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PyroManiaC
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posted June 21, 2002 04:52 PM |
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hmmmm
Thats a sad and sensitive story, yes....
I liked the part with the plastic duck best!
life goes on!
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MightyMage
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posted June 21, 2002 11:23 PM |
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Nice story really. It brought a tear to my eye. My heart has been broken a few times before. Well I must say, I agree on the duck theroie (hmmm, duck theroie!) although I'd like to add to it, instead of just downright bad luck maybe it has somthing to do with the fact that only one of the yellow duckies can hold liquid soap. Maybe the other duckie got jealous that it couldn't hold liquid soap. Maybe they sit up some nights and discuss the liquid soap problem...with their pink fuzzy leader. They've cursed your love life. I also have a pink fuzzie pig. My pink fuzzie pig on the other hand isn't disgruntled. It has lavender beads inside it which makes my pig smell good. I have a happy pig, and no duckies.
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OrgyOf_Sins
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Sinner
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posted June 22, 2002 03:04 AM |
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Does it really matter? In the end you are merely another pawn in the orgy of sins...
Oh and.. dump the pig and duck bro!
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Oldtimer
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posted June 23, 2002 09:38 PM |
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We lived together for a 9 months, and then she got sick and almost died. She was very pale and weak for a while, and I cried and cried. And things never became the same. 3 months later she met someone else and a few months later we broke up. And although I try not to think about her, I still wake up crying sometimes.
I know your a sensitive guy and all but, give the girl a break. She needed someone to protect her and make her feel safe, but she got a nurse instead. You became too vulnerable and not enough man so when she was better she met a guy that gave her that MAN vibe and she saw you as something less than a man.
It is fine to have these feelings, but you must bury them deep into yourself. They are not attractive to women. You broke down and let too many feelings out and they diminished you in the girl's sight. Too much crying.
Now that you know you are introverted intuative feeling planning, you have to act differently or you will become a pathetic loser. The introverted part will keep to itself, the intuative part will assume that no girl will like you, the feeling part will keep getting hurt, real or imagined, and ball itself up, and the planning part will turn into elaborate fantasies that have no connection to reality unless you become a stalker.
You need to let your inner A-Hole out and become outgoing and decisive. Even if is just a role you are playing, you have to give the girls what they want. Or you will end up filling that duck up with hand lotion and logging on to Melissa's homepage.
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bjorn190
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Jebus maker
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posted June 23, 2002 10:19 PM |
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Thanks for the advice 
But the thing is, Im not that bad off. If you extract the information from my post, and donīt focus of my description of love and losing it, you will find this info:
Im 22, half way through med school, also on my way to an echonomics degree.
I have a cool place in a nice neighbourhood.
I am dating twins.
Thatīs actually a pretty good setup 
Youīre right about the man thing, and I have to work on that.. youīre quite a good judge of character.
You see, us INFPs like to linger in emotion. Be it tragic or majestic and wondrous, weīre there, seemingly exaggerating, but at the same time experiencing feelings of the magnitude only we can describe with words..
Itīs like softly drifting away on a cloud of wonder, looking beyond what is there, to something more beautiful. And that beauty actually exists, within our minds, making us amazingly attractive to people who can gaze into the soul.
On the other hand, I have my buisness suit that I put on to achieve the goals I need to achieve IRL. Itīs only IRL tho. Things would be different if you lived forever, but you donīt. That wich is worth attaining in life isnīt material. The world is just a tool to find what is really worth looking for.
To steal from a good movie:
There are only four questions in life worth answering:
"What is sacred?"
"What is the soul made of?"
"What is worth living for,
and what is worth dying for?"
There is only one answer to these questions, and it is love.
But there are distractions on the way, and they can sometimes be very pleasurable
Lately I have started to wonder if I should try to make more money.. it seems like a good thing. Makes me happy to buy stuff. Yeah I think I need to get more moneys =D
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arachnid
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posted June 24, 2002 12:38 AM |
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""What is sacred?"
"What is the soul made of?"
"What is worth living for,
and what is worth dying for?"
There is only one answer to these questions, and it is love.
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id say theres a lot more answers to the questions:
"What is sacred?" well life, freedom,peace, the earth and love
"What is the soul made of?" probably if there is such a thing lots of different feelings, the way i see it if the soul was just made of love we would be perfect. If it was just love it would not contain everything that is "us"
"What is worth living for, " here i think i think the one answer is enough
"what is worth dying for?"
i would also say dying for what you believe is right and freedom as well as love.
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Kynes
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posted June 24, 2002 01:14 AM |
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It is fine to have these feelings, but you must bury them deep into yourself. They are not attractive to women. You broke down and let too many feelings out and they diminished you in the girl's sight. Too much crying.
No way, bjorn, don't ever try to change your insides, don't try to be rough just because girls like it, 'cause you're a great guy... Now Oldtimer, did you ever come think that maybe there's girls out there who are INFPs themselves? Maybe not all girls like strong, rough guys, but rather emotional thinkers. Of course all people like people like themselves, not?
Ok, we INFPs may get easily hurt, but we have something that makes it all worthwhile...
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Oldtimer
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posted June 24, 2002 03:26 AM |
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It's true that there are infp chicks, but they are way too shy to ever make a first move and are also attracted to the strong man. My wife has a few infp type friends and they are still single and waiting for their prince, the fantasy is always prevelant. If two people are looking inward and shy they will have trouble hooking up, someone has to take the initiative.
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Sir_Elric
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Famous Hero
Having a bad hair day.
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posted June 24, 2002 03:41 AM |
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Look, if your dating twin sisters your not getting any sympathy from me lol!
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Kynes
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altruistic egoist
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posted June 24, 2002 01:06 PM |
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Ok, you've got a point there, Oldtimer, but still I'd always rather be single than pretend to be something I'm not. Also those who very easily make the initiative and get together may not stay together as well as the shy one's, who tend to be more committed once they've got 'hooked up'... Well it depends on many things of course.
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wizardboy
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Look ma!..a glowing ball...
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posted June 24, 2002 02:15 PM |
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pretending to be someone is a very dangerous road to take...u might stuff it up by trying to act like someone u are not...and besides even if u do get the girl u want thru acting and pretending someone u are not...is your GF spending the rest of her life YOU or the person u are trying to pretend to be?
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MightyMage
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posted June 24, 2002 10:44 PM |
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Where exactly is all this going? Just wondering out of curiosity because first everyone is comforting Bjorn and now everyone is condemning him or trying to change him.
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Shadow_Phoenix
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Shadow Ruler
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posted June 25, 2002 11:59 AM |
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Hmmmm. I don't think that anyone is condemning bjorn, they are just giving and advice. I do agree that we shouldn't change just to get a girl unless all you want is someone for the night. If you want someone that loves you you shouldn't change. Those who love you we like you just has you are does who don't, who cares?
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posted June 25, 2002 02:10 PM |
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Careful not to confuse Love with Lust!
Well Bjorn I think that you may have ruined my assumption that "All men are bastrads!" Sorry guys, have had a few men going out of their way to prove that statement lately and thinking about love and lust makes me think of the bastrads involved.
I dont have any pearls of wisdom for you cos at the moment I question the whole existence of romantic love. Any relationship involving physical attraction cant be trusted, love for friends and family is the only love that you can truly trust.
On a lighter note I have a squeaky yellow ducky that is unsinkable and the kids have outgrown it now...maybe your duckies would like some company?....the pink pig sounds cute, but my purple teddy wearing a crown that sits on my puter sounds cuter
BTW I think the twins sound like a pipedream  ! And money cant buy you happiness it just makes the getting there more comfortable! Forget about finding love and enjoy life .
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DonGio
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posted June 25, 2002 03:07 PM |
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I think my best friend at work could be gay and black, just like the free coffee we get.
You think he could be black?
OK...
Anyway, to Oldtimers posts. I think he has a point. And when you guys say "don't ever change who you are", that's a pretty weak argument.
Who exactly are we? When are we our true selves? At night? When we're 20? When we're happy? Sad? When we're totally unaware of ourselves? Or when we are extremely self conscious?
Who's to say that who you are today are not further away from your true self than who you would be if you strove for other ideals?
Is it automatically bad to recognize weaknesses or faults and try to improve or change them?
Humans are not perfect. If I'm an extremely lazy and untidy person by nature (wow! I really know myself! ), should I not try to change out of fear from not remaining true to myself?
Not that I know, but just to examplify things: Is it necessarily a bad thing for Bjorn to become more manly? Not pretending to be while not actually being, but a factual change? Or are you all predeterminists, who believe that we cannot change ourselves or our circumstances of our own will?
Anyway, most of these worries are a result of our much too convenient and safe lives. If we had to struggle to survive, to have our daily bread and roof over our heads, we would not worry such about these "petty" matters. Those are my four cents...
Love well
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mastergenie
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Genie taking the Smeg!!!
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posted June 25, 2002 03:37 PM |
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Bjorn, just be yourself.
If you really believe in the concept of true love, then the only way you will ever find it is by being true to yourself, and not pretending to be somebody else.
You are an INFP? So great. Be that very person.
Oh but, you are dating twins, so like Sir_Elric, it is hard for me to find any sympathy for you at the moment.
Oh and Oldtimer - It is a VERY big stereotype to say that women only like strong men who hide their feelings and never cry. Everyone is different, and many women like a guy who is sensitive and open to his feelings.
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Xarfax111
Bad-mannered
Supreme Hero
The last hero standing
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posted June 30, 2004 04:28 PM |
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... nice post, nice discussion.
BUT..
we want an happy end! (Dont we?)
So the last post is 2 years old... how does it developed since then Bjornee??
Xarfax1
PS: Ive an plain white coca cola polar bear..his bottle in the right hand is unfortunately broken and the red heart he has in the left hand has lost its coca cola signature. Now ..that reminds me of the warm summer night at Catalonia Coast in Spain, with this little circus near the beach and the girl that won it giving me a sweet...errrm..lets change the object .
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Consis
Honorable
Legendary Hero
Of Ruby
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posted June 30, 2004 07:56 PM |
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Agree With Xarfax111,
Bjorn190 please continue. I would very much like to hear more if possible. Thankyou for the thread revival Xarfax111
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Frick
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and eternal n00b.
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posted July 01, 2004 11:51 PM |
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I don't know a thing about love, 'cause I never been in love before, honest. Is that normal for a 19 year old guy? :?
Anyway, we want bjorn to tell us how he's doing. Now!
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Shai-Hulud
Known Hero
Sicomor
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posted July 02, 2004 09:03 AM |
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Hey!...I've got a problem too with my relationships with girls..I'm an introvert so U don't express my feelings, even I if I know sho likes me too. I don't tell here that I like her. Also I'm so concerned at what she is says that I forget the basic ideea, what she simply expressed and start making my own disscusion...She becomes so nervous, and starts thinking that I'm not so interesting as she first thought and there she says goodbye.
My attenetion is also distracted by my dreams( and are really not porn junk...most of them are something like she's holding my head on her laps). So there I go...So far I never reached any of my dreams.
So Bjorn...You see I have an weird tendancy for cllsyfying persons...and I would say you are similar...well I have a simple advice...Start making compromises and also listen to what she really wants( maybe she didn't wanted you to see her all the time in her ongoing sufference..God knows).You have to be a combination of selfish and ready to listen.. Always try something new and don't overwhelm her with your attention. Somethimes she is the one who wishes to give all the attention( please all you gorls wand women say if I am wrong...)
Frick...I believe that is a problem... 19 you said... well it's a big problem... you see.. I'm only 17 and got hurt 3-4 times and the first one was at 13-14, so you should try heeting into a group (which also has some avaible girls) cause I don't know if you can be classified. You should have hot hurt by now cause I really don't know how will you handle your situation... I hope you're not an computer addict, cause most of the time this is the reason. If it is, find a very quick solution or you'll be in the imposibility to get your life on.. and when you'll want to take your life back, your life wont want you.. Or get youself reading something that will inspire you ( and am not saying to read a stupid magazine... that would be very ******) I would recomande you something by Eliade( Romanian) but I don't think you will find the book in English, most probably in French.
Hey! I've got an ideea...we should share one of your experiences ( not you Consis, we already know all the history after 22, tell us before that period ) By the wat, greay posts... Keep up your style and everlasting posts) Maybe this way we will really learn something... Ohh... you to girls... we really need your advices( so that all the bastards which you were talking about will vanish ) And please...all of you don't post your sex stories with to many details... use a special board for that
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