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posted December 12, 2004 09:33 PM |
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I like handtrolds rock, don't diss it IVY.
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posted December 12, 2004 10:47 PM |
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i had a friend in elementary, a class mate, and he masturbated once on class! Just like that, hiding behind the book, with the teacher in front of him talking (woman, but she was definately not the reason for his turn on  ). I couldnt believe (we were sixth grade), but he didnt get caught. Imagine if he did, but thats part of the excitement you know.
geez, and what was the reaction of his classmates, especially that of female ones???
and now i understand why Macedonia scored so high in that sex survey
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TheRealDeal
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Foobum* of Justice!
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posted December 12, 2004 10:51 PM |
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That last one actually frightend me a little 
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posted December 13, 2004 12:56 AM |
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From Something Positive
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Svarog
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statue-loving necrophiliac
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posted December 14, 2004 02:36 AM |
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Let's make Svarog happy and say "because society taught us so"
As much as you like to sound ironic here, I dont think you even realize how satiric it is.
Good answer. 
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Asmodean
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posted December 14, 2004 01:07 PM |
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I can't believe this passed by without remark!!!
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While my pants were still on. Kinda hard to do it through the inside of the pocket, but kinda rewarding ()
So here's my remark - EWWWWWWW!!!!
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Valeriy
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posted December 14, 2004 09:44 PM |
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Nice thread Svarog and nicely done without any COC violations on this touchy subject +QP. I applaud your intention to discuss this risky topic to peoples' benefit and without offence to anyone.
I voted once or twice per week. It varies up and down from that really.
I'm also surprised to see the responce to the poll. We are quite a liberated bunch.
My opinion about masturbation is that it is natural (even found in animals), and god is the one who made our hands dangle at about that height. Although I've never visited the site I once stumbled upon rotten.com page about masturbation, it provides a detailed and researched history of how people related to masturbation in the last several centuries. It can be found in google, but be advised that the site contains near-pornographic pictures and other content some people will find disturbing.
I think that like anything, masturbation is not good or bad, but either serves you or doesn't. It can have detrimental effects when done in excess (whatever excess is for you). And it has a positive effect of exploring our own sexuality and sensuality - being attentive to our own wants makes us more attentive to our (future) partner's, and of course to our own.
Sometimes its good not to resort to mastrurbation to release the build-up of stressful energy because then you'll be forced to find constructive ways of dealing with that stress and you'll make appropriate changes to your life. Constantly letting the steam out may prevent you from making positive changes to avoid the stress build up in the first place.
But if it's just for the sake of being with yourself, I say it's very positive.
People who are not in a comitted relationship are far better off to enjoy themselves then to seek physical intimacy from non-consenting parties. How many rapes could be avoided if people didn't feel guilty about enjoying themselves!
On the right it says "I came. I saw. I clicked. Please take this brief survey." hehe
To sum it up, if people would not feel guilty about being intimate with themselves, they wouldn't try to create superficial intimacy with other people, which often creates many hurts and problems. That's what all over TV right now - young people creating relationships and having sex without really knowing each other. The movies usually end at that point and don't show what happens when the partners find out more about each others' real selves beyond their horny infatuation.
People's fantasies while they masturbate are also a very interesting subject as it reveals a lot about their emotional needs and insecurities.
As for the setting, I prefer the solitude of home
Cmon mods, why so quiet? I'm sure you voted
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posted December 14, 2004 10:04 PM |
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That was a really good post... everything that was meant to be said about this subject was mentioned in that reply. After reading it I decided to finally vote myself... but thanks for just bringing everything more into the reality of things. Hopefully some others benefitted from the post.
I believe, like you said, one should not become dependant on it for releasing built up stress. It's similiar to drugs and how people become dependant on them to help them make it through difficult times. I'd say a true fighter may be measured by how well he fights his own battles without external aid.
At the same time, as you mentioned, it can be very important to satisfy your own needs and desires to simply get the best out of life...
And, Svarog, that was brave of you to start a thread about a subject like this... you deserved the QP...
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posted December 16, 2004 02:26 AM |
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Thank you very much Valery for your appreciation of this thread, and more importantly for giving your input here.
Its good so many people voted on the poll, and we've got an interesting symetrical graph there, but too few were ready to share their opinion publicly unfortunately.
I dont agree that masturbation, however, can ever have any detrimental effects, as long as it's done as a result of one's own determance, not under social pressure. Excess is really a subjective thing, in fact anything above your personal desire, would be called excessive.
However, masturbation can be harmful, when sex with real partners is replaced with self-pleasurement due to various sexual complexes. But as far as teenagers are concerned that are not in the position to have sex whenever they want, there's no reason to be afraid of overdosing. From what I've read and heard, this seems to be the consensus among sexologists, psychologists and sociologists.
I also liked what you said about instant sex on movies. Nowdays, masturbation is a healthy sexual practice that helps us discover more about ourselves, much more than bang-bang-leave does.
Val, you mentioned a site at rotten, and that reminded me of something.
jackinworld.com
I wonder if this thing still works (its been 5 years). Lets just say I used to visit long time ago.
Its very informative and educational site concerning everything in and around masturbation and more. There're polls, question-of-the-week responses, articles, and most importantly proffessional advice and help. Even some weird masturbation techniques. Plus, no profanity or bad language whatsoever.
If anyone of you cyberwanks is interested, this is an excellent site, if it still works.
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pandora
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The Chosen One
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posted January 04, 2005 09:20 PM |
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bloody new years resolution!
OKay, so i said I would contribute to threads that i thought were interesting, and i don't want to break my HC resolution so soon - so here goes
Svarog had an excellent point about members speaking openly being helpful to younger members who may be fearful of different taboos, I think this holds especially true for girls/women.
For a woman, achieving release is generally not as simple as it is for men - and there's no 'one way' that's going to do it for every woman. Therefore, masturbation becomes a pretty important thing for a woman that wants to learn about her own sexuality. Also, since (especially when younger) men do little more than leave us frustrated, its becomes a handy tool in that respect as well
Unless you are lucky enough to have a very experienced lover - knowing what gets you to your 'special place' before the man is involved is a huge asset. Not to mention, i find that men tend to like getting a little direction too
So while I'm not saying all girls should masturbate, people should always and only ever do what they feel comfortable with - it is a great way to learn what you like. Not to mention it can be rather fun too!
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Moo,I say.
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posted January 04, 2005 09:57 PM |
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why are you people so upset about masturbating? Itīs the way to find your real sexuality (except for the reproducting mechanics).As mentioned in the above posts I canīt think of a thing more abou IT.the weirdest place I tried to did it (Iīm younger ya know) was while walking on a beach road in last summer.I donīt know about u but Im gonna try it sometime.
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Foobum* of Justice!
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posted January 04, 2005 10:02 PM |
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Online Masturbation, Anyone? ;)
First off, QP Well diserved
Second of all.. Masturbation is a very helpfull tool now a days, but there is a thing that all masturbaters FEAR. What if someone walks in on you?..
This can be easily handled by the fact that you AIN'T livin at home... but some of us haven't got that party-package . It hasn't happened to me, but i would dread it if it happened.. I don't mind masturbatin at all, but sitting with your boomstick and someone noticing the mighty fwapping from the loins.. Oh my god.
It must be even worse to be svarog though, people comming in on him, because they heard him cry out OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU -Insert Random Statues Name Here-
People who do it in public, i'll never get. At the last party at my highschool some kid fwapped his pocket rocket in the corner, for the world to see(and it did, the power of a camera). His statement was "I did it, and i'll do it again!", now i fear that person. The mighty thruster of meat.
The worst thing i've ever heard of, was some dude wanking the fuzzbear to a harry potter movie. He proclaimed "That Hermione.. is so hot". Noone ever spoke to him again. Freaky, but true stuff here.
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posted January 04, 2005 11:18 PM |
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How old is she, 14? Well I guess if the boy is around that age it should be ok, I started when I was 10 and sometimes thought people in movies were cute but it was almost exclusively older girls. I remember a time when I was 12 and I was sitting in front of the TV doing my thing because the girl hosting the childrens show was so hot (around 19) and suddenly she said she could see everyone watching the show and waved and said a few names, I froze in terror for a second and then panicked!There's this one movie I just can't watch now because I remember masturbating to it too often and if I see it now it freaks me out.
If the guy is around 20 it really is creepy. There was this one girl a class below me who was 13 and was dating a 19 year old and I really didn't like that situation even though I didn't like her. I started school one year early and mostly liked girls one year older than me, if I had to compete with much older boys too it would be so much harder to find someone. There's no need to feel pity for the girl because of being taken advantage over btw, he was sort of a geek and she was the dominant one and it ended because he didn't want to do it with her, maybe if they waited 1-2 years and because she was just out to lose her virginity she broke up with him and found someone else to do it shortly afterwards.
I filled in the 9+ category, thought that to be low for the max amount. I'm somewhere from 10-14 usually and know a guy in the 30 range.
Can't remember who said this, but it really fits me!
"I have so much love to give, but no one to give it to"
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posted January 05, 2005 03:36 AM |
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know a guy in the 30 range.
Damn, that's alot of masturbating.
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Rage08
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posted January 06, 2005 07:39 PM |
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30 times every week...
That's gotta be tough on the hardware...
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posted January 06, 2005 11:21 PM |
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Yes, it is, and I don't recommend it. He got rather insensitive down there and it was very rare that his girlfriend was able to get him off even if they tried for 2 hours. She wanted him to stop doing it so they would have a better sex life but he couldn't agree with it since she was only over for the weekends and that was way too long in his opinion.
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Valeriy
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Naughty, Naughty Valeriy
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posted January 07, 2005 12:39 AM |
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4-5 times per day?! 
That must take a quarter of a day with such frequency in order to achieve desired results each time
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Svarog
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posted January 07, 2005 02:37 AM |
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I think I should better change my explanation for excessive up there.
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posted January 10, 2005 03:07 PM |
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Fun fact: Gymnastics was introduced to the Norwegian schools as a means of stopping children from masturbating. It was believed that physical activity helped to cool the urges.
I just remembered one of the reasons I hate taboos.
My sisters bf, from now on refered to as "Carl" fell through the ice on a lake once, when he was a boy. He was in the icy water for a while, but the people he was with got him out of there, and he survived (obviously ).
Now, everyone thought he got away from it with only the fright, but that wasn't true.
During his stay in the water, his testicles had frozen.
He was only 8-12 years or so at this time, and so he was a little shy to tell his parents that his balls were hurting. Finally, the pains became too much for him to deal with, and so he went and told his mom. He was taken to hospital, where they found out that he'd have to amutate one of his testicles.
So, as a result of society's taboos (if only a indirect result), Carl's chances of becoming a biological father has shrinked, my sisters chance to have a child with the man she seems to love in slim, and I probably won't be a biological uncle, if this turns out to be the guy my sister wants to spend her life with.
An easy reason for my hate.
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posted January 10, 2005 03:18 PM |
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Note To Self:
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I find that men tend to like getting a little direction too
No argument here.
"a little direction"  healthy communication
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