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Elvin
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posted November 30, 2008 12:04 PM |
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Depends if you sense your significant other is looking for a fight 
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Mytical
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posted November 30, 2008 12:10 PM |
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Lol maybe that is why I am always in trouble. Blunt honesty. I always tell people. Never ask me a question you don't want an honest response to. 
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pandora
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posted November 30, 2008 12:14 PM |
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"I take no Umbarge."
Not making fun here, but I really can't figure this one out - what's umbarge?
My point really is that nobody wants to feel like they're 'just' anything, they want to feel like they are individuals with value - especially with the person you want to have a romantic relationship with.
If you start out with the attitude that they're all the same, or follow along a simple rule set, you're starting out on the wrong foot.
I don't mean that just for women, it goes for men too - I could say that MightyMage is just another white dude who thinks he's a delicious black dude - but what about that he's smart, funny, creative talented...that doesn't matter anymore because I've already categorized him? - Anti, do you just want to be seen as some rather chauvinistic at times gigolo type, or do you want people to see you as someone who is loyal to their friends, tries to help when someone is in trouble , very sensitive (sometimes  ) etc?.
I personally just think that if you're starting out thinking you know what someone is like, you're setting yourself up just to notice those things that you expect are coming - and you close your eyes to the things that make a person special.
You're better off trying to figure yourself out, because once you've got that settled you'll be able to find the right person for yourself.
So there. 
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Elvin
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posted November 30, 2008 12:15 PM |
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Normally so am I but the bottomline is that if you find a way to crack a joke with it or answer in a way he/she will find satisfactory you save yourself from retorts and complaints  For the record I'm not sure what is considered satisfactory, never had to answer that.
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pandora
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posted November 30, 2008 12:18 PM |
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Lol maybe that is why I am always in trouble. Blunt honesty. I always tell people. Never ask me a question you don't want an honest response to.
Me too, I really hate when people tiptoe around me when I'm being an idiot (or look like one) too. I'd sooner get a little red in the face when it's called to my attention than have an evening of people giving me funny looks while I'm completely oblivious to the fact that my skirt is tucked into my g-string.
(not that it's ever happened to me or anything )
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Elvin
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posted November 30, 2008 12:21 PM |
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Remember when?
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Aculias
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posted November 30, 2008 12:23 PM |
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Embarrassing moments.
Take notes class
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antipaladin
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posted November 30, 2008 01:23 PM |
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well it could be worse,you could wear a pear of pants with a small hole in the middle and not noticing to work,and when one of the girls ask about she says its alright and i should stress as much,she also said she already knew what lias inside but thats besides the point..
for te point i will qoute something someone wrote (disclaimer im the 'protege').
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Nicole
MQ, I have two of those already.
My life…is very complicated.
My second husband and I are still a couple in many ways, just not sexual because he came to that point in his life where what he needs is what he needs, and well…I couldn’t continue along that way because I developed a mild allergy to certain kinds of wool, and became more fit.
I also have needs that well, let’s just say that my level of intensity was physically injurious, and did not help him to get over his fetish and enjoy intercourse. When he met me I was still recovering from some health problems. The healthier and more fit I get, the more difficult it is to find partners at a certain minimum of fitness and strength. So part of my problem is physical incompatibility with most available males.
So…then began the search for a consort: a guy who doesn’t need paperwork to consider himself in a stable, serious relationship, who is physically very strong, and who is not xenophobic. I need a Greek ideal kind of guy who has both brains and brawn.
Israel is a small country, and this has been very difficult, but thank goodness for a massive influx of Russians.
So now I have a protege who is physically strong and not xenophobic. The problem with him is only age. He is almost exactly 20 years younger than me, and needs to have his independence before he can decide to give it up. So I don’t require monogamy from him, but for similar reasons to my own, he finds it difficult to find partners he wishes to do more with than a one time hit a or a two.
It may well be that I’m doomed to break stallions until I’m too old to enjoy sex.
Poor me.
…but I already have someone to grow old with.
Now..despite our realtinship being 'broken up' we still canot be in the same room for more then 2 hours and its not ending up in her bad.
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DagothGares
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posted November 30, 2008 03:53 PM |
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concerning this subject to read Ovids - Ars amatoria
Damn right. Ovid was pretty right about a lot of stuff and quite modern. he reminds me of grand corps malade, but let's not stray.
one of his letters to a friend:
"You, yes you, Graecinus,
you kept denying,
that one can be in love with two girls at one and the same moment
because of you I am being cheated on
because of you I'm disarmed and beaten
You see, what a disgrace, I am in love with two at the same time
they're both pretty and now know how to dress
is one more skillful than the other? I don't know...
One IS more beautiful than the other,
but the other is more beautiful than the one.
I like one more, but the other too!
I'm drifting around, like a boat pushed by two rivalling winds
the love for the one and the love for the other tear me in two pieces."
Anyway, that was culture.
Women ARE complex! Boy, pushing them in certain categories will not help in the long run, methinks. Because I don't think you can fall in love with someone you think: "Ow, yeah, she's THAT type. Better do X, Y and Z and w00t." I suppose it can be fun having a good time and that is of course the purpose you have in mind, so I better shut up about this and hope you all have a good time
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RedSoxFan3
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posted November 30, 2008 07:01 PM |
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You guys are still making it too complicated.
Rule #1: Be yourself
Rule #2: Don't date a snow
Rule #3: Be confident
There ya go. The rest is people skills.
This goes for women too.
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Asheera
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posted November 30, 2008 07:17 PM |
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I didn't read the whole thread, only the first post which is already a little big () - I don't have much time now, with the PC problems and all...
You can't generalize like that and there's nothing really that 'special'. There's no general pattern, just that different women have different personalities and (dis)likes, like all people actually.
My suggestion is to be yourself, listen to what the woman says and not just think about where you'd like to go with her next (to a movie, etc)
Well that's all my advice I can give - the rest depends on the circumstances and some other factors (probably some skills or luck too)
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mvassilev
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posted November 30, 2008 07:31 PM |
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Asheera gave some reasonable advice. That means she's not a woman. No woman would ever give reasonable advice.
No wonder Asheera doesn't want to post a pic of herself. No one wants to find out that she's a middle-aged fat white guy living in his mom's basement.
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Asheera
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posted November 30, 2008 07:38 PM |
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Hey mvass, are you spying me or something? How did you figure my secret out 
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mvassilev
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posted November 30, 2008 07:49 PM |
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Of course. I'm actually the US government. I've been tapping your phone lines.
Why else would I defend capitalism so ardently?
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TheDeath
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posted November 30, 2008 07:59 PM |
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You mean CIA agent?
what would the US government otherwise do in Romania? 
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mvassilev
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posted November 30, 2008 08:21 PM |
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No, I am the US Government. All of it.
That's why I'm so bloated.
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antipaladin
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posted November 30, 2008 10:32 PM |
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she already said she was an alien,and not a woman,besides,women can't spam tat much..
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Elvin
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posted November 30, 2008 10:35 PM |
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Sure they can, it's like telling me they cannot talk on the phone for hours
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antipaladin
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posted November 30, 2008 10:59 PM |
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now that my frinde,is all telephoen compony propagenda!
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winterfate
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posted November 30, 2008 11:13 PM |
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The thread is moving without me! 
*takes more notes*
So, MM, you're basically saying I should ignore her part of the time and make her call me? That's not going to happen... 
I'm still trying it though, just in case you're right.
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