write an essay.

Edit: Btw, sorry oddball for reminding you of unpleasant stuff.
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bloodsucker
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posted May 26, 2020 01:24 AM
Edited by bloodsucker at 01:25, 26 May 2020.

@Ghost Interesting thing, Bloodsucker and Baronus. Therefore, perversion is an obsolete word. Today, it means paraphilia. ...

Man, after all this years your english has become quite better, I could totally understand what you said. Congratulations!
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Oddball13579
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posted May 26, 2020 01:28 AM

FirePaladin said:
Not really. There are some ancient and spiritual cultures which forbid it before marriage and such. And in medieval times, it was at least recommended (usually, I think) to have sex in the wedding night. But again, not gonna write an essay.
True true, I just meant that in today's age it is incredibly frowned upon. But that is also true, religion often puts restrictions on it, especially some ancient ones.

FirePaladin said:
Edit: Btw, sorry oddball for reminding you of unpleasant stuff.
Oh no worries! It doesn't hurt nearly as much as it used to. Besides it was my own damn fault. That's what I get for falling for straight guys.
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bloodsucker
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posted May 26, 2020 01:34 AM

Oddball13579 said:
I mean I've only felt that twice in my life so far. And both times it didn't work out, sadly.

Really? Or worked for some time and then stop working?
There is a stupid sense of eternity about love I never understood, I was in love and now I'm not.

That's a man
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Oddball13579
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posted May 26, 2020 01:39 AM

bloodsucker said:
Oddball13579 said:
I mean I've only felt that twice in my life so far. And both times it didn't work out, sadly.
Really? Or worked for some time and then stop working?
There is a stupid sense of eternity about love I never understood, I was in love and now I'm not.
More like it never worked out in the beginning. Or even started for that matter.

As for the eternity part... love makes you dumb and blind. Makes you naive and stupid. Makes you think it'll last forever.

Unfortunately, nothing in life is ever certain or guaranteed. Or permanent. People change, feelings change. You can fall out of love just as easily as you fell into it.
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bloodsucker
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posted May 26, 2020 08:20 AM

Oddball13579 said:
People change, feelings change. You can fall out of love just as easily as you fell into it.

Yup! That's the spirit.

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FirePaladin
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posted May 26, 2020 10:59 AM

@Oddball

True, you're all of that at first, but it happens that your love will enter a more "passive" state after a time, which does last enough for a human life, but it's still love nonetheless.

But everyone has different experiences and such, and in this age I don't expect many to have such kind of love, sadly.
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Oddball13579
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posted May 26, 2020 08:48 PM
Edited by Oddball13579 at 20:51, 26 May 2020.

FirePaladin said:
@Oddball

True, you're all of that at first, but it happens that your love will enter a more "passive" state after a time, which does last enough for a human life, but it's still love nonetheless.

But everyone has different experiences and such, and in this age I don't expect many to have such kind of love, sadly.
That "passive" state is where a lot of people struggle and their relationships die.

When the proverbial flame dies down into an ember a lot of people question their feelings. Because it doesn't feel like it did when they first met the person they loved. That then generates a whole bunch of new problems and it'll make or break the relationship.

It happens to everyone. It happens because you have grown so comfortable with someone that they are just...there. You have both reached I guess what you could call "100% devotion" to one another and you have no interest in another person. Then of course you don't have to worry about losing the other person and you can just enjoy your company with them. Basically, the honeymoon phase is over.

Relationships are weird.
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FirePaladin
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posted May 26, 2020 09:03 PM
Edited by FirePaladin at 21:04, 26 May 2020.

True, but love can still exist, even if not that "intense" as before.
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Oddball13579
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posted May 26, 2020 09:09 PM

No that's what I mean.

The fiery love that you feel in the beginning dies down to a comfortable love. That's when people freak out cause it doesn't feel the same as it did in the beginning. Que lots of questions and worrying.

It's still love, just taking on a different form.
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FirePaladin
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posted May 26, 2020 09:10 PM
Edited by FirePaladin at 21:11, 26 May 2020.

Exactly (must have missed the point of your former comment, since I was hurrying, and I still am).
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Baronus
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posted May 26, 2020 11:02 PM

bloodsucker said:
I always saw marriage as a perversion of sex and I don't believe in a mind that isn't one with the body. I guess my tantric gurus would agree. Some of them are/were famous.


As all of us feel many times mind wants something but body another. So definietly its not the same. We have colision.
Body wants sex but mind know that its bad. So you dont realise it.

Yes formal marriage is to small. It can be patological perverted etc. But I told about how to have hapiness from sex not druglike "advantage".
For spirit is love
For mind imagination
For body sex
These three spheres must be united in marriage.
Most important is upper spiritual. It can be only.
But sex only is impossible if you want be happy! You can be only druggy...
But if you have these three you are happy.

Porno is body only so can be druggy only.
Sex is not for watching but for doing because to compare you cant eat using eyes only... Its nonsensible to eat using films. You must eat. So porno is always patology. Between man and women in normal practice too.
Your body want this like drugs but never give you hapines like drugs.
Of course if you dont practice drugs you dont feel about. Sexual impulse you have always. Because mankind needs reproduction!!!
But kids needs family for years! So marriage is needed! Its only correct track! Without reproduction all this sphere is nonsense.
Some marriages can be spiritual only but as you know its impossible as only way in whole world!
So porno is road to nowhere. No logical function. Only patology.

FirePaladin said:
A great truth. Dang, even the Titans have mind immunity! Who doesn't want to be as cool as them?


I think that sexoholics have mind using resistance. Only copulation life!!! Horrible!

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FirePaladin
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posted May 26, 2020 11:07 PM

Well, someone took his time for a more "on paper" explanation. I myself do agree with Baronus, mostly.
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