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DarkCrystal
Promising
Supreme Hero
Staright out of line
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posted May 12, 2009 04:06 PM |
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Today I lost my GF
She took my face and said that it's over. She said that I don't suit her and she loves him (I won't tell names) more. I was silent and both sad and angry at the moment. She asked me: "Well, say something?" I said: "Fine! Go to him and leave me. I wish you to have a good time. But if he would disappoint you, don't even try to return!"
She looked pitiful, perhaps she didn't expect me to react so tough. Perhaps she wanted me to try to speak with her and try to blandish her. Maybe she not-knowing that herself wanted me to continue our relations this way. She said: "Maybe we could still be friends?.." It seemed that she didn't want to leave me completely, perhaps she knew that I was better than him and she wanted to make a 'key' if one day she would want to continue our relations.
But I am not a person who can forgive. And I couldn’t take that easily. If she decided to leave me, than better for her! I took her shoulder and said tough: "Go away. I don't want to know you anymore. If you want to be with him, then why do you need me?" She looked very pitifully, it seemed to me that I have seen a tears in her eyes. "Why this way?.." – she asked and her voice was faltered. I said: "It's me who should ask this question."
She wanted to say something but turned out and went away. I was still standing on this place. It started to rain and lightnings were striking over the sky. I didn't care about this. The fury was overfilling me and this whether excellently suited my feelings. I was still standing on that place and was thinking.
Then suddenly I felt a cold and woke up. It was raining mercilessly and I was completely wet. I went to home. When I came inside, mom screamed: "What is that? You are so wet and you look so angry! What happened?" "Nothing" – I said and went ahead. I didn't tell anything to my parents, they shouldn't know everything about my personal life. I told it only to my sister. She one of those who can understand.
You may think that it is not a huge tragedy, that I am still young and I can find another girlfriend. But she really was deary for me. We met for about 1,5 year and then suddenly she left me. I don’t even know what to say.
What should I do? Maybe there are some experienced people here, who can help me with some advices?
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Sometimes I'm about to yell: "It is flat you idiots!" But I don't wanna die in fire. 
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Warmonger
Promising
Legendary Hero
fallen artist
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posted May 12, 2009 04:13 PM |
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That's all because you were pretending to be a mutant girl.
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kipshasz
Undefeatable Hero
Elvin's Darkside
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posted May 12, 2009 04:16 PM |
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Relax and cheer up. Seriously. You WILL meet someone better.
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"Kip is the Gavin McInnes of HC" - Salamandre
"Ashan to the Trashcan", "I got PTSD from H7. " - LizardWarrior
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DarkCrystal
Promising
Supreme Hero
Staright out of line
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posted May 12, 2009 04:17 PM |
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@Warmonger: Can't you guys just not joking?  I understand that it is HC with all it's stupid jokes, but I really need help and support right now. It is not appropriate situation to laugh for me.
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Sometimes I'm about to yell: "It is flat you idiots!" But I don't wanna die in fire.
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william
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
LummoxLewis
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posted May 12, 2009 04:17 PM |
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I don't think you should have told her that you didn't want to know her anymore. She still wanted to be friends for god sake, why did you need to tell her that?
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DarkCrystal
Promising
Supreme Hero
Staright out of line
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posted May 12, 2009 04:19 PM |
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I don't think you should have told her that you didn't want to know her anymore. She still wanted to be friends for god sake, why did you need to tell her that?
Why? We were both happy with each other and then she suddenly come up with that? She knew that I wouldn't forgive her. If she now is crying about that, it's her fault. For me there is no way back.
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Sometimes I'm about to yell: "It is flat you idiots!" But I don't wanna die in fire.
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william
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
LummoxLewis
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posted May 12, 2009 04:21 PM |
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Because you could have still been friends???? I mean, sure, it sucks that she left you, but she still wanted to be friends because she still cares about you and everything (if she didn't care about you then she would have left you and not wanted to see you anymore).
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kesnar
Famous Hero
from Kesnaria
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posted May 12, 2009 04:21 PM |
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Well while I was waiting for a train I wrote a poem...it suits I think...
(I wrote it in Greek and I will try to translate it...)
Be happy
Be a lot of happy
Even if you are sad be happy about it
Only by that way will you survive
But even if sometime
you go high(really high)
don't jump
Total serene can't be paid
with the tears of someone else
(because surely someone will cry about you)
But even if no one cries
don't worry someone will any time soon
Be happy
just that
Well it's not something good but whatever...
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DarkCrystal
Promising
Supreme Hero
Staright out of line
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posted May 12, 2009 04:29 PM |
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@William: She should have knew that with that she would insult me very much. I don't know why did she expected us to be friends after that. She has now new boyfriend, let she go to him and be his friend. I am not a person who can forgive bloody insults like that. And she knew it. But perhaps I would give her another chance if she would try to revive our relations. If no, than bad for her.
@Kesnar: I'm not crying. I am a person who can't cry at all.
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Sometimes I'm about to yell: "It is flat you idiots!" But I don't wanna die in fire.
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Shares
Supreme Hero
I am. Thusly I am.
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posted May 12, 2009 04:30 PM |
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Edited by Shares at 16:32, 12 May 2009.
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I'm sorry for you DC, I hope you get over it soon. And you will. Yes, it hurts, it really does and it will hurt the next time to. But was it worth it? Well, you said you were happy with her, so I guess that's a yes. Sorry.
@William: I gotta agree with DC on this one, and of course it should be DC's choice. She broke the bond.
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Totoro
Famous Hero
in User
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posted May 12, 2009 04:32 PM |
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Dude, you must understand that it was very hard for her as well.
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kesnar
Famous Hero
from Kesnaria
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posted May 12, 2009 04:32 PM |
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No you haven't understand someone else cries for you...
But whatever it's not a good poem anyway I just though it might suit...(I think it's better in greek )
Anyway I hope you get over it and haven't done a mistake by saying what you said...
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DarkCrystal
Promising
Supreme Hero
Staright out of line
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posted May 12, 2009 04:35 PM |
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Dude, you must understand that it was very hard for her as well.
Perhapas. But look, it was she who decided to leave me. Hope she did a better choice. If not, than bad for her.
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Sometimes I'm about to yell: "It is flat you idiots!" But I don't wanna die in fire.
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Totoro
Famous Hero
in User
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posted May 12, 2009 04:48 PM |
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But don't create yourself an attitude that you're the saint and she's the devil. Had you been better companion, it likely could've been avoided.
Though, might be as well that she found the man of her dreams, in which case you would be a victim of bad luck.
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Arcax
Promising
Famous Hero
Its quite hot inside...
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posted May 12, 2009 04:49 PM |
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Because you could have still been friends???? I mean, sure, it sucks that she left you, but she still wanted to be friends because she still cares about you and everything (if she didn't care about you then she would have left you and not wanted to see you anymore).
Sorry but have you ever loved somebody ? Im sure that if a person who you admire and love stab a knife straight into your heart by saying that she want other guy you wouldn't want to see her again. Its the worst feeling, kicked out and submitted by another man. Its damn painful.
@Darkcrystal Did you love her ? But if you did I totally understand your decision about not making any friendship with her, because its not even posssible after such incident. And Im impressed that you endured it in such way.
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william
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
LummoxLewis
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posted May 12, 2009 04:53 PM |
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Sorry but have you ever loved somebody ? Im sure that if a person who you admire and love stab a knife straight into your heart by saying that she want other guy you wouldn't want to see her again. Its the worst feeling, kicked out and submitted by another man. Its damn painful.
She obviously still wanted to be friends mate, what can't you understand? Yeah sure it's painful and snow, but you've gotta be mature about things at times, you know? Saying that you don't want to see them ever again even though they still want to remain friends (with a chance that you may even get together again in the future) and you saying you don't want to see them again is just stupid in my opinion because then you've lost nearly all chances of getting them back. Maybe it was just a dumb decision on her part and she may get back to her senses and go back with you (DC), who knows?
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~Ticking away the moments that
make up a dull day, Fritter and
waste the hours in an off-hand
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Aculias
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
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posted May 12, 2009 05:03 PM |
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I know that feeling.
WOmen always wants to be friends too. That is why we can never figure women out.
You will get over it in time.
It helps to hang out with friends or do things you like to do.
It also helps when you find someone special as well.
Time heals wounds.
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Dreaming of a Better World
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Shares
Supreme Hero
I am. Thusly I am.
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posted May 12, 2009 05:14 PM |
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Sorry but have you ever loved somebody ? Im sure that if a person who you admire and love stab a knife straight into your heart by saying that she want other guy you wouldn't want to see her again. Its the worst feeling, kicked out and submitted by another man. Its damn painful.
She obviously still wanted to be friends mate, what can't you understand? Yeah sure it's painful and snow, but you've gotta be mature about things at times, you know? Saying that you don't want to see them ever again even though they still want to remain friends (with a chance that you may even get together again in the future) and you saying you don't want to see them again is just stupid in my opinion because then you've lost nearly all chances of getting them back. Maybe it was just a dumb decision on her part and she may get back to her senses and go back with you (DC), who knows?
I think it just made it easier for her. She prolly thought it'd make it easier for both of them. "I want to brake this bond, but not completly." It doesn't seem as bad if you don't destroy something completly.
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DarkCrystal
Promising
Supreme Hero
Staright out of line
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posted May 12, 2009 05:15 PM |
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But don't create yourself an attitude that you're the saint and she's the devil.
I don't. She decided to do it herself. Perhaps it was a better decision. But I don't wanna take this pain easily.
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Did you love her?
Honestly, yes, I did. And to be completely honest, in the depths of my dark soul I still love her.
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She obviously still wanted to be friends mate, what can't you understand?
Well, you just haven't feel that. Imagine that your brother for instance, with whom you were living happily for a long time, one day came up to you and said: "Sorry Will, you suck. I got tired of you, I will go to the streets, make new friends and will lead lickerish lifestyle. Be happy sucker! Oh, and btw, can we be friends?" What? Wouldn't you want to punch him in the face? I think you would. It's same. I cannot end it another when she 'spited' on my face.
I already decided everything. If she really loves me, then she would try to revive our relations and I would give her another chance. If not, she will be happy with him and I will erase my memory about her from my mind.
And I can surely say, that if that would end with a broken heart, this heart wouldn't belong to me.
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Sometimes I'm about to yell: "It is flat you idiots!" But I don't wanna die in fire.
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william
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
LummoxLewis
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posted May 12, 2009 05:18 PM |
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No I wouldn't punch him in the face because he's my brother, he is family. I care a lot about my family if you must know.
And good to see that you'll at least give her another chance if she is willing to revive the relations between you and her. 
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~Ticking away the moments that
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