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mvassilev
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posted June 12, 2009 04:04 AM |
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Elvin
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posted June 12, 2009 04:11 AM |
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A discussion about being afraid to face the dreaded silence might be a little funny indeed  Time you spend with a loved one is meant to be relaxing, fun, devoid of nervous thoughts of inadequacy or similar things. If you have something that is eating away at you you should probably share it, otherwise enjoy your time together or make her a better suggestion. Anyway that's just being a teenager, not easy to control your emotions at the time.
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william
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posted June 12, 2009 04:20 AM |
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Alright, it's a new day and I decided to read your post, much to my disappointment. Can't believe I just did that. lol
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What makes me sick is the constant snow that comes from you,
Constant snow that comes from me? Mate, I haven't hardly been posting in the OSM for a long time so please, be quiet and try to make some sense once in a while. And you wonder why people have such problems with you. You make up so much crap that it just makes me laugh and probably makes other people laugh as well. Seriously listen to yourself for once. You're not the be all and end all on this forum. You don't know everything. You think you're right all the time. It gets old and people will eventually get sick of it. Sure you may be some OSM veteran (lol) but you're not always right. So give it a rest and shut up for once. Thank you.
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You know what makes me even more sick? The same people like you, who will probably grow up in 10 years, will get replaced by others. Even after they say "boy, imagine how I've taken trivial things seriously 10 years ago..." it's just that it's endless supply and, for some like you here, the arrogance and stubborness is taken to a childish level.
Nah man, I'm probably gonna take chances, probably try to get some experience in the relationships and love and stuff while in 10 years, You'd probably be doing the same as you are now, arguing with people on the Internet. Grow up.
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So what is your problem with me posting my opinion? Is this pro-teen-drama-only forum or what?
My problem is that you don't know what you're talking about. My problem is that you also go off-topic a lot of the time. Isn't that a recurring problem with you though? I wonder why you don't listen to all this?
I know that by me posting this, you're just going to argue the point with me as usual and I don't care. Do what you want. I'm only going to laugh because you take this so seriously. Have fun wasting your time TheDeath.
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Azagal
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posted June 12, 2009 04:30 AM |
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Edited by Azagal at 04:34, 12 Jun 2009.
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The "girlfriend with friends that I don't like?". Or the "I don't know what to say, so I'll HAVE to say something, cause you know, she will think I'm boring or something OMG... oh man, I'm so nervous!". How is that even a problem? Or do you think we're in some teen anime or something? seriously people get real.
Yes exactly. GET REAL. The stereotypes you describe are in some cases very very real. Now you are right that such matters don't ammount to a hill of beans, they are ridicolous. The problem is you don't seem to realize of what vital importance these "problems" are when you're a teenager. It's horrible you are dying over the most ridicolous and trivial matters. It's not "logical" or "calm", why can't you just understand that? You're too idealistic and therefore too naive in your beliefs, as right as you may be. We are talking about freaking p-u-b-e-r-t-y.
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If these are such serious problems, you would find them serious in 10 years too. I rarely hear people (in fact not at all) thinking about such "grave" matters anymore, why? 
Because they have matured obviously. I don't get it. You say yourself that they're immature then how the hell do you exspect them to be mature? Telling them doesn't help.
Dude... just accept the fact that these problems aren't solved by logic. And no matter how hard you try to say that they are meaningless and ridicolous (which they'll surely be once you've matured) they are not. Not in this age and not in puberty.
Semi-understandable?
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Aw man I gotta work on the timing of my posts oO.
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mvassilev
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posted June 12, 2009 04:39 AM |
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William:
It started out funny. It isn't any more.
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you're not always right
One of the most annoying things a person can say.
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I'm only going to laugh because you take this so seriously.
Isn't this a bit self-contradictory?
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It's not "logical" or "calm", why can't you just understand that?
But that's my whole advice: make your relationship more logical and calm. If you don't want to do that...
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Dude... just accept the fact that these problems aren't solved by logic.
All problems can be solved with reason.
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TheDeath
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posted June 12, 2009 04:46 AM |
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Time you spend with a loved one is meant to be relaxing, fun, devoid of nervous thoughts of inadequacy or similar things.
Abso-freaking-lutely Elvin. 
Especially if the "problem" is simply that of BEING with them (i.e being afraid of silence), which is ridiculous, since that means being with them causes you bad emotions.
I'm not talking about shyness because I am shy myself (well sortof), that is perfectly ok. But what's not ok is trying to fight with "yourself" when you are with them by thinking all those (pointless) things.
I mean why are you with him/her? To feel stressed?  (over things that shouldn't even matter)
@William: ok I may have exaggerated a bit because I was annoyed today, but when I said constantly I meant it's not like the first time you go on a rampage against me 
As for me debating, you must have some preconceived notion about that, but it's pointless to argue about it anyway (not to mention off topic). Funny thing I see people getting much more emotional on forums than me, guess who takes it much more seriously in the sense that they get it personal or something (not you, but others, I won't use names...).
@Azagal: yes you are right. I don't just try to "tell them X" I usually try to give advice to people to think differently and get them out of the situation (but doing it with the non-puberty viewpoint). (for the record, telling someone to be happy, when they are depressed, is not my style at all -- mind you, in that situation, if they are teen-depressed, I would try an approach to make them open their eyes to non-teen world, so to speak; I don't just tell them "to be happy" or whatever, I know that doesn't work).
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Azagal
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posted June 12, 2009 04:51 AM |
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Edited by Azagal at 04:53, 12 Jun 2009.
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Death why are you getting personal? I was being perfectly sincere in my post, no?
We've already had this... do not reduce me to being someone as naive and moronic that only tells people "to be happy". You have next to no knowledge about me so I'd be grateful if you wouldn't judge me. I have a pretty good understanding of human emotions and I have a lot of experience. Ask Dagoth^^. But lol it's not I need to prove anything xD. But it'd be nice if you wouldn't reduce me to a moron and keep me out of your superority complex .
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted June 12, 2009 04:59 AM |
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Edited by william at 05:01, 12 Jun 2009.
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@ Mvass
I'm not trying to be funny. And saying that someone isn't always right isn't annoying at all I think. And no it wasn't contrdictory because I wasn't taking it too seriously.
@TheDeath
Thank you. That's kinda the post I wasn't expecting and I appreciate it. I apologise if I may have insulted you or whatever.
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mvassilev
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posted June 12, 2009 06:00 AM |
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Death:
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I mean why are you with him/her?
Because you enjoy it, except for those occasional moments.
William:
Sometimes, unintentional funny is the funniest of all. But saying that someone is wrong is pointless. There is only one condition in which that may be okay, and that's if you don't have enough time to explain why. Clearly, since you wrote a fairly long post, that was not the case. So it's pointless to say that someone is wrong - just show it.
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william
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posted June 12, 2009 06:21 AM |
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Oh okay, I get you now. I guess I agree with you but I don't want to drag this thread anymore into offtopic so let's leave it at that?
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Elvin
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posted June 12, 2009 08:15 AM |
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This place is indeed explosive. Tough love
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TheDeath
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posted June 12, 2009 08:36 PM |
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Edited by TheDeath at 20:36, 12 Jun 2009.
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Death why are you getting personal? I was being perfectly sincere in my post, no?
What? You must have misinterpreted me totally. Because I thought that you said that I was only telling emilsn "stop fooling around, those 'problems' are nothing, just be happy with her", therefore I tried to explain, that I am not, and I actually understand half of his teenage viewpoint, but I approach it from a non-puberty viewpoint. That's all.
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posted June 12, 2009 08:45 PM |
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If I read some of the posts / advices here in this thread, I would bet a good amount of money some guys here never had a (serious) relationship in their life with a girl....except with Barbie maybe...
But that's just me....
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TheDeath
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posted June 12, 2009 10:03 PM |
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You may be right with the "serious" part, depending what you mean by a serious relationship. Is it when you and your partner are for more than 2 or maybe 3 years together? Or if you decide to marry?
If that is the case, then that excludes everyone here except JollyJoker and probably MightyMage (oh, and you too of course but you didn't post much or at all in this thread).
Keep in mind though that some people also divorce on the first year (again, the aforementioned posters didn't so kudos to them!).
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posted June 13, 2009 09:27 AM |
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I been together with my GF for 5 months  <3
Does that count  ???
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Doomforge
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posted June 13, 2009 10:09 PM |
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nope
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OmegaDestroyer
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posted June 14, 2009 04:29 AM |
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I hope this hasn't been posted before but I thought everyone would enjoy this.
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Doomforge
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posted June 14, 2009 09:11 AM |
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Oh boy, what insane BS 
"It would be terrible if we let sex destroy this great friendship"
Rotfl
I laugh at people who willingly give up the best relationships (based on friendship) because of some ridiculous prejudice. (of course not if they feel absolutely NO desire over each other, but in the other case, they are just stupid. period.)
Geez, reading the text destroyed my childhood.
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Mytical
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posted June 14, 2009 09:27 AM |
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Hmm I have not been without a companion for longer then a couple of months at a time for 10 years. Most of my relationships last years, and we part on very good terms. I STILL know very little about what most people consider a relationship. Yeah I know enough that if you don't put an effort in, a relationship will fail. If you expect a relationship to fail, it will fail.
If you can not trust your partner, then the most you can hope for is a sexual relationship. Any deeper relationship will fail.
That experience is a better teacher in most things, but relationships especially. You can read all the books, get all the advice, and know all the statistics you want. Experience trumps all of that.
That love can be painful and terrible and heartbreaking, but it can be so worth it. The more you risk, the bigger the return.
That you are the most fortunate person in the world when a wonderful, brilliant, and sexy person trusts you completely. It is an experience like no other..
But I am not 'normal', and I like that.
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Elvin
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posted June 14, 2009 11:42 AM |
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I don't think that was the point Doom, that girl is really messed up and she knows it. Would not want to inflict all her insecurity crap on her friend, besides stay long enough a friend and you cannot be seen as something else. Ah women
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