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rychenroller
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posted October 16, 2004 09:23 AM |
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Only have to read the title and who it is by 
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RedSoxFan3
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Fan of Red Sox
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posted October 16, 2004 10:01 AM |
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Hey check out this thread by KittenAngel.
http://heroescommunity.com/viewthread.php3?TID=9593
Using your standards, isn't quite as accurate as other threads like this one would be. You see that the BS this time was coincidentally true... At least part of it probably was...
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tewilligar
Famous Hero
Just another willigar
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posted October 16, 2004 10:55 AM |
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Except the part where she was let go because she was too incompitent to flip a burger,nevermind anything else. Dont you notice people who are unceremoniously dumped on thier rear ends are bitter? She failed at mdonalds...so guess what? Let's bring it down!
She failed at Mah...guess what? blame it on everyone else. You get the point.
As for Consis...
no,I'm not gonna toss ya relax 
I respect your opinion. Your just trying to bring out as many positives as you can. I respect positive people,the world needs more of this.
But this is a case where we know the score with kitten inside and out. Her post should have been more apropriatly called "A brush with stupidity".. Except she didnt just brush with it,it stuck.
Now before you mods go deleting anything i said consider one thing..I dont BS and i always call a spade a spade. This is not a character assassination,but mere truth. Trust me,I can go on about this all day,you might think what I've said is personal...well I'm sorry but this is as impersonal as I can be on this topic.
Again mods,my appologies,this is just the way it is.
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Sir_Stiven
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banned
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posted October 16, 2004 12:48 PM |
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@bibnabok: Youre a less knowing foobum in this matter.
You have no history with kitten whatsoever just the number of posts made by zelda. Well let me inform you that zelda is a regular member at zone (where some actually do play heroes3) and kitten has been the admin of the biggest heroes3 tournament. Dont you think they know alittle more about each other than whats been written of one post?
Exactly, so take your judgemental n00bishness someplace else.
You should be happy that she is taking the time to inform you and many others what kind of person kitten really is.
Because IMO this is disgusting, and its following the same lame pattern as always.
Negative focus is gaining on kitten.. so she tries just another boring predictable lame way to get people to feel sorry for her while she as usual is the person who has made most harm.
And im friggin sick of this now.
Tew is 100% correct - she is a lying backstabbing drama queen. RychenTruthTellerTosserRoller is also on spot.
Aculias has given you the harsh truth in his friggin posts.
So why are some of you insisting to take kittens party? You are getting screwed. As each one so far has done that ive heard of who has taken her party.
Kitten isnt a teamplayer, she plays single. And she uses any means or person who might support her to get as much single attention as possible.
so bossnabik, consis or whoever of you who have sympathy for this person... let me ask you this.
Why do you think the people from zone and the people who has learnt who she is is sick of her?
Heck you must have seen aculias persisting defensive posts about her? and how did she repay him?
And most important: what is aculias saying now and whats been his lesson that he tries to inform you about?
Some of you might see this post as an attack, and im sure it cant be interpeted as one aswell.
But thats by no means my intention of it, my intention is to warn people about kitten so they dont stand next in the "get screwed line" and once they have they will get to hear the always same and lame excuses (car broke down, familymember died, heartattack etc) IMO its a toss that someone will even use such incidents to get attention as its IMO is an insult on everyone who has had heartproblems (no wonder zelda took offence) or a close familymember have died on recenty.
Stay away from her.
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TheRealDeal
Promising
Supreme Hero
Foobum* of Justice!
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posted October 16, 2004 01:08 PM |
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Witch Hunt! Witch Hunt!
Well if what most of you are saying is true(And i don't think you have reason for lieing here) Then Kitten doesn't seem all that nice, but, This seems more like a Witch Hunt then telling the truth, all you guys do is repeating what eachother said. It's like going to watch the same movie, just with new roles. I don't know what i find worse, that she's a dramaqueen, or youre certain lust to smack here to the floor. I'm not taking her party, because of what i know(my info is limitied, but i have some) then she doesn't diserve it. But still.. Attacking here like she was a mere unloved dog? Smacking here to the curve and being ever so cruel? Maybe you should cool it down, there are many ways of telling this. You don't have to be mean all the friggin' time, you could have told us this in a more polite way. I've never been a big fan of the CoC(i swear to much ^_^) But this is ridiciulous. Btw using the MacD thread as an example was bad, because she was right there, and if that is wanting "attention" then EVERYONE here wants that.
You should all get off your high horses. I'm not saying that you should say sorry, because what she has done seems terrible, but flaming here like that doesn't make you guys saints. Don't throw stones if you live in a glasshouse. Should i start making examples?
Redsox: You make A LOT of theads just for getting QPs, you could say it's for the community, but we know u love em red stars.
Stiven: You love tossing, but if people start tossing you, something is deffinetly wrong, and thats when you stop going for the ball, and head for the person.
Terw & Rychen: I don't know you guys, but you just seem like flamers with 2 much sparetime.
Consis: I agree with you in this post.
This is NOT to point out youre weaknesses, because i like you guys, i'm just saying that you guys aren't saints, neither am i. It's ok to say your opinion about kitten, but you could say it in a nicer way.
(I know i didn't mention Acu, but imo he has enough reason to let his anger flow)
Cheers.
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rychenroller
Promising
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posted October 16, 2004 01:29 PM |
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I dunno you either, but I've been around since HC existed. That doesnt make me any better of course but it has given me a first hand view of what kitten has done to a) ToH and b) peoples minds. Because you dont agree with it, or you believe I could have said it in a different way make it any less important or factual? People like me, Pan, Tew, Stefan, Acu countless others have watched it for years.
Jeeeeez it gets old.
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Sir_Stiven
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Legendary Hero
banned
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posted October 16, 2004 01:56 PM |
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it does.
and whats scary is that people still think they know better yet have very little knowledge in the matter.
tossdeal, sad part is that people has been mentioning this for years now but there always comes one or two like yourself which takes her party.. aculias was one of them. Now you have his story black on white, yet you obviously choose to defend her.
well..atleast send me a postcard from IGotScrewed Land
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TheRealDeal
Promising
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Foobum* of Justice!
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posted October 16, 2004 02:12 PM |
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If you'd notice dear, sweet Stefan, i AINT taking here side, i'm just saying that you are making it into a witchhunt.
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bjorn190
Responsible
Supreme Hero
Jebus maker
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posted October 16, 2004 03:00 PM |
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Quote:
bjorn is apparently drunk. again.
toss toss toss
Takes another zip of whisky: "For great justice!"
Hugs kitten: "Hey you don't have to be a drama queen for ppl to like you - they will like you even more if you let the guard down and let them like you for being ordinary and nice. You see that ppl don't like you when you try to play them? besides, you're not fooling anyone so best to just give it up k?"
Hugs Acu: "H8 2 say I told you so but you and Kitten isn't a match. You're pure good and shes drama queen, you need a smart girl who can value the incredible magnitude of your eternal love and your little dance. Try to get a hobby like join Greenpeace (80% women) or something else, book club or something."
Alright thats about it but try to be nice to kitten she just wants u to love her. She's just real clumsy about it and doing it wrong.
ok HF
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pandora
Honorable
Legendary Hero
The Chosen One
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posted October 16, 2004 04:03 PM |
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Consis and RealDeal, I appreciate your attempts at diplomacy here. What I think you don't understand is that this is only the very tip of an iceberg that's a long time in forming.
Consis, I'm sorry that you don't see online friendships as being real. I am very thankful for the relationships I've made online. To me also, the word 'friendship' holds the same meaning if you are online or looking me straight in there. If I call someone my friend I would never lie to them, or deliberately hurt them. Online or RL holds no relevance there.
I understand though, the point that you try tomake about sticking to 'online Kitten' and ignoring the rest - but the thing is that she drags the rest online herself. Nobody asks her if she's been hit by cars, attacked by dogs, abducted by aliens or had her heart stopped lately.. she posts it here herself, so people respond. Your advice would better be flipped to advise Kitten to leave the stories behind when she comes to post, then the reactions cannot follow.
I'm am struggling here to be a good mod and limit what I have to say, but it's difficult because I see people that are my friends being looked at as though they are cruel and unkind for their posts. Its simply not true.
A photographer is not to blame for taking an ugly photo, when the subject itself is hideous.
I think that this flame war should end, because it accomplishes nothing here really. The best thing that could come of it would be that she listens to Bjorn
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"Hey you don't have to be a drama queen for ppl to like you - they will like you even more if you let the guard down and let them like you for being ordinary and nice. You see that ppl don't like you when you try to play them? besides, you're not fooling anyone so best to just give it up k?"
Really Kitten, give it up - people can't take it anymore.
Aculias, we tricked you by moving this post to tavern - now that's you're here may as well start posting again! 
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TheRealDeal
Promising
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Foobum* of Justice!
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posted October 16, 2004 04:53 PM |
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Theres one thing you can't get, i'm not defending here. I'm just saying that you've stopped going after the ball.
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Consis
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Legendary Hero
Of Ruby
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posted October 16, 2004 06:15 PM |
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Edited By: Consis on 16 Oct 2004
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I Learn A Great Deal From People Online
I believe the 'serenity prayer' has no established author but I think it is widely accepted that Dr. Reinhold Niebuhr first documented it. I've grandparents, friends, and other relatives who have a plaque hung on their livingroom walls. It's history might be helpful to anyone with a history of alcohol abuse.
In 1939, it came to the attention of Jack, an early A.A. member, who had read it in the New York Times obituary columns, which read "Mother--God grant me the serenity to accept things I cannot change, courage to change things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. Goodbye." He liked it so much, he brought it to the old Vesey Street office. Bill W., the co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous & the staff read the prayer & felt that it particularly suited the needs of AA. Cards were printed & passed around. Thus the simple little prayer became an integral part of the AA movement.
The Serenity Prayer
God give me the serenity to accept things which cannot be changed; give me courage to change things which must be changed; and the wisdom to distinguish one from the other.
The rest of it is written as follows:
Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time, accepting hardship as the pathway to peace. Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it. Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His will. That I may be reasonably happy in this life, and supremely happy with Him forever in the next. Amen.
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I believe in giving people chances until they break that trust. I would love to meet everyone on here if I could.
Aculias,
You are a stronger man than I. I want your courage and strength, but I confess I am too afraid of people doing frightening things to me or my family. Perhaps when I have grown more as a person I will be where you are but not today. Today I worry about the people who are close to me.
I suppose all of this is because people really do care. It sounds like people have tried to help this Heroes Community member to be a better person in real life. I take advice from people all the time. Some of it is helpful and some it is not. I suppose the end decision lies with the recipient of said criticism. I don't know what I'm talking about anymore. I guess I'm done talking about this.
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Binabik
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posted October 16, 2004 07:49 PM |
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Sir_Stiven
Slow down a little...
I posted using the information I had at the time. I stated my opinion based on that information. So I didn't recognize Zelda, so what? Is that a mortal sin?
I recognized tewilligar and rychenroller as TOHers. They didn't suddenly show up here by chance. I saw it for what it was. At that point it was "family business" and I stay the h*** out of it. Except for this post defending myself, I haven't said a word since then.
If every poster had to know the full background of every other member, this board might not die out, but it sure wouldn't be what it is now.
So I don't like being attacked and yea it ticks me off a little. But I'll get over. So peace, chill, no hard feelings and all that.
BTW. I had an alchoholic girlfriend for eighteen years. You always hear that you can't change a person until they are ready to change themselves. I know the truth of that from first hand experience. I know what it's like to argue with them about it and they won't listen. I also know how hard it is to love someone when they come stumbling into bed at 4:00am drunk as h***, you can't. It might not be about alchohol, but no, I'm not passing any judgements on people's reactions in this thread.
I sure stepped in the middle of a big mess didn't I? I'm out'a here. Again, no hard feelings.
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Asmodean
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Supreme Hero
Heroine at the weekend.
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posted October 16, 2004 08:53 PM |
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Seriously considering just deleting this whole mess!!!
Okay.
I'm not going to take sides, because to be honest, I haven't dealt with KittenAngel before, and most of the posts I've read by her have been harmless posts that anyone could make.
What does sicken me is that this thread is having a negative influence on Heroes COMMUNITY.
Urgh.
I don't care what she may or may not have done in the past.
But I can't sit back and watch what you're all doing now, Kitten included.
It's the online version of village gossip.
Anyone ever read the Crucible?
I'm going to go away and speak to the other Mods about this, but don't be surprised if this thread isn't here tomorrow!!
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tewilligar
Famous Hero
Just another willigar
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posted October 16, 2004 09:26 PM |
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sometimes things have to be discussed here...not everything is bright and rosie. this thread was neccessary for people to vent thier frustration with kitten. just let the thread sit,within 2 weeks it will be on page 2. removing it will just aggravate people...plus i'm sure you dont want to seem to be like your on a power trip(which i'm sure your not) but thats what people will think.
this thread is a healthy means of venting for those of us who have had enough with this fake. please dont get rid of it,it will be on page 2 soon and semi forgotten anyways. erasing this will only lead to more frustration.. i guarantee it.
anyways,peace out.
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Consis
Honorable
Legendary Hero
Of Ruby
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posted October 16, 2004 10:10 PM |
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Edited By: Consis on 16 Oct 2004
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Delete The Thread?
That's ********. When you don't agree with a thread then don't click on it. I see no CoC violation here. If it is deleted at this point, then I would agree with Tewilligar. No one has done anything against the rules here.
I mean come on, what kind of world do you want to live in where everyone always agrees and is happy-go-lucky? Watching smurf re-runs might interest you if that's the case. Blue, happy, and they all have smiles that make me want to push the big red button. Tra,La,La,La....That's a scary fantasy world! LoL! People are going to disagree. If you get bad vibes from a thread then you shouldn't click on it.
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RedSoxFan3
Admirable
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Fan of Red Sox
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posted October 16, 2004 10:41 PM |
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Please delete this thread.
I'll admit it. I'm very pissed off at Kitten and I don't want to see this thread, or any other sickening threads like it again.
There's no point in bashing Kitten. Let us simply ignore her when she acts so selfishly as this. Rather than bashing her for posting like this in the future. I will simply request its deletion.
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tewilligar
Famous Hero
Just another willigar
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posted October 16, 2004 11:12 PM |
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you dont like it dun look at it. it will be on page 2 and partially forgotten soon anyways.
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Consis
Honorable
Legendary Hero
Of Ruby
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posted October 17, 2004 01:13 AM |
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Edited By: Consis on 16 Oct 2004
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I Absolutely Disagree
In my opinion, this thread defines several different Heroes Community members. The posts available in this thread are very telling and honest. Let me give you a very clear example of a thread that bashes Kittenangel. Look here:
 http://heroescommunity.com/viewthread.php3?FID=2&TID=11094
The thread I linked is absolutely distasteful. It's the only thread in all of ToH that I still have posts left in. I was denied access from deleting my posts during my past tirade of protesting because this thread is locked down. Now compare the thread I linked to this one.
The thread I post in, right here and now, is much much more constructive in manner and tone. People are being honest, open, and truly heartfelt. Some are openly disagreeing with another member that's all, nothing more, nothing less. Deleting this thread would be moderator abuse because I see no rule violations here.
Also, there seems to be a hasty leap to deletion. Isn't it true that most threads get sent to the Wastelands first for deletion? Why is there no talk of that? It's unequal and partial treatment of a subject some happen to become inflamed by. This is why I decided to not become a moderator. I decided that I had too much of an opinion and now we have a mod saying, in his opinion, that this thread should be deleted without a seperate thread for voting on it or anything of the sort. All we see is a jump to conclusions by an opinionated mod that should be, according to the CoC's, objective. I think RedSoxFan3 is entitled to voice his protest but having the moderator fly in and declare thread deletion qualification seems to me to be overly opinionated. If this thread is deleted then there will have been a serious loss of truth, openness, and willingness to discuss personal feelings. Deleting will only cause members to feel afraid to be honest in the future.
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rychenroller
Promising
Supreme Hero
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posted October 17, 2004 01:25 AM |
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I remember that Consis, I also remember that you had been a member of HC for a couple of weeks and had absolutely no clue to the history of this situation and it goes back a fair way. The time for "constructive" with regards to kitten was over a long time ago, yet it still goes on.
Dont you wonder why?
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