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Doomforge
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posted January 31, 2009 06:04 PM
Edited by Doomforge at 18:18, 31 Jan 2009.

can't really help what I'm attracted to, and I guess you know something about it, Father. I bet there were people in your life who tried to get you on the "proper" tracks of heterosexuality.

If I recall correctly, "average" 15yo isn't all about hormones, most of them don't really care for sex yet.
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TheDeath
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posted January 31, 2009 06:12 PM

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But again, and to be quite honest with you, she is 15. She has no idea what love is or how it truly applies to a relationship. There are different kinds of love you know. She is familiar with love for family and friends and pets maybe. But love for a partner? No I can't see that, IMO. I guess there could be rare exceptions but they would be truly rare indeed. Just think how much you will both come to understand what love is later in life.  

I myself learn something new about love all the time. Want to fast track that? Have a woman fall in love with you and not the 15yo young lady. I mean, she isn't even out of puberty. Her hormones are going nuts. That effects everything in a young person's life Doom. I'm sure you can recall yourself, though I feel the consequences of puberty are much more difficult for females to endure than males.
Hmm I thought you would know that over-generalizing about this stuff is bad, since you're gay yourself (and know all too well that this characteristic is different even between same genders -- i.e gay man has different hormones and/or puberty than a straight man, or asexual man, etc...)
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Doomforge
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posted January 31, 2009 06:17 PM

Of course it's over generalizing. For instance, it's rather uncommon for a 15yo girl to have such a strongly developed sexual part. Yet it happened, so why can't earlier maturity happen as well?
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posted January 31, 2009 06:54 PM

Ok, I'm sorry to interrupt your never ending debate of what the word love actually means but I'm going to add an update since that's what this was originally meant for.

So yesterday was for the most part unplanned.  Work has been slow lately so I pretty much expected not working a whole day.  However, I figured I'd probably just go out or hang with some of my friends.  Hmmmm, maybe I'll just do both.  I made plans with some of my friends to meet me up at the bowling ally at 10:00 that night.  We'd bowl a few games, get some drinks and have some fun.
With that I headed out to get Jasmine because lately things have been great between us and I always have a good time when I'm with her.  I figure if we're going to be together she should meet some of my friends so after I picked her up and got something to eat, we shared some wine then headed over to the bowling ally.

We played a few games, had some drinks, shared some laughs and good times then before I knew it, it was midnight and the place was getting ready to close.  Me and Jasmine had quite a few drinks and since she lives about 45 min. away I figured it would be wise to get some food on my stomach so I would be able to safely drive her back home.

We headed to a local restaurant and it was great.  I couldn't stop smiling.  We sat next to each other and she rested her head on my shoulder.  She whispered in my ear that she loved me and I told her that I loved her too.  We ate and headed back to her place.  Her family was out of town so she asked me to stay with her.  I just couldn't say no to that face so of course I said yes.  We made a makeshift bed in the living room and cuddled up next to each other (I'll spare some of the other details).

Suddenly my phone rings.  I open my eyes and look to see it's my mom calling.  It's 2:30 in the morning.  I answer.  
"GET YOUR @$$ HOME NOW AND SHUT YOUR DOG UP.  SHE'S WHINING AND KEEPING US ALL AWAKE"

Yeah, so I need to get my own place.  You have no idea how embarrassing that was.

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Doomforge
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posted January 31, 2009 06:56 PM

lol, I like your stories, MM

yeah, an own place is a blessing
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posted January 31, 2009 11:42 PM

Anyway, I'll post what I said in DF's thread, here, since Dove visited town for the last time today and I feel a bit nostalgic.

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There's this girl... Let's call her Bonnie! Radiant name... Just dazzling

Anyway, I met Bonnie at a party of one of my best friends (not that I have many). Anyway, let's call my friend... Dove! Yes, also a very radiant name! Anyway, I met Bonnie at that party and I only exchanged two sentences with her or something. I socialised more with her loud friend who needed a translator to talk to a friend of Dove. He came from the french-speaking part of Belgium, you see and this guy knew Dove, because he was part Russian (it sounded logical when I heard that explanation, like all Russians are just a big community ).
Anyway, I have spent a month or two in the Walloons myself , so I knew how to speak a little french and so I became the designated translator of that evening. In the meantime, I also talked with Bonnie a bit, since she definitely didn't want to be left out. I found out she was part of a theater troupe and I myself loved the theater and even take monologue classes (strange and equally difficult story).

So I was invited to watch a play, played by her sister and such. Now, Bonnie stuck pretty close to me after that night, every time I saw her. I went to see that play and with Dove and Bonnie's loud friend we went to visit the coast. This is also a good opportunity to tell you that this was my first time I closey interacted with a girl and I coincidentally had my internet connection up after all these years (mild w00t) (I joined HC three days after that or so...). She got hold of my e-mail and so we chatted and she wanted to meet me once more (something like an unofficial third date).

I was totally in love with the Saw-series at that time, so she agreed on watching the first one with me (how romantic...) anyway, I turned out to be a bigger sissy than her, but meh

After that...
she was to go off back home...
I helped her out with her bike and then she held on to me.
I held on quite uncomfortably...
I kissed her cheek and told her that perhaps it was time to go...
Then, she kissed me...

First kiss, how clumsy it may sound

Now, my heart was beating like a jackhammer... Great... I'm not kidding, she could practically count my heartbeat...

Now, anyway...
Then was a hazy period. I went to England, she then went to Peru, so there was something like a three week break.

Anyway, I then saw her some more (one can't refuse a lady). You know, huggles and kisses.

And now, I've been together with her for about five months or so... And I'm not even sure whether I love her.

Now, let me back up. The person in my life I connected to most would be the aforementioned Dove. Anyway, she was to leave town shortly afterwards town and she always cried out that love destroyed friendship, so that ship never sailed. All in all, I guess I settled with number two.

Don't get me wrong, Bonnie is cute, kind, sweet and a very warm person.
Like Virgil said:
"The love for both is tearing me apart."

Boy, this just sounded like some stupid high school drama...


Bah...

No update whatsoever, if you suddenly thought I was capable of making up my own mind or taking initiative
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posted February 01, 2009 12:37 AM

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Death, you completely lost me and I have no idea what your talking about. Clarify so I can respond?
Well you were generalizing about how girls usually have a different way of going into puberty and effects of it, etc... stuff like that, which would be like saying, that all men prefer women equally (some prefer both, as in bisexuals, some prefer none, as in asexuals, and some prefer other men, like gays ).
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posted February 01, 2009 12:42 AM

Lol sorry to hear about that MM but it certainly made me smile That's why it's not a good idea to pick up the phone at this hour, you're simply not there!

Otherwise you are doing great
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posted February 01, 2009 01:23 AM

Of course I got the point of the post -- I didn't reply to your whole post. That's why I quoted only that part. I didn't reply to the main point of your post
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posted February 01, 2009 01:37 AM

If you are out and your parents call you at 2-3am it will either be bad or annoying, take your pick and weigh the odds
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phoenixreborn
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posted February 01, 2009 03:28 AM

Just one more situation where a cat wouldn't cause problems that a dog does.  Cats! helping you with women since Ancient Egyptian times.

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posted February 01, 2009 08:21 AM
Edited by william at 08:24, 01 Feb 2009.

That's why I don't usually use Mobile Phones, saves some of the embarrassment that I might get if that situation ever would happen.

Oh yeah, and good story MM.
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posted February 01, 2009 09:50 AM

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Just one more situation where a cat wouldn't cause problems that a dog does.

You have no idea have you
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posted February 01, 2009 01:35 PM

NO MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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posted February 01, 2009 09:08 PM

You really butchered this thread you know?

MURDER!
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posted February 04, 2009 10:18 PM

Just wanted to say: Everything is good. We just don't have much time for each which in some way is alright, makes everytime more speciel
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Doomforge
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posted February 04, 2009 10:21 PM

well lucky you, my date this week won't happen cuz of random event, and I must say I'm pissed and don't feel anything special about it ~~
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posted February 04, 2009 10:35 PM

Seriously, sometimes when I read the stories here it makes me feel like having a gf is worth the trouble but then I start up Minesweeper and it all fades away. How do you call that?
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Doomforge
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posted February 04, 2009 10:39 PM

because minesweeper owns any girlfriend.
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posted February 04, 2009 11:15 PM

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Seriously, sometimes when I read the stories here it makes me feel like having a gf is worth the trouble but then I start up Minesweeper and it all fades away. How do you call that?
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