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Aculias
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posted August 27, 2007 10:04 AM |
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People Have Been Telling Me For Years
For many Yrs people would tell me it's only the net.
I tried to prove that people are just like us sitting on the net taking a break from whatever were doing or for whatever reason.
I always disagreed with others thinking people have feelings just like us.
For yrs I have been trying to be friends with many peeps & it back fires on me little by little.
I have been backstabbed by so many people.
I had many friends since I first came on here.
Now the only friend I have on here is Pandora.
I had others but usually I get told to F off when they dont post much anymore or retire etc.
Basically that is also the trend.
I had many real life & online experiences with many people.
I always try to stay the same but I think people eventually will know we will never meet or see each other.
Occasionally you will but I am starting to learn that people can give a rats crack about anyone on here.
Then again I could be wrong lol.
I tried to help people for many yrs in any way but I wonder if that is enough.
I guess the yrs of being here has gotten to me meeting so many good & bad people & seeing this place change.
Being actual great friends with many.
Eventually real life is what counts though.
I consider some people on here as good of friends as some in my real life.
I wonder if that is the case though.
I had over 50 good friends when i was new here.
Now I only have one & I dont even know how long that would last.
I think I made a mistake lol.
Who knows lol.
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william
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posted August 27, 2007 10:12 AM |
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Hi Aculias.
I do not think I have been backstabbed by someone on the internet before, and I know that it wouldn't be easy to cope with that.
But there is more then just the internet.
Sure, online friends are awesome, but the Real World is full of so many more possibilities, much more ways to meet more people.
And meeting someone face to face is better then meeting them on the internet.
You can always talk to me, since you know I am online most of the time, and I will be happy to talk.
For me, I guess Online friends and RL friends are kinda different but they each have a different and similar purpose and meaning to me.
You should try to balance things, internet and real world, meet more friends in RL, maybe even try to go and find some online friends and meet them in RL.
You are a good person, and I do not think you have made a mistake.
Keep at it  
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Aculias
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posted August 27, 2007 10:14 AM |
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Just realising things lol.
Jake was a special friend of mine.
Well things happens.
Maybe it means something good.
I guess it's a matter of fate 7 time lol.
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Elvin
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posted August 27, 2007 10:59 AM |
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I can't believe it's a matter of fate or whatever. As you said online is online and real life is real life. I know people online that for some reason I trust more than some I know on person but I don't forget that real life is more reliable - what you will experience together side by side, small signals that things may have begun to change, certain gestures, how they will help you in a practical manner when you really need it.
Yes I know that some people may actually say more on the net because you don't live close and are a practical stranger at first but being nice, type supportive things and a friendly behaviour may mean nothing in the end.
How do you know how someone actually feels about you, does he want a a buddy to talk once in a while, does he like your ideas, is there even a bond? That said real life relations can be just as fragile but at least there are a few people that I know they will be there for me.
That's why I think of some people more like 'online friends' hoping some of them can be considered friends. I may believe some are but I am aware that time may prove me wrong.
I'm sorry for that acu.
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Aculias
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posted August 28, 2007 12:36 AM |
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Sometimes it is better to know them when it comes to certan trust though.
I know many who I trusted just to be a totally different person in real life.
Therefore trusting them can also be bad as well.
Point is make sure you know them well before you trust your online friends in different ways.
Difference between Iris & I.She has met the right people. I have met the wrong people LOL.
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Tenaka
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posted August 28, 2007 12:43 AM |
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Hakuna Matata, Aculias. 
Yeah, I'm out of constructive advice. I need to refill, I think...
And stop ending every post you make with a 'lol'. 
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As fascinating as our bodies are, they're also stupid.
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Aculias
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posted August 28, 2007 12:49 AM |
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Pictures of Matchstick men PICTURES OF MATCHSTICK MEN!!!
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roy-algriffin
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posted August 28, 2007 02:16 AM |
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i know how you feel . some people arent as they seem at first. still it doesnt sound like all of them "backstabbed" you as such. they just got bored and left. Some friends you leave behind and instead make new ones. i suppose if you look at it that way youll always have friends even if they keep changing
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Binabik
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posted August 28, 2007 02:47 AM |
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Edited by Binabik at 03:09, 11 Dec 2007.
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angelito
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posted August 28, 2007 09:41 AM |
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Quote:
For many Yrs people would tell me it's only the net.
I tried to prove that people are just like us sitting on the net taking a break from whatever were doing or for whatever reason.
I always disagreed with others thinking people have feelings just like us.
For yrs I have been trying to be friends with many peeps & it back fires on me little by little.
I have been backstabbed by so many people.
I had many friends since I first came on here.
Now the only friend I have on here is Pandora.
I had others but usually I get told to F off when they dont post much anymore or retire etc.
Basically that is also the trend.
I had many real life & online experiences with many people.
I always try to stay the same but I think people eventually will know we will never meet or see each other.
Occasionally you will but I am starting to learn that people can give a rats crack about anyone on here.
Then again I could be wrong lol.
I tried to help people for many yrs in any way but I wonder if that is enough.
I guess the yrs of being here has gotten to me meeting so many good & bad people & seeing this place change.
Being actual great friends with many.
Eventually real life is what counts though.
I consider some people on here as good of friends as some in my real life.
I wonder if that is the case though.
I had over 50 good friends when i was new here.
Now I only have one & I dont even know how long that would last.
I think I made a mistake lol.
Who knows lol.
I psychologist would tell ya, you have a tendency for egoism...
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Homer171
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posted August 28, 2007 10:07 AM |
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Nice video man. Reminds me of movie 2001 SO it had some color experiments also but this worked way better for me. Like being on drugs having hallucinations and all *Whoop takes the medicines*
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Binabik
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posted August 28, 2007 10:27 AM |
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The colors don't do much for me. I picked that particular video because it was the only one with the original studio version of the song.
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