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Aculias
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posted May 22, 2008 08:12 AM |
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There is nothing you can do.
You have to leave his wife in the care of the doctors.
All you can do is be there for him & pray she makes it out as healthy as she can.
Sepsis are mostly Bacteria & Viruses in the in the blood stream which is caused sometimes by blood poisoning of some kind.
Usually you can tell when pain can occur in most of the body & being sick.SHort of breath & rapid heart beats.
Look for many dysfunctional Syndromes.
This is a widespread disease & even with treatment the worst may happen.
Of course there is treatment that can help.
Antibiotics of course to drain out any bad stuff.
Lets hope there is nothing too much in the Dysfunction department.
Basically like most things. The sooner you deal with it when spotted the better.
The longer you have it without treatment, the harder it is.
Nothing you can do but be a friend & pray with him & worry with him.
Best comes to best, then you can live knowing he did not lose everyone.
Worst comes to worst, just keep being there & no matter how he acts.
Just deal with it bad or worst & just keep being there.
All you can do.
Good luck buddy.
Well also pray for her to make it out.
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la_ultima_hora
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STFU or DDOS
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posted May 23, 2008 02:49 AM |
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last night = DOWN HILL!
ok heres the story...
my friends and i got banned from a shopping centre called Westfield tuggerah so we went to another shopping centre called Erina Fair last night ( thurs).
We were just minding our buisness when this gang rocks up! they had weapons with them. it was scary.
this gang is well known fro bashing Emo/goths.
thats what me and my group are known as. ^
anyways, the gang drove up and down past us... and i didnt know who they were, so i threw a redbull can at them.
the car stoped.
reversed.
they got out.
i ran like a fkn retard!
then cam back.
all my friends were defending me by saying it was someone else who threw the can.
i felt so bad. i felt like a coward for not speaking up.
now my friends are in trouble from them.
anyways, they left saying they were goin to get more gang memebers.
then the fuzz came ( cops ) and security. the gang didnt come back then.
ok so then i went home. and because it was like 10pm, there wasnt any busses running. so i hopped on a train at Gosford and got off at Narara. Because i just moved to Narara, i dont know the area that well. i had to walk from the station back to the refuge.
Silly me walked 30mins in the OPPOSITE DIRECTION.
so then i had to walk all the way back 1hr in the RIGHT direction.
got home heaps late. it sucked.
and now my friends hate me. 
GRRR!!!!
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Aculias
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posted May 23, 2008 02:53 AM |
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You need to go to jail or just get your butt kicked to learn a lesson lol.
Sounds to me you need it because you like to start stuff, knowing who they are but you run away.
Or maybe your like me & dont really care if I get shot.
I dont care about this life anyways so if i get shot then so be it lol.
Maybe one day you will learn that life is not just looking out for #1 only.
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la_ultima_hora
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posted May 23, 2008 02:59 AM |
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oh yeah fkn thanx for that...
not.
and for ur info... i freaked out.
i have mental issues ok
it not my faults i is mentally retareded
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Aculias
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posted May 23, 2008 03:02 AM |
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Wait a minute what am I talking about lol.
You wont listen but I think the course your taking, you wont live over 2 yrs.
You get kicked out of your house, you are probally not in school.
You got tooken in by some guardians but who knows how long that will last.
You probally will go to jail or get killed, one of the two.
You are in a gang.
You start crap with another ruthless gang & you blabber it out here like if it's a cool thing.
Your strong like I said but your not very smart when it comes to most things you do.
Pretty funny until you lose your friends like you probally did & something like I mentioned happened.
Then maybe you will still laugh about it who knows.
Then you try to get your friends hurt because you are not street smart at all.
I give you 1-2 yrs that you will either die from doing what your doing or you will be in prison.
This age, it might be too late to make a change.
You need to shape up or pay the consequences girl.
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Aculias
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posted May 23, 2008 03:15 AM |
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Yes mental issues.
You need to seek help then.
Seems no one cares about you, otherwise you wouldnt go through the hardships.
I cant tell you.
You have to find what helps you.
Your too young & stubborn to understand reason right now.
Just keep going the way you are going.
Never know, something in the course of time may trigger a change.
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la_ultima_hora
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posted May 23, 2008 03:16 AM |
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um HELLO!
im seeing like 4 different SRINKS
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Aculias
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posted May 23, 2008 03:20 AM |
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Something is not right then.
I am speaking from experience.
Keep going the way you are & you wont last 2 yrs.
Try to find some work maybe.
I know alot more about mental issues then you think.
CHoose some wrong roads, & yes you also choose the nwrong roads, not just other people pretending to like you.
I can understand why you dont live with your parents.
Alot cant handle a handful like that.
Seems to me seeing a shrink is a waste of time.
You dont see a problem then there is no problem in your eyes.
Maybe you need to find something that makes you happy.
Or maybe try to find certain work where you dont have to associate with too much of the public.
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Aculias
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posted May 23, 2008 03:22 AM |
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Plus having mental issues is not a good thing when your in a gang.
You usually make dumb decisions that can pay dearly.
You know you & your friends could of easily died.
You need to try & watch what you say.
On ly takes one bullet.
Believe me, they dont care who you are.
There is a such thing as wannabe gang bangers & real gang bangers.
One way to tell them apart.
Most wannabe's like to vandolise & hurt people for no reason & for fun.
Most gangs it's a very serious thing.
They dont do stupid stuff like that for show.
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted May 23, 2008 05:56 AM |
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I think I may know some of the people in the gang, I am not entirely sure though. I hardly ever go out to Erina unless I go out and pick my sister up.
Where abouts in Narara do you live in? Do you live near Niagara Park school? Narara is quite close to me, about 5 minutes away. I personally think that hanging with gangs is not such a good idea, because like Aculias said, you may not last 2 years the way you are going. I know you have mental issues and such, but what you really need is friends that can support you when the going gets tough. Friends that if you make a mistake, they won't hate you and instead, will try to help you.
When the going got tough for me in school, my friends helped me. If I was going to punch some guys head in, they stopped me and just walked me to get a drink just to cool off and think about things. Those are the kinds of friends that are awesome.
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Aculias
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posted May 23, 2008 07:21 AM |
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Not easy relying on yourself when you dont even have family helping you out.
Basically gave up on you.
Friends getting you in the biggest trouble, not just in trouble at school etc.
I cant say it's not right because your only what 16-18. You still want to have fun & live the fun life.
Just got to make the right decisions.
Probally should find a BF like I said who can support you.
I am an equalist but right now i think you need to be suported while you get your life together while he takes care of you.
Easiar said then done.
What does it take to get it through your head, well sometimes it takes a bad experience. Sometimes a little one.
Whatever it is, lets hope it's nothing too dangerous.
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Azagal
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posted May 23, 2008 11:04 AM |
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For once I completly agree with Aculias.
(EDIT: starting from his first post of this page to the last!)
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JoonasTo
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posted May 23, 2008 12:34 PM |
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It's funny, I think for the first time I understand what Pecu is talking about and it actually makes sense.
I must have been spending too much time in HC. 
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Moonlith
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posted May 23, 2008 02:22 PM |
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@La_ultima_hora: You don't throw product-wrappings / cans at strangers OR on the street, period. I deem people who do that antisocial street-trash. Otherwise known as "pathetic youths".
No offense, but you got what you deserved.
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Aculias
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posted May 23, 2008 05:22 PM |
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You know in my life I made some big mistakes.
I take it with me in life & it helps me change who I am.
Having mental problems is half an excuse.
I known people having it in a young age.
I do understand but i you keep using it as an excuse down the road. it wont help you.
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Setitetart
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posted May 23, 2008 05:59 PM |
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quote]For once I completly agree with Aculias.
(EDIT: starting from his first post of this page to the last!)
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It's funny, I think for the first time I understand what Pecu is talking about and it actually makes sense.
I must have been spending too much time in HC.
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@La_ultima_hora: You don't throw product-wrappings / cans at strangers OR on the street, period. I deem people who do that antisocial street-trash. Otherwise known as "pathetic youths".
No offense, but you got what you deserved.
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You know in my life I made some big mistakes.
I take it with me in life & it helps me change who I am.
Having mental problems is half an excuse.
I known people having it in a young age.
I do understand but i you keep using it as an excuse down the road. it wont help you.
Yep, first time in HC history that something Acu said was understood by more than one person. Heh...that's pretty awesome.
I agree with most of this...except that having "mental issues" is half of an excuse.
No offense meant BUT...
It's not any excuse to act like that, i.e. throwing things at people/cars, getting kicked out of places etc..
Sorry, but every-freaking-one these days uses that "I have issues" excuse to behave badly and get away with it. It's one thing if a person really does have problems, but I've rarely seen anyone that truly does have problems running around acting like a horse's behind. Maybe because they are too busy trying to get their issues dealt with so it doesn't affect their lives...
And if you're seeing 4 shrinks...someone isn't doing their job because you should only need one good shrink. Quanity doesn't always equal quality.
Just saying...sounds juvenile to me and like you really aren't interested in getting real help.
But of course, I could be wrong.
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Azagal
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posted May 23, 2008 06:05 PM |
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I feel kind of stupid only saying "I agree" but there really isn't much to say... Setitarte is pretty much right aswell .
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It's not any excuse to act like that, i.e. throwing things at people/cars, getting kicked out of places etc..
Sorry, but every-freaking-one these days uses that "I have issues" excuse to behave badly and get away with it. It's one thing if a person really does have problems, but I've rarely seen anyone that truly does have problems running around acting like a horse's behind. Maybe because they are too busy trying to get their issues dealt with so it doesn't affect their lives...
Ahh... so true yet far to few really see it that way.
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Setitetart
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posted May 23, 2008 06:12 PM |
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I feel kind of stupid only saying "I agree" but there really isn't much to say... Setitarte is pretty much right aswell.
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It's not any excuse to act like that, i.e. throwing things at people/cars, getting kicked out of places etc..
Sorry, but every-freaking-one these days uses that "I have issues" excuse to behave badly and get away with it. It's one thing if a person really does have problems, but I've rarely seen anyone that truly does have problems running around acting like a horse's behind. Maybe because they are too busy trying to get their issues dealt with so it doesn't affect their lives...
Ahh... so true yet far to few really see it that way.
That's not stupid. I have no idea why the rest of your comment didn't post but you are right, far too few people really see it that way...
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Corribus
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The Abyss Staring Back at You
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posted May 23, 2008 06:24 PM |
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Therapists can only really help you if there is an actual desire to improve your life. Therapists can help you by drawing you a map and highlighting the possible paths to improvement, but you are the one who actually has to take the steps to get there. Someone who is throwing cans at cars has no desire or will to grow up, and 50,000 psychologists wouldn't be any help, let alone 1 or 4.
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OmegaDestroyer
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Fox or Chicken?
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posted May 23, 2008 06:26 PM |
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Well said Corribus.
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Wrath and raving I will not stop
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