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winterfate
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posted May 07, 2009 03:59 AM |
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@Mvass: Lol yeah, C is a weirdo.
Although I've seen that happen all too often.
Actually, been there, done that, but it doesn't really matter, because if you act all obsessive too long, one of your friends is bound to set you straight eventually.
Anyways, gotta go back to studying. Later guys.
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mvassilev
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posted May 07, 2009 04:17 AM |
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C's always been an idiot. Four years ago, he got mad at me and broke a TV antenna over my head. The only person that's capable of setting him straight is A - C'd be to hostile to anybody else. But A is too mild.
I guess the army will fix him, if nothing else.
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Doomforge
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posted May 07, 2009 09:14 AM |
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Relationships before college? nah. They are just teen stuff. Nothing important. I mean, they ARE important - to make you feel good. Without them, you get depressed at that age. Tested -_-
But, looking at the big picture, they aren't very important. Most people find partners around the time of college and following years; If the marriage isn't too fast (which happens too often - people get married and then discover they get bored to death together or are too different to agree and keep arguing constantly), it has a decent chance of being ok.
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TheDeath
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posted May 07, 2009 11:00 PM |
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Quote: C's always been an idiot. Four years ago, he got mad at me and broke a TV antenna over my head.
What do you mean he broke a TV antenna on you? Was it yours? And you didn't react in any way? (I don't necessarily mean beat him back, but at least 'break up' with him, as friends obviously).
I don't know if the army will fix him. He might return with a greater obsession, or he might forget about it totally. It depends.
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DagothGares
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posted May 07, 2009 11:20 PM |
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Quote: Only thing I can advice is stay the heck away from people who exude negativity. Friends or not they will sooner or later start transferring this negativity and other insecurities to you. Or annoyance at the very least.
So I'm not allowed to have friends.
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posted May 07, 2009 11:42 PM |
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Quote: What do you mean he broke a TV antenna on you? Was it yours? And you didn't react in any way? (I don't necessarily mean beat him back, but at least 'break up' with him, as friends obviously).
No, it was the school's. He was mad at me for some reason, so he took a TV antenna and hit me with it. It broke.
I never really wanted to be around him. We're both friends with A, though, so we ended up being around each other, which more often than not lead to conflict.
Today, we were talking about C, and one of my friends (incidentally, the same guy who wrote the "spoon" analogy in my Education thread) said this, "Back in 8th grade, I didn't know [C] that well. We were both in band and athletics, but I still didn't really know him. So for some reason I was in the band room with him, and we started talking about some stuff we had in common. I thought, 'Hey, this guy's all right.' So we were talking on the bus on the way to a basketball game, and then I thought, 'What is this? This guy is an idiot.'"
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Doomforge
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posted May 09, 2009 09:39 PM |
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Oh boy.
I have a friend who has been searching with me for a girl.. a long time.
And guess what.
He just found a girl. Very smart, very funny, good looking and with a great butt. And she is definitely interested in him. They kissed already.
Idk, I feel like crap. It's not even envy, I just feel so totally empty, listening to him. We went through the hunt together for years, and had occasional romances (like me with that 15yo girl last time), but never anything serious... and now...
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winterfate
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posted May 09, 2009 09:47 PM |
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@Doom: I know the feeling, very well...
But, just be happy for him. It's what friends do.
Someday you'll find your soulmate as well.
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Anakrom
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posted May 09, 2009 09:49 PM |
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Cheer up Doomforge. In Czech we have proverb "Patience brings roses" ("Patience is the best remedy" in English afaik). He was lucky, you will be too, sooner or later. Just donīt give up.
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Doomforge
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posted May 09, 2009 09:55 PM |
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I thought we would search together for a long time... or find our girls simultaneously... I knew it was impossible but I hoped
Not only it failed, but also, I'm the one left behind (sweet egoism: why me?) and it's summer... lonely summer
Damn, I really feel damn empty. If I weren't an abstainer, I'd go drink till I dropped.
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posted May 09, 2009 09:57 PM |
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I hung out with A, B, and another friend yesterday. It was a lot of fun.
In contrast, C said that D was scared to come to school because of him. (In reality, that's not why she didn't come, but it just shows what he's thinking about.)
Doomforge:
Again, I recommend the advice I gave to you earlier. It worked for A.
And maybe you should take your relationships more seriously.
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Doomforge
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posted May 09, 2009 10:01 PM |
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It's not fair......
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posted May 09, 2009 10:08 PM |
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Quote: Not only it failed, but also, I'm the one left behind (sweet egoism: why me?) and it's summer... lonely summer
Well, I will lead summer camp full of 15yos in northernmost part of Czech this summer, so if you will come by, we can pick you some GF.
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posted May 09, 2009 10:17 PM |
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Hey, doomforge, cheers to misery, because of women or the absence thereof!
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posted May 10, 2009 04:07 AM |
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I really am starting to think, for someone as desperate as you for a gf, you should REALLY lower your standards.
I mean it's ok to have high standards IF you are patient and not desperate or anything like that. If you truly want that "perfect" one (to meet your high standards) you NEED patience. If you don't, and from your posts it seems you're pretty much desperate rather than patient, you should either lower your standards or be patient and ignore this 'problem'. It will go away after a while.
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mvassilev
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posted May 10, 2009 08:24 AM |
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No, you shouldn't lower your standards - you should shift them. Place a higher value on maturity and less on age, maybe?
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posted May 10, 2009 10:51 AM |
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Do you mind if I talk about sex?
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posted May 10, 2009 11:01 AM |
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WHy not, everyone else does.
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winterfate
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posted May 10, 2009 11:17 AM |
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@emilsn: Your call dude.
@Aculias: Lol, that is true.
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Doomforge
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posted May 10, 2009 11:20 AM |
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I gave up on 15yo girls some time ago :E
they are cute but usually lack brains.
And good riddance, I'd say.
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